do Butches /Daddys have the green light to be rude and /or bossy in public ?

MsTinkerbelly · 07-24-2015, 01:48 PM

In **my** opinion bossy does not equal rude, and rude to any service person in public is unacceptable.

Go home and be a dick if you have to, but leave people working hard for their money alone....and keep in mind that people have been known to spit in the food of rude/bossy people.

Tuff Stuff · 07-24-2015, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly

In **my** opinion bossy does not equal rude, and rude to any service person in public is unacceptable.

Go home and be a dick if you have to, but leave people working hard for their money alone....and keep in mind that people have been known to spit in the food of rude/bossy people.

I agree with your opinion,this is why I always leave a nice tip.

The spit in food thing I don't like,but you're a nice person to give rude/bossy people that warning.

imperfect_cupcake · 07-25-2015, 10:43 AM

"Bossy" in my universe means pulling authority and giving orders/advice over someone else you don't have the permission/social contract to do so with.
Like telling some random person how to dress "properly" without having been asked for an opinion is bossy.
You boss telling you how to dress properly for work when you have shown up in unacceptable clothes is not bossy.

Telling someone how to do their job, when you aren't their boss, rather than just pointing out their error, that affects you, is bossy.

I'm bossy

But I get told off about it in playful sarcastic ways that make me laugh.
Plus, you know, I don't mind getting taken down in fun ways

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imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	"Bossy" in my universe means pulling authority and giving orders/advice over someone else you don't have the permission/social contract to do so with. Like telling some random person how to dress "properly" without having been asked for an opinion is bossy. You boss telling you how to dress properly for work when you have shown up in unacceptable clothes is not bossy. Telling someone how to do their job, when you aren't their boss, rather than just pointing out their error, that affects you, is bossy. I'm bossy But I get told off about it in playful sarcastic ways that make me laugh. Plus, you know, I don't mind getting taken down in fun ways