whats your style - Page 5

WintergreenGem · 11-29-2012, 12:39 AM

Pursued. I joke, play and flirt a lot, so when someone really I wouldn't catch it. They have to come after me and get my attention.

Happyfemme · 04-30-2013, 02:21 PM

I am definitely the most comfortable being the prey. I like to be pursued and I am good at letting the person know that I'm interested. I think it is just part of my nature because I like when the other person is more in charge, if that makes sense.

Jean_TX · 04-30-2013, 03:26 PM

I tend to follow a sequence and it's somewhat like a dance:
First, I am the hunter (I seek her out and make overtures),
Second, I briefly become prey (She must respond with a corresponding, yet ever so feminine, pursuit of me),
And last, I become the hunter again (I charge in for the "kill").

Overall, I am the hunter - it feels natural to me.

CXanderRun · 05-06-2013, 06:39 AM

If I'm really interested I'm most definitely the hunter however I also tend to be a 2x4 Ftm.. So if you're interested in me, unless you're really clear about it I will just think you're being friendly.

~baby~doll~ · 05-06-2013, 07:23 AM

Prey... though looking butch and being very submissive can be confusing for onlookers. i guess it is a good thing i am owned.

Tuff Stuff · 09-23-2015, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I was wondering, on this board who likes to persue and who likes to be persued? you know whats your style?

are you the hunter or the prey

Been a hunter most of my life,but I do recall that one time in '85 where they put a collar around my neck,but even then it was I who found and persued them.I like to persue Femmes but i've notice i'm being hunted by a married woman lately..is it the season? or what??.I couldn't believe the words coming out of my mouth when I said Stop.And oh gawd she is soo hot.Thing is I see her once a week where she works and she lives very near...do you know how dangerous that could be.She is a huge flirt and the last time we met she touched me and when I told her to stop she gives me this fucking goes straight to my clit evil laugh.Damnit

imperfect_cupcake · 09-24-2015, 01:17 AM

Hmn. Hard. Dominant personality mixed with submissive sexuality. I like being pursued but will make it real clear if someone is pushing too hard. I prefer relaxed, easy going, genuine interest, rather than being chased. I like mild initiation and patience.
I react very poorly to being pushed.
But I'm pretty independent. I'm not a single tackle kind of gal. I won't initiate contact. I've learned not to. I've had so many bad experiences with initiating contact that it will take me months of interaction for me to initiate for a change. I've learned that if *I* initiate, people lose interest. They've succeeded. They have won. And they lose interest. So I have to trust the person isn't like that before I try.
I may be open and frank about who I am, what I think, but I'm emotionally reserved. So it does take patience. And it will take months, not weeks, to get me to emotionally respond in a deeper way.
I saw someone recently bitching that someone she was dating hadn't committed after three months and should she drop her and go for someone else who had expressed interest. The butch is my age. These are the reasons I don't commit quickly. People like that.

So it's not hunting me... It's hand feeding something feral till it trusts enough to stay longer and longer in your presence and I decide to stay. They loyalty payback is massive, but heaps of patience needed.

Daisy Chain · 09-24-2015, 02:09 AM

I could never be the hunter, ever. I dont have that type of confidence. And to be honest if someone was to choose to pursue me, not that I`m available but if I was, they would have to be prepared to play a very long and patient game. I woudnt want to be wooed and romanced, Hy would just have to be there, be around, let me observe, who Hy was, how Hy was and how Hy conducted hymself, then maybe I would allow myself to be pursued.

I myself, love people, I like to chat, interact, share and learn. Have a little fun. I think sometimes my friendliness can be misinterpreted as the wrong type of interest in a person. HHmm..thats something I need to be more aware of.

Daisy

Tuff Stuff · 09-25-2015, 01:56 AM

It would be a great honor if I were persued by either one of you..just saying.

Sweet Bliss · 11-27-2016, 07:18 PM

I see myself as the Female Wolf, under the lamb costume disguised as Red Riding Hood. Ya, that about covers it.

LoL, no not the prey type, Have yet to meet Alpha Wolf under the baby goat costume disguised as Little Boy Blue..... maybe some day.

Hope springs eternal.

legally_b10nde · 12-01-2016, 06:44 PM

Introverted prey and like the art of seduction.

