The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[OS Butch]

Wow! I hope you got the fence done! I hope everything is going well in spite of it.

Originally Posted by ruthie14

turns out the pain in my hand is partially, a nerve problem in my elbow. Dr wants to take care of the elbow and see what happens to the wrist. MRI didn't show anything in the wrist. Most likely a small tear they can't see. If it doesn't calm down, they may go in and "do some scraping" ouch! will schedule surgery for elbow soon. Still have neck dr to see.

Sister and her wife have been visiting from Alaska. Neighbors rotty jumped the fence and bit my sisterinlaw. Had to report it. Police had to come out. Now they are claiming we are harrassing them... uhhh really?? Police don't believe him. Rotty was not registered so he is being slapped with a fine. Has to provide proof of up to date shots. They will not put in a new fence (of course he told the cop he would) bc he is out of work (always out of work) and can't afford it. REALLY??? and we can?? Have to do it in order to keep my 72 year old mother and my little Bella safe. Thanks God for a home depot credit card and a family friend who will let us pay him on time for the labor and not charge us much as it is.

OYE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ruthie14]

Originally Posted by OS Butch

Wow! I hope you got the fence done! I hope everything is going well in spite of it.

fence got done by friday thank God! The dog can still get out of their back yard and into their front yard, but for now at least my back yard is safe.

feeling blue today. A lot going on...including a$$ of a neighbor.

I am too nice and do too much for folks. I got burnt by someone recently and I am sad about that. I won't let them take advantage of me anymore. A woman I am interested in, well, lets just say she isn't ready for a relationship. She is interested in me, but not yet ready. I am not waiting. There is a woman on a singles site that said she wants just friends, but the rate of speed she has pushed for just meeting up is, well, too fast. It will be a while before I meet her or give out my phone or email address. Just wrote me this morning, I wrote her back and already wants all that info. ahhhhh no...

things are strange at my job... It is a franchise daycare, I think corprate is either going to take over or sell to another owner. They are NOT happy with him. Neither are we. The order that was suppose to come in at the end of the month has yet to arrive. hmmmmmmmm He blew off a meeting with big wigs.. haven't seen him in almost a month. Fishy Hopefully I at least have a job.

Have a wonderful week my friends.
Ruthie

[OS Butch]

Originally Posted by ruthie14

fence got done by friday thank God! The dog can still get out of their back yard and into their front yard, but for now at least my back yard is safe.

I am glad you got that done. Please call Animal control any time you see that dog loose. You may save someone else from being bitten. Around here if a dog bites, it is quarantined. Then may or may not be returned to the owner unless owner can prove that steps have been taken to kept the dog in the yard. Some jurisdictions have banned some breeds of dogs.

Originally Posted by ruthie14

feeling blue today. A lot going on...including a$$ of a neighbor.

I am too nice and do too much for folks. I got burnt by someone recently and I am sad about that. I won't let them take advantage of me anymore. A woman I am interested in, well, lets just say she isn't ready for a relationship. She is interested in me, but not yet ready. I am not waiting. There is a woman on a singles site that said she wants just friends, but the rate of speed she has pushed for just meeting up is, well, too fast. It will be a while before I meet her or give out my phone or email address. Just wrote me this morning, I wrote her back and already wants all that info. ahhhhh no...

Doo doo happens. Been there and done it time and again. By all means, you take meeting new people at a comfortable pace for you. Maybe if you couple get a group of friends to go for coffee and this person would make it less ...oh what would be the word....I dunno, It will come to me at 3am!

Originally Posted by ruthie14

things are strange at my job... It is a franchise daycare, I think corprate is either going to take over or sell to another owner. They are NOT happy with him. Neither are we. The order that was suppose to come in at the end of the month has yet to arrive. hmmmmmmmm He blew off a meeting with big wigs.. haven't seen him in almost a month. Fishy Hopefully I at least have a job.

Have a wonderful week my friends.
Ruthie

Sounds like alot going on over there! I like going to work, the most drama free job, just hop on my mower and go from 8am to whenever we get the last client done...Does make for a long day if we get called off because of rain. I love being outside

I hope you have a great week.

Jo

[WingsOnFire]

Oh my goodness it has been ages since I posted in this thread.. How is everyone doing? Will have to catch up on whats happening with everyone...

It is cold in Oregon today... been in the 70s today its 54 but feels more like 40 lol.. I havent been around cold like this in a while so I guess I will get used to it..

[OS Butch]

Good evening folks! Been playing in the arcade again. I really need to stop doing that because it gets my brain to active and then I can't fall asleep. I hope everyone had a great weekend!