What is your Flirtation Style? - Page 5

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:02 PM

Humour. Smart Arsery. Cheekiness. Comes across as far more charming and flirtatious in person but people with the matching senses of humour usually can pick up on it on line.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:14 PM

What works with me?

Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like *wit* and banter, not "soft and saucy".

Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt *really* helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes.

If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a *really* good sign.
I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no.

The more polite I am, the less interested I am.

CherryWine · 01-01-2016, 08:22 PM

I'm a bit of a tease. If I like you, I'll pick on you in a playful manner...if I can work up the guts to do it.

Nattih · 01-01-2016, 08:44 PM

My flirting style is attentive and complimentary, I suppose. I am fairly quiet and keep to myself, so if I am paying a good amount of attention to you, that is a hint.

I am very complimentary and humorous if I like a person. Not sure how well everything plays over, given that the telepathy tends to have a higher batting average. That's why I prefer online dating, there is only one reason I am contacting you, lol.

Lecheloco · 01-01-2016, 10:14 PM

I have no idea

Does anyone have a 2x4 handy

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Lecheloco

I have no idea

Does anyone have a 2x4 handy

I like people to hit me with a cricket bat. But I like a bit of flare

Lecheloco · 01-01-2016, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

I like people to hit me with a cricket bat. But I like a bit of flare

* laughs
That works too

randrum · 01-01-2016, 11:05 PM

Non-existent.

I'm regularly thankful for my dimples because they make up for my complete lack of flirtation ability.

TL1 · 01-01-2016, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by randrum

Non-existent.

I'm regularly thankful for my dimples because they make up for my complete lack of flirtation ability.

Me too on that one. And my hair.... I have crazy cool hair that a lot of women love.

If anyone flirts with me I'm usually oblivious

Bèsame* · 01-01-2016, 11:45 PM

innuendos. Can you catch on? Can you keep up? Will you have to wit to compete?

Or will you not keep my attention?

Gráinne · 01-02-2016, 12:39 AM

I missed out on the flirtation gene completely, both doing and receiving!

However, I'm in "like" with you if I'm cracking bad jokes, being klutzy, or bringing up obscure topics (nuclear physics, for example).

imperfect_cupcake · 01-02-2016, 11:40 PM

*hand up, really high*

Miss?! Miss!! TL1 and Randrum are chatting Bullocks

TL1 · 01-02-2016, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

*hand up, really high*

Miss?! Miss!! TL1 and Randrum are chatting Bullocks

LOL!!!!!
What?

randrum · 01-03-2016, 05:39 AM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

*hand up, really high*

Miss?! Miss!! TL1 and Randrum are chatting Bullocks

Haha. We'll have to agree to disagree on that.

ravfem · 11-13-2016, 07:40 PM

I don't flirt, generally. But i love interacting with people, especially joking around and giving (sincere) compliments and occasionally that gets mistaken as flirting. The only time it's been a true problem is when someone gets jealous over it. But...that's a good sign that i'm not going to be a good match with said person...so it all works out i guess.

Lyte · 11-13-2016, 10:00 PM

For me it's primarily some playful banter. I enjoy flirting very much ... particularly with someone who has a quick wit. Flirting that causes her or me to smile or laugh is the best.

Glenn · 11-25-2016, 01:25 AM

il mio cuore e stato conquistato da qualcuno...io veramente adoro.

legally_b10nde · 11-26-2016, 07:00 PM

IMO, flirting starts with eye contacts, it shows how much he or she's interested in you. Psychology Today states that your eyes are the window to your soul.

"Psychologists consider pupil dilation to be an honest cue to sexual or social interest. That’s because pupil size isn’t under your voluntary control. Let’s say you’re trying to fake interest as your coworker recounts every play in his weekend golf game. You can force a smile. You might even remember to crinkle the corners of your eyes, to make that smile look real. But your tiny pupils will reveal your lack of interest."

Once I'm interested in the person, I find myself curling my hair playfully or make subtle touch on hand or shoulder.

Lyte · 11-26-2016, 09:17 PM

If you're close enough to note pupil dilation, you've passed flirting.

~ocean · 11-27-2016, 05:35 AM

flirting is very seductive ~

01-01-2016, 08:14 PM	#82
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	What works with me? Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like wit and banter, not "soft and saucy". Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt really helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes. If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a really good sign. I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no. The more polite I am, the less interested I am. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 01-01-2016 at 08:19 PM.

