Instant Turn-Offs

Nattih · 11-22-2015, 10:59 PM

elusiveness - I value someone who is direct about their intentions at all times

being occupied - If they cant give me their undivided attention, I immediately want to walk away

giggleluver · 11-23-2015, 12:04 PM

Hygiene, especially not washing your hands after you go to the bathroom,

ewww

MysticOceansFL · 11-23-2015, 12:32 PM

Yes , hygiene & smokers are a huge turn off for me.
Among a few others.

Vincent · 11-23-2015, 03:48 PM

lack of manners,my Dad always said manners are free use them,and this includes how you speak and relate to others around you,if you think a homeless person is less than you,we just won't get on.
being secretive,someone who getting information out of is like pulling teeth,I don't want to know your bank details but I think communicating is very important,and I mean a dialogue.
This sounds judgemental,but believing Fox news is actually news,I just know I will drive you nuts.

kittygrrl · 11-23-2015, 04:35 PM

A person insists they never lie, but then you catch them in several
A person who insists they are always right

storyspinner70 · 11-23-2015, 08:07 PM

An instant turn off/on for me is someone's voice

You can look like Selma Hayek (my lifelong lust) or Monica Bellucci, Big Boo or even like Jensen Ackles (my man lust) but you sound like a squeaky toy or Nanny Fine, I just can't. Can't. Conversely, you're not the least bit "conventionally attractive" but you have a voice like roughened velvet or smooth like glass? I'm so there. That's like major for me.

The other big one is if we just don't click intellectually or in our humor. Those are deal breakers. I value cleverness above almost everything else.

homoe · 11-24-2015, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

A person insists they never lie, but then you catch them in several
A person who insists they are always right

YES, nothing more of a turn off than a "know it all"!

C0LLETTE · 11-24-2015, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe

YES, nothing more of a turn off than a "know it all"!

I'm not big on "know nothings" (deliberating if I should add an "lol" here)

11-23-2015, 12:04 PM	#2
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11-23-2015, 12:32 PM	#3
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11-23-2015, 03:48 PM	#4
Vincent Member How Do You Identify?: Transman Preferred Pronoun?: Him,he Relationship Status: just me Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Tweed Heads Australia Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,204 Thanked 936 Times in 335 Posts Rep Power: 12178444	lack of manners,my Dad always said manners are free use them,and this includes how you speak and relate to others around you,if you think a homeless person is less than you,we just won't get on. being secretive,someone who getting information out of is like pulling teeth,I don't want to know your bank details but I think communicating is very important,and I mean a dialogue. This sounds judgemental,but believing Fox news is actually news,I just know I will drive you nuts. __________________ https://soundcloud.com/conormont https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb1y2xyfYSw If Not Me-Who If Not Now-When If Not Here-Where

11-23-2015, 04:35 PM	#5
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11-23-2015, 08:07 PM	#6
storyspinner70 Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: VA Posts: 355 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,366 Thanked 987 Times in 289 Posts Rep Power: 8681947	An instant turn off/on for me is someone's voice You can look like Selma Hayek (my lifelong lust) or Monica Bellucci, Big Boo or even like Jensen Ackles (my man lust) but you sound like a squeaky toy or Nanny Fine, I just can't. Can't. Conversely, you're not the least bit "conventionally attractive" but you have a voice like roughened velvet or smooth like glass? I'm so there. That's like major for me. The other big one is if we just don't click intellectually or in our humor. Those are deal breakers. I value cleverness above almost everything else. __________________ So plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. ― Jorge Luis Borges

11-22-2015, 10:59 PM	#1
Nattih Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2010 Location: always on a plane Posts: 174 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 633 Times in 164 Posts Rep Power: 13046651	elusiveness - I value someone who is direct about their intentions at all times being occupied - If they cant give me their undivided attention, I immediately want to walk away