Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex?

Angeltoes · 12-11-2015, 08:37 PM

I've never had a relationship where we just drifted apart - there was always a big reason why it ended. Also, sometimes I wish I more extroverted like cupcake but I definitely do not have friends for different occasions. I'm an introvert and if I let someone into my bubble in real life that's significant to me. I'm friendly to everyone, but being friendly and being friends are totally different things. Once the relationship is over a wall comes down and it never comes back up for that person again.

Nat · 12-11-2015, 10:01 PM

Is there something personal going on here or are we really forbidden from referring to any single one of our exes as a raging douche because I think I probably have dated at least one raging douche in my life. And maybe have earned the title before myself.

Or is this like a feminist argument?

JDeere · 12-11-2015, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

Is there something personal going on here or are we really forbidden from referring to any single one of our exes as a raging douche because I think I probably have dated at least one raging douche in my life. And maybe have earned the title before myself.

Or is this like a feminist argument?

Not sure but thanks for asking this, I was about to do the same!

I have dated a few raging douches myself! I myself have had that title as well!

imperfect_cupcake · 12-12-2015, 01:07 AM

I've dated a couple cunts. A few pricks. Several assholes. A useless fuck or two... But haven't had the pleasure of having dinner with a vaginal rinse yet.

And I'm very much a feminist.

And a complete tit.

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Angeltoes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Nunya Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Bernlandia Posts: 1,740 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,286 Thanked 5,525 Times in 1,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I've never had a relationship where we just drifted apart - there was always a big reason why it ended. Also, sometimes I wish I more extroverted like cupcake but I definitely do not have friends for different occasions. I'm an introvert and if I let someone into my bubble in real life that's significant to me. I'm friendly to everyone, but being friendly and being friends are totally different things. Once the relationship is over a wall comes down and it never comes back up for that person again.

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