The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Galahad · 11-22-2009, 05:42 PM

Glad to see this thread.Thanks Jet. I'm 52, just a spring chicken. Taking care of my parents is aging me rapidly though. It's harder than having a two year old. I'm actually looking forward to my 80's when I get to be the cranky, stubborn old goat.

hpychick · 11-22-2009, 05:49 PM

Thanks Jet for the thread here! I'll be sure to stop by often!

morningstar55 · 11-26-2009, 01:24 PM

good morning and Happy thanksgiving

i had a very big surprise when i got home yesterday.
to a dozen roses

my daughter was grinning when i came thru the door...... heh..
ty sooo much to my handsome truckdriver
im at home and at my mom's. im not feeling to good today , been fighting some sort of bug, with a lot of coughing for the past 4 days. any ways, thank for all the awsome thanksgivng comments,
in my profile... id give some bk but my energy level is runing low right now... and need to go lay down. have a nice turkey day.

Jess · 11-27-2009, 07:10 AM

Like many others here, I am getting a lot less tolerant with

and

and try to spend more time

then if you throw in a little

for the

and hopefully some

followed by

I am all tuckered out and can only go night night .
It keeps things simple. Life is not so bad after 40 afterall

The old

who had to take out eight smilies to be able to post.. LOL

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!

Jet · 11-28-2009, 06:49 AM

Hey Lofters, have a great weekend.

Lynn · 11-28-2009, 10:33 AM

Good morning!

The holiday weekend slides away too quickly, as usual! We spent the holiday with my ex-husband and my daughters, which was interesting.

We spent time yesterday doing a "little" shopping. A trip for a bathtub hair-catcher thing turned into a purchasing extravaganza. I love my new dishes, though .

We also went to see "Old Dogs," again with the ex and one daughter. I expected it to be funny, but it was fantastic! I highly recommend it.

After a little cleanup today, my daughters (17 and 22) and older daughter's boyfriend will be over to put up the tree, play with the Wii, and have pizza.

Wishing everyone a relaxing weekend.

Jet · 11-28-2009, 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lynn

Good morning!

: We also went to see "Old Dogs," again with the ex and one daughter. I expected it to be funny, but it was fantastic! I highly recommend it.

I just read that this got terrible reviews

morningstar55 · 11-28-2009, 03:38 PM

evening Lofters ...
hope everyone is having a nice weekend so far.
as for me............ ** whimpering here**

im still trying to get rid of this chest cold thing.
i been coughing and coughing.......

tried hot showers.. hot tea.. honey .. why wont it get rid of this ahhhh stuff in my chest.. its making my throat sore

WolfyOne · 12-04-2009, 09:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

evening Lofters ...
hope everyone is having a nice weekend so far.
as for me............ ** whimpering here**

im still trying to get rid of this chest cold thing.
i been coughing and coughing.......

tried hot showers.. hot tea.. honey .. why wont it get rid of this ahhhh stuff in my chest.. its making my throat sore

Did you send your cold to my house because 2 of us have been suffering the same way as you. I can actually feel your pain all the way over here. i hope as of today, since my post is days after you posted that you're feeling much better.

Jet · 11-22-2009, 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Galahad

Glad to see this thread.Thanks Jet. I'm 52, just a spring chicken. Taking care of my parents is aging me rapidly though. It's harder than having a two year old. I'm actually looking forward to my 80's when I get to be the cranky, stubborn old goat.

Hey there...I know what you're saying. I'm 53 and the roles have reversed with my dad and I. He's so cranky and mad ...and stubborn as hell. My father and I had falling out for awhile over my sexuality...something else he could pick on...but we've reconciled. But to give you an exact idea of my dad...how he sounds and looks and moves and his bigoted vernacular.....Gran Torino totally with Clint Eastwood. It's my dad ditto up and down..not to mention my dad was in Korea.

So I hear what you're saying. Welcome to the thread and free to share whatever/whenever you like.

HumV4me · 11-22-2009, 06:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Galahad

Glad to see this thread.Thanks Jet. I'm 52, just a spring chicken. Taking care of my parents is aging me rapidly though. It's harder than having a two year old. I'm actually looking forward to my 80's when I get to be the cranky, stubborn old goat.

OMGoodness.. I have had the child / parent role switch on me just this year... it is not easy at all to take care of your parents... expecialy when they are still up and able but not quite all the way and have intrusted you with their stuff and well being.

Believe me... I love role playing... BUT NOT LIKE THIS. I don't want to be the MOMMY/DADDY!

morningstar55 · 11-22-2009, 07:27 PM

evening lofters
is a pleasant evening here in the indy area
i have a early morning wake up..want to beat the rush hour traffic.. heh

BellaOctober1 · 11-22-2009, 07:46 PM

Yay! Love this.

