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Old 04-01-2016, 07:10 PM   #1
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The single biggest thing for me has been to figure out how to eliminate or reduce every expense I had that could be considered "reoccurring". Whether it be taxes, haircuts, housing, or electricity. They all add up over time.
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Pay bills on time

Pay bills off on car

Don't make huge spending from your wallet or credit make sure you live within your means of living even if your above middle class if you stick with a budget that you can live with do it. Just on special occasions treat yourself or you and spouse or girlfriend ( what ever the case might be in your present situation.)
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By using my clothesline instead of the dryer I save $50-60/month on the electric bill. They put in a new Dollar Tree in town where everything is $1, and I now do a lot of my grocery shopping there. I can get 18 eggs for a freaking dollar!! They have really good name brand stuff here and I save so much money compared to if I bought it at the grocery store. I borrowed from Glenn's idea and I'm eating a lot of grilled cheese and soup, which is cheap.
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By not spending it lol
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I could totally use lotta tips BfP members.... as for me, paying off car loans earlier helped, prepping meals/week and called credit card company and reduced my APR, helped.
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Butches sometimes need a lil retail therapy too. I save money by not removing the tags or removing it from the package. If it's not something I really really need... it goes back!
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BUMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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A few folks mentioned the back up freezer. I save so much money using mine. I buy a lot of things in bulk when they are on sale. I also try to buy my grains, beans, other non-perishables in bulk. Often my weekly grocery runs are fruits, veggies, and pet items because I stock up on everything else in big runs every few months.

I cook from scratch as much as I can, that saves a lot of money.

I use groupon type things sometimes for outings and trips- sometimes they end up saving a good chunk.

Try to pay cash for just about everything so I'm more mindful of how much I'm spending and it doesn't rack up CC interest.
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I use almost no credit. Everything by cash. EVERYTHING.

I buy in resale stores

I sell in resale stores and use the money made there to buy in resale stores

I grow my own plants from seed instead of buying plants

I grow plants and thus, veggies, instead of buying them in the store. I also keep my gardening simple, and dont buy expensive gardening tools, etc.

I borrow what I can. I buy only quality when I do buy.

I do not buy in quantity. It goes bad in our house because we never get around to using it all. So we buy in moderate amounts of small amounts. Sounds backwards but its what works for our two person household.

I am buying a half a cow and half a pig this year from a farmer, at slaughter time and putting them in my freezer. I have had it for two years and never used it. We decided that was silly. (the freezer was given to us)

I got rid of cable. I refuse to pay $150 a month for the privilege of watching commercial laden shows. We have netflix, hulu and amazon plus. Still cheaper! (I also watch shows the day after, on imtv.cc)

I keep my car maintained so I have fewer repair bills. Once a car is paid off, I only keep liability on it. The money I save goes into a fund that goes for the next car, as a full payment or a down payment.

I live within my means. I overstetched myself at times and was miserable whenever I did so. I am much happier living carefully.
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