NEW YEAR,What are your wishes and goals

Rockinonahigh · 12-31-2015, 11:58 AM

One thing I need to do is work on my health, having had to deal with my goofy knee and back issues have made it hard to be a s fit a s I should be I need to stop using this as a reason not to make a better effort to be in better health and more fit. It would be nice to make a bit more cash on hand but if its mint to be it will happen...or not. I will keep the world around me as peaceful and stress free as possible. I will pray for world peace then hope it happends.

easygoingfemme · 12-31-2015, 12:10 PM

Increase the amount of time I spend doing things that bring me joy and decrease the amount of time I spend doing things that suck joy from me.

Let go of things not serving me.

Help my kid get through her last year of high school and focus on what she wants next- even though this blows my mind.

Work out some work kinks for a successful year ahead.

easygoingfemme · 12-31-2016, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme

Increase the amount of time I spend doing things that bring me joy and decrease the amount of time I spend doing things that suck joy from me.

Let go of things not serving me.

Help my kid get through her last year of high school and focus on what she wants next- even though this blows my mind.

Work out some work kinks for a successful year ahead.

Totally forgot these were my statements last New Year! I am proud to say that I accomplished all of this! Although the whole letting go of things not serving me will be a lifelong challenge/lifestyle to maintain.

I killed it on goal one of spending more time on joy- had a lot of fun good times this year.

My kid finished school a year early and has been in community college and is sending in her applications for four year college.

I have a new job starting next week that meets my wants and needs on many levels.

Now to think up for the year ahead...

MysticOceansFL · 12-31-2016, 11:59 AM

I have a few things to list.
1. Get more physically fit.
2. Still eat healthy
3. Plan on meeting my gf & her family.
4. Get closer to my own family
5. More peace and unity

I'll list more later.......
Mystic~~

Shystonefem · 12-31-2016, 12:13 PM

The promises that everything new holds.

Being more humble.

Being more grateful.

Being more kind.

Taking that leap.

Fighting for the things I cannot accept.

Visiting my son in Colorado at least twice

Finally realizing that "this too shall pass"

This is the first year, in a long time, I can see promise!

Gráinne · 12-31-2015, 12:10 PM

I wish all of BFP a very Happy New Year!

As for me:

Of course, attend to my health and keep losing weight
Go back to Canada for more research
Organize my home office
In fact, organize my home better
Take the steps to advance my career (community college vs. high school)
Finish my book
Pay more mind to my spirituality (to begin with: a retreat in January)

Chad · 01-01-2016, 02:58 PM

2016

I would like to spend more time with family and friends.
I would like to find balance between work and fun.

For myself I wish for good health, lots of laughter, love, and happieness.

princessbelle · 01-01-2016, 06:35 PM

My goals are simple:

Surround myself with positive people and positive energy. To cherish each day and never let a day go by without laughter. To just keep my happy spirit filled in my heart. To remember to believe in myself. And when it comes to people, to expect less and give more.

Jesse · 01-01-2016, 07:37 PM

My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time.

Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour.

I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life.

Chad · 12-30-2016, 05:18 PM

Bump bump bump

Bèsame* · 12-30-2016, 11:49 PM

In other words, I prefer the term, "Casual promises to myself that I'm under no legal obligation to fulfill "

So, my self made promise this year, to drink more water and wear more lipstick!

VintageFemme · 12-30-2016, 11:56 PM

I only have two goals/resolutions/plans for 2017...

To be brave.
To be obsessively grateful.

That is all.

WingsOnFire · 12-31-2016, 12:23 PM

I am looking forward to a fresh new year full of possibilities. I want to go on trips that I have not been able to go on. I want to get back out there and meet people. I am ready for love again.

Happy New Year's Eve to the site I have loved for so long.

Jesse · 12-31-2016, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesse

My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time.

I feel that I've done well with this and will continue to strive forward with this goal.

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Originally Posted by Jesse

Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour.

FAIL! Lol! I did not do so well with this goal in 2016. Mind you, I did not gain any weight, nor did I lose any. My gym visits were far and few in between. Too many start and stops for any success to happen. All I can do about it now is try again this year. I've already gotten a good 4 day start on laying off the unhealthy carbs and sticking to foods I know work best for me. What's important to me is that I am happy and okay with making mistakes, knowing that I will learn from them.

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Originally Posted by Jesse

I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life.

Much has been accomplished with minimizing and downsizing. In fact, I have the last 3 boxes of clothes packed up and waiting for the Veterans donation place to call me on Monday to set a scheduled pick up. I have also done much work on moving forward in a positive manner.

