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04-30-2016, 06:59 PM
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Infamous Member
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OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?:
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05-01-2016, 11:07 AM
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Infamous Member
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Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status:
Happy  Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic.
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Brutus and Lil Guy are continuing to work around the limitations of a nest that is now a 4th of the size it should be, with more falling away daily. Lil Guy is gearing up to fly, branching out farther and farther, flying from branch to branch but he hasnt taken the plunge yet. He has had a couple of almost "oopsies" tho thanks to his older sibling. There was a pushing episode at the end of a branch and a butt wiggle in the nest bed that almost knocked him off. And a couple of times winds gusts caught him by surprise when his wings were fully extended. Poor Dad tried a food drop off this morning. At this age, it is safer for the parent to drop food than to deliver food, even in an intact nest. The kids know a parent means potential food and are jockeying for position, in their mantling poses - draping their 6 foot wing spans like cloaks to block and secure an area. Parents are at risk if they try to bring food directly into the nest, so they tend to hover and drop. Not sure if Dad himself fell thru a hole in the bottom of the nest or if he just dropped the fish thru the hole. But, you could see him thru the hole searching for the dang fish while dodging falling nest material, courtesy of his children flapping, jumping, and squeeing at the top of their lungs. He never attempted another flyby, so I'm gathering he didnt find it. Was looking at pics from the horrid sibling rivalry stage when Lil Guy was struggling to get enough food to survive. Had forgotten the size difference, hence the reason I call him Lil Guy. This was them about 6 weeks ago. Big difference for hatching just 1 day apart:  This is them this morning (Lil Guy is the one with his back to the cam):  Amazing and nerve wracking.  |
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05-01-2016, 11:33 AM
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Senior Member
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by my name Preferred Pronoun?:
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single 
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On my mind...
Her.....how I miss her
Us.........knowing she misses me as much Work.......a lot going on there
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05-01-2016, 07:35 PM
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Infamous Member
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femme *blows a kiss off my finger tips ** Preferred Pronoun?:
~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status:
~ single & content ~ 
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being grateful for having 2 amazing daughters is what's on my mind
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05-01-2016, 08:33 PM
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Senior Member
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Babe, she, her, ella Relationship Status:
Well loved… 
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Death
PRINCE My oldest and dearest friend, Found already gone when her partner awoke that morning. My friend's dad. Taken off life support last week. My loving and faithful companion of 13 years. I'm doing all I can, Dr's too but it doesn't look good. This has been a very taxing few weeks...I'm all cried out...mostly. Prayers welcome
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05-01-2016, 08:37 PM
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Infamous Member
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cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?:
wild woman Relationship Status:
No, thank you. 
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Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time…
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05-01-2016, 10:30 PM
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05-02-2016, 08:15 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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dee Relationship Status:
Hitched up 
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that life has never been the same. Family spread out all over the place. I can't be everywhere at once, but I'm trying. I am getting too old for this!
That one day, one storm, one horrific twist of mother nature can really turn your world upside down, never to be the same again, ever. |
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05-03-2016, 03:53 PM
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Infamous Member
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Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status:
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Lil Guy finally fledged today. He made it to the tree across the way and back to the nest tree. People were commenting on how he made a less than spectacular return, landing under the nest in a heap. Knowing Lil Guy, that landing wasnt an accident. He knows Dad dropped 2 fish under there. He is still looking for them. 
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05-04-2016, 08:20 AM
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Senior Member
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Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
Together a really long time 
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My inability to forgive and forget when someone betrays me. I'm trying to work on not holding a grudge. After five months my former best friend wants us to work things out. She reminded me that my spouse's health is declining (as if I don't know this) and life is too short to hold grudges, and she wants to help me with her, etc etc. I really have to think hard on this.......
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05-04-2016, 08:46 AM
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Timed Out - TOS Drama
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05-04-2016, 09:28 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM' 
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If I am being brutally honest, and not knowing anything from Adam about the details, but from what you said....that sounds like emotional manipulation. A friend doesn't need to state the obvious. If she is ready and willing to help you with your spouse, from the goodness of her heart or some sense of regret or responsibility for what happened those months ago, good. If it's something designed to twist you up even more and manipulate things, then not so good. Keep your options open and be willing to accept help (Being a caretaker is hard, so any help is a good thing, right?) but keep your eyes open and your head crystal clear. I don't think it's unreasonable to say, "Hey, what happened was hurtful and I don't want to repeat it" and "I will take you at your word at this moment but you have to prove to me that I can trust you; show me you are worthy of my trust". Or whatever feels right to you. I remember when you wrote about this before and it seemed that it really, really hurt you. Do not deny that hurt but don't let it close you off to the possibility of a genuine reconciliation either. |
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05-05-2016, 08:56 PM
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Senior Member
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Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?:
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Together a really long time
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Thanks to both of you for your support. I know it's probably in my best interest to just forgive her and try to work on re-building our friendship. She is really trying hard to make things right, we have been friends a long time, and neither of us is getting any younger....... A lot of people my spouse and I know have either died recently or become disabled, and I'm telling myself that life is too short and something could happen and I may not have another chance to forgive and move on. I guess if things are meant to work out, then they will? At least we are able to sit down and talk now, that's a start.
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05-06-2016, 09:30 PM
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Senior Member
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Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?:
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I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009
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My goofball, klutzy, "if anything can happen, it will happen to me" best friend. Who spent a big part of the day in Urgi-care.
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05-06-2016, 09:39 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Transgender Preferred Pronoun?:
He/him/his Relationship Status:
Single 
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Location: Oklahoma
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My girlfriend mainly along with a jumble of 100 million other things.
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05-07-2016, 11:00 AM
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Senior Member
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That's Need to Know 
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There are a lot of things on my mind...
... ONE... it's moving day... and this is the most anxiety inducing move I have have ever had... I am moving OUT of my house... and my parents are moving IN... my son will be staying here... My parents are going to keep him for the next two years while I finish school... because full time work, full time school, and full time autism mom... leads to mental breakdowns... ... TWO... I just ended another relationship... and its left me wondering... how I attract so many of the same type of person... I am questioning a lot because of this... ... THREE... I need to spend more time with my daughter. Shes such an amazing young woman, and before I know it shes going to be grown and gone... so much of my time goes to my son... I am missing out on her!
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05-07-2016, 11:55 AM
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Junior Member
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Single 
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A very special, unique Femme....day and night, night and day...
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05-07-2016, 12:43 PM
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Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
femme *blows a kiss off my finger tips ** Preferred Pronoun?:
~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status:
~ single & content ~
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I wish you the best my friend and I respect how much you have taken on, where most would have run away .HAPPY MOTHERS DAY , JENN
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05-07-2016, 02:47 PM
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Member
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Shy for President 
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Nothing right now. I am trying to live in the moment.
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Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu |
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05-07-2016, 04:04 PM
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Infamous Member
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once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! 
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Wondering if I will be able to work next week...I'm doubting it, but you know I will try.
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I'm misunderestimated. 
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