Identity, Authenticity - Do they conflict?

[Sachita]

Originally Posted by dykeumentary

I think the most interesting aspect of this thread is the question: is the whole greater than the sum of it's parts? If identities are stars in a vast sky what can be gained by seeing the whole universe as a wondrous collection, versus focusing on a few stars? I prefer to ponder the OP as not about clinging to indentities, but rather transcending them. Thoughts?

I get this.

Even the little bit I share here I find people want to authenticate me and try and label me. I get this from comments people make and see how they form judgments. People place way to much value on words.

My community sees me as an advocate for animals and farming. The mature woman who has all those animals. lol I meet with a few women friends here and there, my age who enjoy art and nature. They might swing by after bible study to take a walk with me or see what I'm growing. Most people know I'm a lesbian but don't talk about it. Most don't really care and have no idea about the personal inner workings of my life. I don;t hide it. I just don't announce it. I come here to share this part of me but often find it sad when the community I turn to for support wants to judge and label me.