I'm 54, and after 12 years, am about to be single again. Should be interesting.

Anyway. Great to see this board and be a part of it.

morningstar55 · 11-22-2009, 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BellaOctober1

Yay! Love this.

I'm 54, and after 12 years, am about to be single again. Should be interesting.

Anyway. Great to see this board and be a part of it.

hello bella [_]D

WolfyOne · 11-22-2009, 11:55 PM

I'm enjoying this thread....reading is fundamental.

AtlantaButch824 · 08-08-2010, 08:28 PM

I'm 52 and single again after 10.5 yrs. I feel strange trying to date again. You think you know someone after that much time, only to realize you didn't.

Jet · 08-08-2010, 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AtlantaButch824

I'm 52 and single again after 10.5 yrs. I feel strange trying to date again. You think you know someone after that much time, only to realize you didn't.

so don't date

11-22-2009, 05:49 PM	#2
hpychick Member How Do You Identify?: Feminine with a hammer Preferred Pronoun?: Girly Stuff Relationship Status: Jesse's Girl. She asked! I said yes! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minneapolis! Or as I like to call it - Many Happiness! Posts: 1,364 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,387 Thanked 1,417 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 15817345	Thanks Jet for the thread here! I'll be sure to stop by often! __________________ *~~greeting the world one cup of coffee at a time~~* http://www.waterfyi.com/wp-content/u...nn-300x168.jpg

11-26-2009, 01:24 PM	#3
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning and Happy thanksgiving i had a very big surprise when i got home yesterday. to a dozen roses my daughter was grinning when i came thru the door...... heh.. ty sooo much to my handsome truckdriver im at home and at my mom's. im not feeling to good today , been fighting some sort of bug, with a lot of coughing for the past 4 days. any ways, thank for all the awsome thanksgivng comments, in my profile... id give some bk but my energy level is runing low right now... and need to go lay down. have a nice turkey day. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

11-28-2009, 10:33 AM	#6
Lynn Member How Do You Identify?: Unabashed Feminine Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She Relationship Status: Married! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 689 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,499 Thanked 2,413 Times in 504 Posts Rep Power: 9668975	Good morning! The holiday weekend slides away too quickly, as usual! We spent the holiday with my ex-husband and my daughters, which was interesting. We spent time yesterday doing a "little" shopping. A trip for a bathtub hair-catcher thing turned into a purchasing extravaganza. I love my new dishes, though . We also went to see "Old Dogs," again with the ex and one daughter. I expected it to be funny, but it was fantastic! I highly recommend it. After a little cleanup today, my daughters (17 and 22) and older daughter's boyfriend will be over to put up the tree, play with the Wii, and have pizza. Wishing everyone a relaxing weekend. __________________ In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c

11-28-2009, 03:38 PM	#8
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	evening Lofters ... hope everyone is having a nice weekend so far. as for me............ whimpering here im still trying to get rid of this chest cold thing. i been coughing and coughing....... tried hot showers.. hot tea.. honey .. why wont it get rid of this ahhhh stuff in my chest.. its making my throat sore __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

11-22-2009, 07:27 PM	#12
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	evening lofters is a pleasant evening here in the indy area i have a early morning wake up..want to beat the rush hour traffic.. heh __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

11-22-2009, 05:42 PM	#1
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	Glad to see this thread.Thanks Jet. I'm 52, just a spring chicken. Taking care of my parents is aging me rapidly though. It's harder than having a two year old. I'm actually looking forward to my 80's when I get to be the cranky, stubborn old goat.

11-27-2009, 07:10 AM	#4
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,700 Times in 1,682 Posts Rep Power: 0	Like many others here, I am getting a lot less tolerant with and and try to spend more time then if you throw in a little for the and hopefully some followed by I am all tuckered out and can only go night night . It keeps things simple. Life is not so bad after 40 afterall The old who had to take out eight smilies to be able to post.. LOL Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!

11-28-2009, 06:49 AM	#5
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11-22-2009, 07:46 PM	#13
BellaOctober1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Kansas City, MO Posts: 10 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 8 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 16	Yay! Love this. I'm 54, and after 12 years, am about to be single again. Should be interesting. Anyway. Great to see this board and be a part of it. __________________ BellaOctober1@att.net Kansas City, MO

11-22-2009, 11:55 PM	#15
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08-08-2010, 08:28 PM	#16
AtlantaButch824 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: does it really matter Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Atlanta Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25 Thanked 35 Times in 15 Posts Rep Power: 121158	I'm 52 and single again after 10.5 yrs. I feel strange trying to date again. You think you know someone after that much time, only to realize you didn't. __________________ It doesn't cost one penny to be nice to someone