The Question Game

[Orema]

Originally Posted by Gayandgray

No but I have always wondered what it would be like. Do you believe it is possible to be in love with two different people at the same time?

Yes, I think it's possible, though I've never experienced it. I think we're conditioned to love one person at a time and I think part of this conditioning is man's way of controlling society—specifically women.

Is it possible to have a fulfilling relationship with someone who doesn't love you, but is in love with another?

[Greyson]

Originally Posted by Orema

Is it possible to have a fulfilling relationship with someone who doesn't love you, but is in love with another?

It depends on what are the boundaries of the relationship. If someone is my friend and not a romantic interest, than yes, I can have a fulfilling relationship with them while they are in love with someone.

For me, if I am in a romantic relationship with someone that I am in love with and they are in love with another, (meaning not me), than no it would not be a fulfilling relationship. I would not be in such a relationship. I would move on.

Do you think it is possible for a victim/survivor to be an abuser in an unrelated scenario to when they were the abused? If so, should there be help available to an abuser to change their abusive behavior and/or woundedness?

[meridiantoo]

Originally Posted by Greyson

Do you think it is possible for a victim/survivor to be an abuser in an unrelated scenario to when they were the abused? If so, should there be help available to an abuser to change their abusive behavior and/or woundedness?

I do because it's been documented that people who abuse people started by abusing animals. I don't know how the jump is made in their minds from an animal to a human. I don't really understand the psychodynamics going on there. I would imagine if the abuse was severe enough, the victim could easily become hardened and be abusive without even realizing it. There should always be help available for those who want to/can change. While I don't speak from a professional standpoint, it seems all abusers were at one time abused themselves. It's a cycle that just gets repeated. I do believe there are some unable to change though.

Do you believe in capital punishment for abusers who do not kill their victims?

[FireSignFemme]

Originally Posted by meridiantoo

I do because it's been documented that people who abuse people started by abusing animals. I don't know how the jump is made in their minds from an animal to a human. I don't really understand the psychodynamics going on there. I would imagine if the abuse was severe enough, the victim could easily become hardened and be abusive without even realizing it. There should always be help available for those who want to/can change. While I don't speak from a professional standpoint, it seems all abusers were at one time abused themselves. It's a cycle that just gets repeated. I do believe there are some unable to change though.

Do you believe in capital punishment for abusers who do not kill their victims?

With the laws we currently have in place - yes. This because some crimes are just so brutal, so horrific that even though the victim lives what was done to them/the damage they are left to deal with is so much worse than that what the evidence seems to indicate someone cleanly, simply, swiftly killed suffered at the hands of their attacker and yet the law allows for the straight forward murderer's execution.

If you had to be a hideous creature/monstor from Greek or Roman mythology which one would you choose to be?

[meridiantoo]

Originally Posted by FireSignFemme

If you had to be a hideous creature/monstor from Greek or Roman mythology which one would you choose to be?

Chimera because he's fire-breathing. If you've got to be hideous, at least you can breathe fire, something cool.

If you could be anyone else in history, who would it be and why?

[homoe]

Originally Posted by meridiantoo

Chimera because he's fire-breathing. If you've got to be hideous, at least you can breathe fire, something cool.

If you could be anyone else in history, who would it be and why?

Gertrude Stein so I could of rubbed elbows with the likes of Hemingway and the rest of that Paris crowd..

What is your one greatest regret .............

[JDeere]

Originally Posted by homoe

Gertrude Stein so I could of rubbed elbows with the likes of Hemingway and the rest of that Paris crowd..

What is your one greatest regret .............

Not getting married when I had the chance!

What is your biggest accomplishment?