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And it sounds like a *lovely* trait to have
CCB - I often want to hit my introverted partners with a brick for sitting there and not responding. But it's also endearing to me to have that low-level conflict. I've also learned to sit and wait. They learned to tell me "Hang on, let me think about that" - if told, I will kick back and amuse myself with the 72 other things in my head. lol I'm also 45 now and I know a bit better how to give people space. I don't take it personally anymore. I respect it. I need mine too. Plus I find it somewhat endearing if someone wants to hit me with a brick at times. Brick-play. Powerful. mmmmmmm..... And I thought, a long as time ago "J" would be annoying. but you know what? I'm such and open person and fluid that for me, I actually enjoy someone else's "J" - it sparks good debate and I like that. "T" also sparks a good debate with me. And I personally get randy with some low level playful bickering and I like someone laughing and getting off on my "NO IT ISN'T, INFINITY PLUS ONE!" princess stomp But I dont think I would have appreciated it as much in those when I was younger. My Exwife was an INFJ and we had a bloody ball together. And I do have to admit, her "protective" function (J's got that thang in shedloads) was very sexy. I dunno, depends on their maturity? Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 10-01-2014 at 01:51 PM. |
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