Shystonefem · 12-01-2016, 08:13 PM

I like to be the prey but I can flirt and drop signals.

akiza · 05-30-2017, 03:34 AM

definitively a prey ^^ but not an easy one

homoe · 05-30-2017, 07:16 AM

The Hunter albeit a shy one!

Stone-Butch · 05-30-2017, 11:35 AM

I flirt a lot but I rarely pursue at first. If the woman lets me know she is interested then I do pursue (gently). Always a gentlewoman with the ladies and most appreciate that.

introverted1 · 05-30-2017, 04:51 PM

I have been the initiator in nearly every relationship I have had. I'm an introvert with a shy streak, but I always have to be the initiator.

Chad · 05-30-2017, 04:56 PM

I am the hunter.

No suprise I am sure but I do appreciate a signal from a lady.

Bèsame* · 05-30-2017, 10:02 PM

I can easily walk in between the lines of both. The hunt can turn into the prey...I suppose it's the dance dynamics of Butch/Femme.

Esme nha Maire · 09-24-2017, 04:20 AM

Variable. After much consideration, that's the only sensible thing I can say without a long digression into why!

indigo · 12-07-2017, 04:28 PM

mostly I smile and dart glances and hope the other person starts a conversation...

11-29-2012, 12:39 AM	#81
WintergreenGem Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Ms, Miss Relationship Status: Married to Graham Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 347 Thanked 505 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 6005574	Pursued. I joke, play and flirt a lot, so when someone really I wouldn't catch it. They have to come after me and get my attention. __________________ Did you take the time to truly know? Last edited by WintergreenGem; 11-29-2012 at 12:40 AM. Reason: typonese

04-30-2013, 03:26 PM	#83
Jean_TX Junior Member How Do You Identify?: via driver's license Preferred Pronoun?: Jean Relationship Status: Not available Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 78 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 197 Thanked 216 Times in 61 Posts Rep Power: 1155756	I tend to follow a sequence and it's somewhat like a dance: First, I am the hunter (I seek her out and make overtures), Second, I briefly become prey (She must respond with a corresponding, yet ever so feminine, pursuit of me), And last, I become the hunter again (I charge in for the "kill"). Overall, I am the hunter - it feels natural to me. __________________ Why not just remove all the warning labels and let Nature take care of the problem?

05-06-2013, 07:23 AM	#85
~baby~doll~ Member How Do You Identify?: femme-bottom, lesbian, queer Preferred Pronoun?: feminine ones Relationship Status: Leather polyamorous family Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: with HER Posts: 1,110 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,494 Thanked 2,857 Times in 905 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Prey... though looking butch and being very submissive can be confusing for onlookers. i guess it is a good thing i am owned. __________________ i will wait to love You. i will wait another day For You i'd leave all this behind. i will wait for you tonight. iwill waste another dream on You Always run to You. Uh Huh Her

12-01-2016, 06:44 PM	#91
legally_b10nde Member How Do You Identify?: femme woman - Hello Daddy, hello mom. I'm your ch-ch-ch cherry bomb! Preferred Pronoun?: female/she/her Relationship Status: Single by choice Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: the earth Posts: 433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 127 Thanked 636 Times in 234 Posts Rep Power: 5404778	Introverted prey and like the art of seduction. __________________

12-01-2016, 08:13 PM	#92
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,672 Times in 897 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I like to be the prey but I can flirt and drop signals. __________________ Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu

04-30-2013, 02:21 PM	#82
Happyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Engaged Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: United States Posts: 1,666 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,303 Thanked 4,941 Times in 1,496 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I am definitely the most comfortable being the prey. I like to be pursued and I am good at letting the person know that I'm interested. I think it is just part of my nature because I like when the other person is more in charge, if that makes sense.

05-06-2013, 06:39 AM	#84
CXanderRun Timed Out How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Shoo, don't bother me. Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Back home in KY! Posts: 143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41 Thanked 279 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 0	If I'm really interested I'm most definitely the hunter however I also tend to be a 2x4 Ftm.. So if you're interested in me, unless you're really clear about it I will just think you're being friendly.

