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11-22-2009, 02:43 PM
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Asking the Femme's for help!?!
Okay this is my dilema...
Doll asked me to buy her 2 night wears <~ I know, so old fashioned is my termanology, give me a break lol. First of all, I have no clue on how to buy a warm pajama, let alone a lingerie. She told me to feel her body and then go out and buy what I feel is right as we were dancing. I don't want to be seen in the shops trying to fondle a night gown. I don't want to get a size to big, or she will feel insulted. I don't want to get a size to small, then she may think that I think she needs to go on a diet, which she doesn't so there we have it. How do I purchase these items without insult and more so for me injury?? And she said she will not go to the store with me, that I have to surprise her. Will the surprise be on me? So I am asking for advice from my sisters out there PLEASE... |
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11-22-2009, 02:49 PM
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Ok......first.....go look at some of the things she has already....on the label at the neckline (sometimes the label is on the side seam) it will say what size it is. My guess is she's a Medium. Sometimes, sizes are by S~M~Lg, etc. Sometimes, they are by numbers: 6~8~10~12, etc. Again...I didn't check her out when You guys were here, thinking: "I think she's a size 10." hee hee But from what I remember...maybe a 10 and a size medium.....but go check her clothing and/or other pieces of lingerie. What's her favorite color? Buy it. I would say Victoria's Secret, but Macy's also has some lovely lingerie. Good luck! Oh....don't buy flannel or fleece.... |
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11-22-2009, 03:02 PM
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Thank you Diva,
Hmm, check the size label.. But she seems to buy really tight clothing, at least to me there tight. Hope she doesn't read this  I will take all of your information and  into this... but I like flannel!!! I think I will shop for myself
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11-22-2009, 03:03 PM
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 That is too funny!!Okay... here's what you do. If you cannot ask her what size she wears--really, that's the best option, but sometimes you can't--check her closet and drawers, and see what size most of her clothes are. Then, pay attention to what she wears that you like the best, and check the sizes on those items--write the size down so you don't make any mistakes, k? Now think about WHY you like it the best. Does it fit her loosely? Does it hug her curves? Next time she wears it, DO fondle her... see if you can tell what she's wearing under it. If she's wearing a corset or shaper of any kind, DO NOT buy that size in lingerie, k? Buy the size of most of her clothes, in that case. But if she's only wearing a bra--or nothing--under it, then you're good on the size. Remember there is a difference between sexy slinky lingerie for going to bed in and warm pj's for actually sleeping in. She might prefer pj's to be a little looser. Go back to thinking about your fav outfit for her, not just the way it fits, but the color and the style of it. It is plain? Does it have ruffles or lace? Is it a print, or a solid color? Is it a true clear jewel tone? A pastel? A warm autumn color? Look at all the clothes she looks best in, so you can get some sense of the colors that go best with her skintones. If in doubt, avoid buying red, orange, lime green or lemon yellow--only buy one of those colors if you're certain you can tell the right shades, k? NOW go shopping.... go to her favorite store, and have fun. Bring a color pic of her with you, and ask a salesclerk for help with colors and styles if you need to. Good luck!! Let us know how it goes! |
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11-22-2009, 03:07 PM
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Blaze--silk or satin, possibly velvet if it gets cool enough there. |
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11-22-2009, 03:12 PM
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My friend, you can look at our catalogue, print the page you like, and take it with you to a store nearby. OR, you can pick out something you like, and I will mail it to you. Also, I think Doll is a medium, but I didn't check out how big her bust was.
We are coming out with a new catalogue soon, as well. Just a suggestion, glad to help. Maybe I should be helping all the butches who want to surprise their gal. 
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11-22-2009, 03:15 PM
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If she likes flannel, that's one thing..... But for CHRISTMAS? I'm just sayin' right now, that, if You buy that girl flannel for Christmas, I will personally kick Your butt to China.  You're gonna put FLANNEL on that gorgeous girl??????Sweet Baby Jeebus. 
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11-22-2009, 03:25 PM
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Doll usually want's perfume, and this I can handle because she leaves so many hints with open magazines circled with red ink for me to catch onto. I am thinking that I can soon open my own manual on how to buy lingurie so we can help my butch brothers out there. This is awesome. Now, I will have to print all this valuable information and take it with me so that I can shop with out fear. Again, I thank you Ladies' for helping me... |
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11-22-2009, 03:30 PM
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Qoute: I said I like flannel, I should shop for me. Geeeez Diva, I look good in flannel lmao, She would look like a woodchuck. I promise not to buy flannel, ~grinz~ 100% cotton!!! That's the ticket ~runzzzzzzzzzzzzzz~ |
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11-22-2009, 03:32 PM
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I dunno, ladies.....I saw a REALLY cute fleece sleeping corset a while back. Now, if only I could remember WHERE I saw it....
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11-22-2009, 03:33 PM
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Cotton, my Aunt Fanny!
 Okay Blaze, let us know how it goes.  |
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Than you Fever for giving yet another option to my shopping spree |
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 They have fleece corsets too? Do please remembere where you saw it. |
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11-22-2009, 03:58 PM
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I may be alone in this, but I don't like Vickie's Secret.
You might try figleaves.com. They have a huge range of stuff.
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I would get her a really cute and comfortable, sexy pair of fleece or flannel PJs with matching slippers. Like >>>http://www2.victoriassecret.com/coll...ZZZ&rfnbr=5241
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hi .... I see you got a plenty suggestions already I just would like to add I shop both places VS and FOH ..... VS has much better quality of everything .
FOH stuff look nice on the website , but in reality it's cheap . I even purchased clothing from them and there it's no way I would go in public looking like that . I give it away all what I ordered . I have some nighties , but that's it . There it's a website www.fatwallet.com .... it has it's own thread for VS updated with promo codes all the time such as free shipping , etc . good luck and happy shopping 
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