Butch visibility

NerdieGirl · 05-13-2013, 11:10 AM

I, thus far, have only dated butch or FTM folks. I always worry about safety when it comes to my partners, especially in the bathroom. One of my ex's had so many bad experiences that she refused to use a public bathroom. My heart broke over this. Something I easily take for granted was something that caused paralyzing fear in her. I would offer to go with her, but even then she still struggled. I often complain about being an "invisible femme", but often forget to count the times that I have hidden behind that invisiblilty.

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05-13-2013, 11:10 AM	#11
NerdieGirl Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Banned 6/24/13 -Previously banned user "kaTE09" back under new name. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: No thank you. Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Midwest Posts: 65 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 204 Thanked 262 Times in 56 Posts Rep Power: 0	I, thus far, have only dated butch or FTM folks. I always worry about safety when it comes to my partners, especially in the bathroom. One of my ex's had so many bad experiences that she refused to use a public bathroom. My heart broke over this. Something I easily take for granted was something that caused paralyzing fear in her. I would offer to go with her, but even then she still struggled. I often complain about being an "invisible femme", but often forget to count the times that I have hidden behind that invisiblilty.