What is your Flirtation Style?

Chad · 01-01-2016, 04:11 PM

This thread looks fun.
I will not give up all my secrets but I will start here.

When I see (or read) someone that I find interesting I introduce myself and just start talking to them.

homoe · 01-01-2016, 04:44 PM

In real time, I'll start with a smile then more than likely strike up a conversation with them.

Wrang1er · 01-01-2016, 05:59 PM

I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach.

jingles76 · 01-01-2016, 07:59 PM

[QUOTE=Wrang1er;1035995]I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach.

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Wrangler. You had me at knock knock lol

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:02 PM

Humour. Smart Arsery. Cheekiness. Comes across as far more charming and flirtatious in person but people with the matching senses of humour usually can pick up on it on line.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:14 PM

What works with me?

Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like *wit* and banter, not "soft and saucy".

Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt *really* helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes.

If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a *really* good sign.
I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no.

The more polite I am, the less interested I am.

CherryWine · 01-01-2016, 08:22 PM

I'm a bit of a tease. If I like you, I'll pick on you in a playful manner...if I can work up the guts to do it.

Chad · 01-01-2016, 06:27 PM

I have been thinking about the flirting statement below because I do the exact same thing when I want to make a new friend.

I guess the difference would be the conversation topics.
For example, conversations on golf verses romance.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chad

This thread looks fun.
I will not give up all my secrets but I will start here.

When I see (or read) someone that I find interesting I introduce myself and just start talking to them.

Nattih · 01-01-2016, 06:38 PM

My flirting style is trying to telepathically communicate that I like them and getting mad when they don't get the message. Hehe.

TL1 · 01-01-2016, 06:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nattih

My flirting style is trying to telepathically communicate that I like them and getting mad when they don't get the message. Hehe.

LOLLLL

Cute!

Shystonefem · 01-01-2016, 07:25 PM

Ok... so, I have this look. If I am interested and you can see me, you know.

I am pretty shy so someone would have to start the conversation but that someone would definitely know.

Also, my body language. I am pretty good at that.

When I was a teenager, my friends used to make me go to the beach with them. If they liked some group of guys.... they would ask me to give them "the look". They ended up picking them up and I always went home alone. LOL

If I like you and we are in RL, you know......

01-01-2016, 04:11 PM	#1
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imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	What works with me? Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like wit and banter, not "soft and saucy". Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt really helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes. If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a really good sign. I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no. The more polite I am, the less interested I am. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 01-01-2016 at 08:19 PM.

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jingles76 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: Texas Posts: 22 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30 Thanked 61 Times in 17 Posts Rep Power: 1073754	[QUOTE=Wrang1er;1035995]I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach. [/QUOT Wrangler. You had me at knock knock lol

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imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Humour. Smart Arsery. Cheekiness. Comes across as far more charming and flirtatious in person but people with the matching senses of humour usually can pick up on it on line.

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CherryWine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: The Deep South Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,060 Thanked 10,006 Times in 2,182 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	I'm a bit of a tease. If I like you, I'll pick on you in a playful manner...if I can work up the guts to do it.

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Nattih Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2010 Location: always on a plane Posts: 174 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 633 Times in 164 Posts Rep Power: 13046651	My flirting style is trying to telepathically communicate that I like them and getting mad when they don't get the message. Hehe.