01-01-2016, 11:05 PM	#88
randrum Member How Do You Identify?: Boi Preferred Pronoun?: Just call me G Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2015 Location: Cincinnati Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,480 Thanked 3,056 Times in 668 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	Non-existent. I'm regularly thankful for my dimples because they make up for my complete lack of flirtation ability. __________________

01-01-2016, 11:45 PM	#90
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,373 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,109 Thanked 40,936 Times in 10,726 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	innuendos. Can you catch on? Can you keep up? Will you have to wit to compete? Or will you not keep my attention? __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

01-02-2016, 12:39 AM	#91
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,864 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,116 Thanked 7,387 Times in 1,457 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I missed out on the flirtation gene completely, both doing and receiving! However, I'm in "like" with you if I'm cracking bad jokes, being klutzy, or bringing up obscure topics (nuclear physics, for example). __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

11-13-2016, 07:40 PM	#95
ravfem Senior Member How Do You Identify?: i'm a girl Relationship Status: negative Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,239 Thanked 3,126 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 1969286	bump I don't flirt, generally. But i love interacting with people, especially joking around and giving (sincere) compliments and occasionally that gets mistaken as flirting. The only time it's been a true problem is when someone gets jealous over it. But...that's a good sign that i'm not going to be a good match with said person...so it all works out i guess. __________________

01-01-2016, 08:02 PM	#81
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Humour. Smart Arsery. Cheekiness. Comes across as far more charming and flirtatious in person but people with the matching senses of humour usually can pick up on it on line.

01-01-2016, 08:22 PM	#83
CherryWine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: The Deep South Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,060 Thanked 10,013 Times in 2,182 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	I'm a bit of a tease. If I like you, I'll pick on you in a playful manner...if I can work up the guts to do it.

01-01-2016, 08:44 PM	#84
Nattih Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2010 Location: always on a plane Posts: 174 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 633 Times in 164 Posts Rep Power: 13046651	My flirting style is attentive and complimentary, I suppose. I am fairly quiet and keep to myself, so if I am paying a good amount of attention to you, that is a hint. I am very complimentary and humorous if I like a person. Not sure how well everything plays over, given that the telepathy tends to have a higher batting average. That's why I prefer online dating, there is only one reason I am contacting you, lol.

01-01-2016, 10:14 PM	#85
Lecheloco Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine preferred Relationship Status: Happy as is, but a date would be nice Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Neverland Posts: 717 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,650 Thanked 1,975 Times in 633 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	I have no idea Does anyone have a 2x4 handy

01-02-2016, 11:40 PM	#92
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	hand up, really high Miss?! Miss!! TL1 and Randrum are chatting Bullocks

11-13-2016, 10:00 PM	#96
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	For me it's primarily some playful banter. I enjoy flirting very much ... particularly with someone who has a quick wit. Flirting that causes her or me to smile or laugh is the best.

11-25-2016, 01:25 AM	#97
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dear ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old G Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,601 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	il mio cuore e stato conquistato da qualcuno...io veramente adoro.

11-26-2016, 07:00 PM	#98
legally_b10nde Member How Do You Identify?: femme woman - Hello Daddy, hello mom. I'm your ch-ch-ch cherry bomb! Preferred Pronoun?: female/she/her Relationship Status: Single by choice Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: the earth Posts: 433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 127 Thanked 636 Times in 234 Posts Rep Power: 5404777	IMO, flirting starts with eye contacts, it shows how much he or she's interested in you. Psychology Today states that your eyes are the window to your soul. "Psychologists consider pupil dilation to be an honest cue to sexual or social interest. That’s because pupil size isn’t under your voluntary control. Let’s say you’re trying to fake interest as your coworker recounts every play in his weekend golf game. You can force a smile. You might even remember to crinkle the corners of your eyes, to make that smile look real. But your tiny pupils will reveal your lack of interest." Once I'm interested in the person, I find myself curling my hair playfully or make subtle touch on hand or shoulder. __________________

11-26-2016, 09:17 PM	#99
Lyte Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Meh... I'm not very particular about this. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: The south... bleh! Posts: 1,744 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,316 Thanked 5,113 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	If you're close enough to note pupil dilation, you've passed flirting.

11-27-2016, 05:35 AM	#100
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,042 Times in 4,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	flirting is very seductive ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean