WHAT IF...

Blade · 05-12-2010, 07:49 AM

What if I was born into a different family?
What if I hadn't had the early influences I had?
What if I'd never left east TN back in the 80's?
What if my precious Angel had been born?
What if Cindy hadn't died?

For the most part these are positive what if's. Certainly I have a possible answer for each one. I know if these 4 things had developed differently, I'd be a very different person and have a very different life than I enjoy today. Some things we have no choice in, when we have a choice and make a bad one, we should use it as a building block, a stepping stone if you will. Certainly there are things I wish I'd done differently but I learned from each mistake. Sometimes I must say I didn't learn enough, but I've never had to mess up more than twice to get it.

Much more to this list both good and bad.
Great thread BTW.

Rook · 05-12-2010, 07:56 AM

What if "that man" I know was really my Father? {I never did investigate closely, my mother always gets offended.But then, when I sprouted thick red hair*i was totally bald for 2 years after birth*, everyone, including her Husband questioned her, she demanded a DNA test}

suebee · 05-12-2010, 09:07 AM

What if I'd accepted that position in Northern Quebec working in Inuit communities? Where would I be now?

Gemme · 05-12-2010, 11:04 AM

What if I had told the truth that day?

Kenna · 05-14-2010, 09:21 PM

What if I had chosen to go to Job Corps in Marion VA instead of where I did?

What if I had never met my nightmare-devil of an Ex at the school I chose to go to?

What if I could change the past? (Would I?)

What if I had never taken certain paths in my past that affected me in such a negative way, would my present path hold such positive influences and maturity?

What if I had been born a blonde knock-out like my sister?

What if I had not started my family far too early, and had followed my dream to join the Air Force as a pilot?

Jet · 05-14-2010, 09:29 PM

What if the terrible incident never happened on that night 17 years ago?
I wonder where I would be now.

Abigail Crabby · 05-14-2010, 09:54 PM

What if ...

My daughter gets a job and I can move on with my life.

I'll be one happy camper.......

Spirit Dancer · 05-14-2010, 10:37 PM

What if I never answered the phone?
What if words spoken in haste could be erased?
What if will only make me second guess, so I look forward to the future.

Blade · 05-25-2010, 08:54 PM

What if I had birds or fish instead of DOGS chuckling.....naaaa dogs are more fun shakes head and goes to bed

Kenna · 05-17-2010, 09:22 PM

What if I had never sent that message on March 10th?
What if I hadn't been admitted to the hospital very ill shortly after March 10th?
What if my dad hadn't passed away so very suddenly, while I was still in the hospital?
What if I had moved to Indiana like my dad asked me to do so last Thanksgiving?

katzietootle · 05-25-2010, 08:41 PM

what if....

i am your fairygod mother??
and kabooooom....

Lillie · 05-12-2010, 11:14 AM

what if I actually saw in myself what others really see

wouldn't that be amazing

Andrew, Jr. · 05-14-2010, 09:39 AM

What if cancer was cured once and for all.

chefhottie25 · 05-14-2010, 09:59 AM

what if...I had majored in urban planning. What would I be like today?

Lillie · 05-14-2010, 10:15 AM

emily was here

cinnamongrrl · 10-31-2012, 02:33 PM

What if...... there IS a monster under the bed....???

Electrocell · 10-31-2012, 02:52 PM

What if I had never kissed my first girl?

cinnamongrrl · 10-31-2012, 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Electrocell

What if I had never kissed my first girl?

I guess we on the Planet wouldn't have the privilege of knowing you!

cinnamongrrl · 01-21-2013, 05:53 PM

What if the little Toyota isn't good driving in the snow tonight??

Chancie · 01-21-2013, 06:00 PM

What if I were braver, instead of trying to do things right, and failing sometimes anyway?

05-12-2010, 07:56 AM	#2
Rook Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A.G - Stone Butch - GenderFuck Preferred Pronoun?: Hym, Hyz...or, just b respectable, it's not that hard.. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Columbus Posts: 2,280 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,227 Thanked 3,182 Times in 1,287 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	What if "that man" I know was really my Father? {I never did investigate closely, my mother always gets offended.But then, when I sprouted thick red hairi was totally bald for 2 years after birth, everyone, including her Husband questioned her, she demanded a DNA test} __________________

05-12-2010, 09:07 AM	#3
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05-12-2010, 11:04 AM	#4
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05-14-2010, 09:54 PM	#7
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05-14-2010, 10:37 PM	#8
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05-12-2010, 07:49 AM	#1
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,412 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	What if I was born into a different family? What if I hadn't had the early influences I had? What if I'd never left east TN back in the 80's? What if my precious Angel had been born? What if Cindy hadn't died? For the most part these are positive what if's. Certainly I have a possible answer for each one. I know if these 4 things had developed differently, I'd be a very different person and have a very different life than I enjoy today. Some things we have no choice in, when we have a choice and make a bad one, we should use it as a building block, a stepping stone if you will. Certainly there are things I wish I'd done differently but I learned from each mistake. Sometimes I must say I didn't learn enough, but I've never had to mess up more than twice to get it. Much more to this list both good and bad. Great thread BTW.

05-14-2010, 09:21 PM	#5
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,191 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	What if I had chosen to go to Job Corps in Marion VA instead of where I did? What if I had never met my nightmare-devil of an Ex at the school I chose to go to? What if I could change the past? (Would I?) What if I had never taken certain paths in my past that affected me in such a negative way, would my present path hold such positive influences and maturity? What if I had been born a blonde knock-out like my sister? What if I had not started my family far too early, and had followed my dream to join the Air Force as a pilot?

05-14-2010, 09:29 PM	#6
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05-25-2010, 08:54 PM	#9
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,412 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	What if I had birds or fish instead of DOGS chuckling.....naaaa dogs are more fun shakes head and goes to bed

05-17-2010, 09:22 PM	#10
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,191 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	What if I had never sent that message on March 10th? What if I hadn't been admitted to the hospital very ill shortly after March 10th? What if my dad hadn't passed away so very suddenly, while I was still in the hospital? What if I had moved to Indiana like my dad asked me to do so last Thanksgiving? __________________ **************************** She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles. ~E.Corona~

05-25-2010, 08:41 PM	#11
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05-12-2010, 11:14 AM	#12
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05-14-2010, 09:39 AM	#13
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10-31-2012, 02:33 PM	#16
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01-21-2013, 06:00 PM	#20
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