09-24-2015, 01:17 AM	#87
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hmn. Hard. Dominant personality mixed with submissive sexuality. I like being pursued but will make it real clear if someone is pushing too hard. I prefer relaxed, easy going, genuine interest, rather than being chased. I like mild initiation and patience. I react very poorly to being pushed. But I'm pretty independent. I'm not a single tackle kind of gal. I won't initiate contact. I've learned not to. I've had so many bad experiences with initiating contact that it will take me months of interaction for me to initiate for a change. I've learned that if I initiate, people lose interest. They've succeeded. They have won. And they lose interest. So I have to trust the person isn't like that before I try. I may be open and frank about who I am, what I think, but I'm emotionally reserved. So it does take patience. And it will take months, not weeks, to get me to emotionally respond in a deeper way. I saw someone recently bitching that someone she was dating hadn't committed after three months and should she drop her and go for someone else who had expressed interest. The butch is my age. These are the reasons I don't commit quickly. People like that. So it's not hunting me... It's hand feeding something feral till it trusts enough to stay longer and longer in your presence and I decide to stay. They loyalty payback is massive, but heaps of patience needed.

09-24-2015, 02:09 AM	#88
Daisy Chain Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Hy calls me Hys Kitten Join Date: May 2015 Location: 2nd star to the right and straight on til morning Posts: 729 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,814 Thanked 1,809 Times in 447 Posts Rep Power: 0	I could never be the hunter, ever. I dont have that type of confidence. And to be honest if someone was to choose to pursue me, not that I`m available but if I was, they would have to be prepared to play a very long and patient game. I woudnt want to be wooed and romanced, Hy would just have to be there, be around, let me observe, who Hy was, how Hy was and how Hy conducted hymself, then maybe I would allow myself to be pursued. I myself, love people, I like to chat, interact, share and learn. Have a little fun. I think sometimes my friendliness can be misinterpreted as the wrong type of interest in a person. HHmm..thats something I need to be more aware of. Daisy

09-25-2015, 01:56 AM	#89
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	It would be a great honor if I were persued by either one of you..just saying.

11-27-2016, 07:18 PM	#90
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I see myself as the Female Wolf, under the lamb costume disguised as Red Riding Hood. Ya, that about covers it. LoL, no not the prey type, Have yet to meet Alpha Wolf under the baby goat costume disguised as Little Boy Blue..... maybe some day. Hope springs eternal.

05-30-2017, 03:34 AM	#93
akiza Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: khaleessi lol ^-^ just go with aki,ana,kit or princess Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Congo-brazzaville Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 318 Thanked 623 Times in 285 Posts Rep Power: 0	definitively a prey ^^ but not an easy one

05-30-2017, 07:16 AM	#94
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,549 Times in 14,914 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	The Hunter albeit a shy one!

05-30-2017, 11:35 AM	#95
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,622 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,240 Thanked 9,287 Times in 2,998 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	style I flirt a lot but I rarely pursue at first. If the woman lets me know she is interested then I do pursue (gently). Always a gentlewoman with the ladies and most appreciate that.

05-30-2017, 04:51 PM	#96
introverted1 Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: introville Posts: 250 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 422 Thanked 740 Times in 212 Posts Rep Power: 7058202	I have been the initiator in nearly every relationship I have had. I'm an introvert with a shy streak, but I always have to be the initiator.

05-30-2017, 04:56 PM	#97
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Style I am the hunter. No suprise I am sure but I do appreciate a signal from a lady.

05-30-2017, 10:02 PM	#98
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,383 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,120 Thanked 40,946 Times in 10,734 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	I can easily walk in between the lines of both. The hunt can turn into the prey...I suppose it's the dance dynamics of Butch/Femme. __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

09-24-2017, 04:20 AM	#99
Esme nha Maire Member How Do You Identify?: Tomboyish eccentric antique femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: UK Posts: 642 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,196 Thanked 2,078 Times in 541 Posts Rep Power: 19310770	Variable. After much consideration, that's the only sensible thing I can say without a long digression into why!

12-07-2017, 04:28 PM	#100
indigo Junior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-like Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2017 Location: Germany Posts: 68 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41 Thanked 184 Times in 58 Posts Rep Power: 859004	mostly I smile and dart glances and hope the other person starts a conversation...