For 2017 I hope that we all practice kindness and acceptance for others; likewise that each of us find good health and joy.

For myself I will continue to strive for success in all of my endeavors, accepting fails as they come, learn from them, and then try again. My big goal this year has to do with Fear and not letting it win, at any point, in my life.

I wish each and everyone of you a healthy, joyful and prosperous new year!

firegal · 12-31-2016, 09:02 PM

Wishin i was with a special someone a distance away! Senting a big SMOOCH at midnite via airmail!

12-31-2016, 11:59 AM	#4
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I have a few things to list. 1. Get more physically fit. 2. Still eat healthy 3. Plan on meeting my gf & her family. 4. Get closer to my own family 5. More peace and unity I'll list more later....... Mystic~~ __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

12-31-2016, 12:13 PM	#5
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,671 Times in 897 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	The promises that everything new holds. Being more humble. Being more grateful. Being more kind. Taking that leap. Fighting for the things I cannot accept. Visiting my son in Colorado at least twice Finally realizing that "this too shall pass" This is the first year, in a long time, I can see promise! __________________ Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu

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Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,864 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,117 Thanked 7,386 Times in 1,457 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I wish all of BFP a very Happy New Year! As for me: Of course, attend to my health and keep losing weight Go back to Canada for more research Organize my home office In fact, organize my home better Take the steps to advance my career (community college vs. high school) Finish my book Pay more mind to my spirituality (to begin with: a retreat in January) __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

01-01-2016, 02:58 PM	#7
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Wishes and Goals 2016 I would like to spend more time with family and friends. I would like to find balance between work and fun. For myself I wish for good health, lots of laughter, love, and happieness.

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princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	My goals are simple: Surround myself with positive people and positive energy. To cherish each day and never let a day go by without laughter. To just keep my happy spirit filled in my heart. To remember to believe in myself. And when it comes to people, to expect less and give more. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

12-31-2015, 11:58 AM	#1
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	One thing I need to do is work on my health, having had to deal with my goofy knee and back issues have made it hard to be a s fit a s I should be I need to stop using this as a reason not to make a better effort to be in better health and more fit. It would be nice to make a bit more cash on hand but if its mint to be it will happen...or not. I will keep the world around me as peaceful and stress free as possible. I will pray for world peace then hope it happends.

12-31-2015, 12:10 PM	#2
easygoingfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Lil' Miss Sassy Pants Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: My place by the river Posts: 3,692 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 14,973 Times in 3,318 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Increase the amount of time I spend doing things that bring me joy and decrease the amount of time I spend doing things that suck joy from me. Let go of things not serving me. Help my kid get through her last year of high school and focus on what she wants next- even though this blows my mind. Work out some work kinks for a successful year ahead.

01-01-2016, 07:37 PM	#9
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	My personal goals for the year ahead begin with making sure that I continue to do the things that bring happiness and peace into my life while also doing my best to have kindness and civility towards others, regardless of how I may feel about the situation at the time. Next is my physical health. It is my intention to drop some weight, but the main thing I want is to replace some lost muscle, strengthen my core and build endurance. I began this today by going to the gym and working out for an hour. I intend to continue with my efforts of minimizing & downsizing. Otherwise, I will attempt to continue to move forward in a positive and healthy manner on my journey through this life. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

12-30-2016, 05:18 PM	#10
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	New year Bump bump bump

12-30-2016, 11:49 PM	#11
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,168 Thanked 41,012 Times in 10,767 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	In other words, I prefer the term, "Casual promises to myself that I'm under no legal obligation to fulfill " So, my self made promise this year, to drink more water and wear more lipstick! __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

12-30-2016, 11:56 PM	#12
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,620 Times in 1,655 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I only have two goals/resolutions/plans for 2017... To be brave. To be obsessively grateful. That is all. __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

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WingsOnFire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer..femme.. .babygirl...girl Preferred Pronoun?: Female Ones... Relationship Status: Enjoying life but ready to meet someone Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portland Oregon Posts: 3,945 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,015 Thanked 12,476 Times in 3,357 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I am looking forward to a fresh new year full of possibilities. I want to go on trips that I have not been able to go on. I want to get back out there and meet people. I am ready for love again. Happy New Year's Eve to the site I have loved for so long. __________________ Previously known as MidnightBlueEyes ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ http://gailsforum.files.wordpress.co...-psd340941.png

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firegal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Don't let the gal part of my screen name fool ya I,m ALL butch! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Tacoma,Washington Posts: 2,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,853 Thanked 11,703 Times in 2,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Wishin i was with a special someone a distance away! Senting a big SMOOCH at midnite via airmail!