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Superlative Soul Sister
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You are an Animated Visionary.
Your imagination, self-assuredness, and knowledge of the world combine to make you a VISIONARY. You have clear notions of how things could be, and the confidence to try to make them that way. You enjoy having a routine, and prefer comfort and familiarity to risk and adventure. Not needing others' approval to forge ahead, you are confident in your designs for the future. Your imagination allows you to envision the world as a better place. You're better at thinking of the big picture than you are with details, and you can see wonder in abstract things. Style and appearances are important to you, and you have a good eye for beauty. You are somewhat rigid in your beliefs, which comes from both confidence and an aversion to change. You are good at creating works of art in forms with which you're familiar. You're not one to force your positions on a group, and you tend to be fair in evaluating different options. You're not afraid to let your emotions guide you, and you're generally considerate of others' feelings as well. You have a strong sense of style and value your personal presentation - friends may even seek your style advice from time to time. Generally, you believe that you control your life, and that external forces only play a limited role in determining what happens to you. If you want to be different: Appreciate the earthly, functional elements of things. Your clarity of vision sometimes prevents you from being open to new ideas. Try expanding your horizon of experiences, and experimenting with novel ways of doing things. how you relate to others You are Animated You are outgoing, comfortable with others, and up for anything, which makes you ANIMATED. Some people find crowds and parties exhausting, but not you! You are able to be yourself in many situations. Sometimes it is hard for you to understand why others feel the way they do, but that doesn't stop you from trusting them or having faith that they are good people. You know the world is complicated and that there is often more than one side to a story, so you are careful not to make judgments about others too hastily. You would rather experience the world than sit back and observe it—you are not one to sit on the sidelines. You are an independent thinker and don't get too worried about how others might perceive you—you are not self-conscious about being the active, engaged person that you are. Although you have a keen understanding of different people's life circumstances, you occasionally have trouble seeing why people get so upset and emotional about things—they should just lighten up and have fun! In addition to having faith in the world, you have faith in the people around you—you trust others to do the right thing and to be honest. If you want to be different: Remember that time alone can be just as fulfilling as time spent with others—take some time for yourself and you might find that there are many things in your inner world that are just as compelling as the world outside your window. Your open-mindedness about the ways of world gives you an understanding of people's differences, but that knowledge doesn't always translate into sympathy. Don't be afraid to let your trust and understanding influence your feelings. Last edited by Orema; 08-02-2015 at 05:29 AM. |
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You are an Advocating Experiencer.
personalDNA about you You are an Experiencer Your inquisitive nature, imagination, and hands-on practicality make you an EXPERIENCER. Although you have an active imagination, you also concern yourself with the functional elements of things. You are willing to experiment to find things that work the most efficiently. Getting stuck in certain habits is boring to you—you'd rather find new experiences. Accordingly, experiences are more important to you than objects—you'd rather spend your money and energy on events and adventures than on material things. You like to contemplate a lot of options before making a decision, and you're willing and able to consider a lot of different angles to problems. You're open to suggestions, and often rely on others to assess the merit of those suggestions. You have an ability to see the big picture—not just how things are, but how they could be—in a variety of situations. You're not one to force your positions on a group, and you tend to be fair in evaluating different options. You're well-attuned to your emotional state, and not afraid to use your feelings to guide you. You tend to be cooperative, rarely contradicting others, and always considerate of their feelings. You tend to do things on the spur of the moment, not sticking to a set schedule. You tend to believe that things happen for a reason, and that not everything is under our control. If you want to be different: Have faith that your imagination and practicality will complement each other, and lead to good decisions on your part. Take the initiative in seeking things out—don't wait for them to come to you. how you relate to others You are Advocating Being social, empathic, and understanding makes you ADVOCATING. Some people find being around others exhausting—but not you! You are energized by spending time with friends, and you are good at meeting new people. One of the reasons you enjoy conversation as much as you do is that you often learn about yourself while talking things out with a friend; you realize things about your own beliefs while discussing them with others. You have insight into what others are thinking and feeling. This ability allows you to be happy for others, and to commiserate when something has gone wrong for them. You are highly compassionate, and being conscious of how things affect those close to you leaves you cautious about trusting others too hastily. Despite these reservations, you are open-minded when it comes to your worldview; you don't look to impose your ways on others. Your sensitivity towards others' plights contributes to an understanding—both intellectual and emotional—of many different perspectives. As someone who understands the complexities of the world around you, you are reluctant to pass judgments. If you want to be different: While it's important to think about others, don't forget to take some time for yourself, and occassionally to put yourself first. Take some time to spend with a few close friends; although it's difficult to find people to trust, it's worth the effort. When you have great ideas, it can be hard to relinquish control, but it can also feel good to take the pressure off and enjoy someone else leading the way. |
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you are a considerate builder.
You are detail-oriented, cautious, and practical, making you a BUILDER. You are excellent at focusing on the concrete, functional elements of things, so you're good at making things happen. Pursuing novel ways of doing things helps you to be efficient. You're great to have on a team, as you understand how things work and don't let your ego get in the way. You're perceptive, down-to-earth, and realistic. You don't see a need to commit to a set routine or schedule—you'd rather improvise a little. Although you may doubt yourself sometimes, you have the skills and the curiosity to pursue broader adventures. You like to consider a lot of information before making big decisions, and you think about that information in realistic, thorough ways. You don't concern yourself with flashy styles or surface appearances—you're far too sensible for that. Your independent streak allows you to make decisions efficiently and to trust your instincts You prefer to have time to plan for things, feeling better with a schedule than with keeping plans up in the air until the last minute. If you want to be different: Think more abstractly about things without abandoning your valuable sensibility. how you relate to others you are considerate You trust others, care about them, and are slow to judge them, making you CONSIDERATE. You value your close relationships very much, and are more likely to spend time in small, tightly-knit groups of friends than in large crowds. You enjoy exploring the world through observation, quietly watching others. Relating to others so well, and understanding their emotions, leads you to trust people in general, even though you're somewhat shy and reserved at times. Your belief that people are generally well-intentioned contributes to your sympathy regarding their problems. Although you may not vocalize it often, you have an awareness of how society affects individuals, and you understand complex causes of people's behavior. You like to look at all sides of a situation before making a judgment, particularly when that situation involves important things in other people's lives. Your close friends know you as a good listener. If you want to be different: Because other people would benefit immensely from your understanding and insight, you should try to be more outgoing in social situations, even when they make you uncomfortable. Others will want to hear what you have to say!
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