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Old 06-16-2016, 07:26 PM   #1
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I logged in to say thank you all for the support. The cancer has gone from bones to lungs. I am no longer doing any treatment. I just wanted to tell you that you were the best support when this journey began. lots of love and hugs XOXOXOXOXOXO
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I see my oncologist next week. I just had bloodwork done this week....he checks my tumor marker levels every 6 months. My colonoscopy & EGD were "clean" back in January! I expect great news when I get the latest bloodwork results also!!!!.....
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I see my oncologist next week. I just had bloodwork done this week....he checks my tumor marker levels every 6 months. My colonoscopy & EGD were "clean" back in January! I expect great news when I get the latest bloodwork results also!!!!.....
Everything looks good...... I am now 5 years (come December) surviving!!!!

Thanks for everyone's kind words & support through this journey!!!
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Congrats Clay! Happy to hear it.

I also got great results this week from blood work markers and ultrasound.

Doctor said I can be considered cured from my thyroid cancer and just need annual blood work for the markers now.

This thread gets both the very sad and very happy news. Sometimes I feel guilty when others are not as fortunate.

Cancer is a fucker. It knows not who or what we are when it attacks us and does not care.

Prayers and healing good thoughts to those that are still fighting the battle.

Comfort and peace to anyone that is not able to fight anymore.

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Thank you Anya!

That is great news for you as well...congrats!!!

Yes, it is a thread filled with good & not so good news sometimes, BUT it is a wonderfully supportive & compassionate thread. It got me through my journey....and still comforts me.

Hugs for everyone here.....
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Tomorrow is the day (again!).

My colonoscopy is WAY past due. I am supposed to go every 6 months.

Please keep me in your thoughts....
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Thumbs up Great news!

NOOOO polyps at all! That is the FIRST time that has happened at a colonoscopy since my cancer (5 of them, I believe). Every freakin' time I have polyps. He says I can go out to once a year now. Last time he told me every 6 months for the foreseeable future. Yay!

Thank for your support, guys!
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Everything looks good...... I am now 5 years (come December) surviving!!!!

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Congrats, Clay!

I have my annual CAT scan in a month (moved to annual this year). I am several months late on my colonoscopy. I get sick of doing them so often (every 6 months). The prep doesn't even bother me, it is just having to deal with medical stuff that gets annoying. And yeah, I guess I don't like being reminded of my history with cancer, either!
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A year ago today I was four weeks out from some major surgery and was starting my first day of four months of some serious chemotherapy. I had shaved my head to donate my hair, rather than having it just fall out, and was in a dark scary place.

Today, I'm working in the morning, then taking my daughter on a college tour, and then I want to make a really good dinner. My hair is growing and I'm feeling healthy and strong. What a year...

The anniversaries are good for me to celebrate when I "reclaim" days because otherwise when I have these "one year later" moments it can just rear up anxiety and worry. The anxiety and worry still pop up, but I'm trying hard to crowd that out with positives.

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Thanks for sharing your heart with us EGF!

Reclaiming is an excellent way to "take back" your life!!!

I am well aware of "anxiousness" & "worrisome" ideations along the journey!!

Congratulations on your surviving that dark journey my friend!!! I am elated you are still among us!!!!

For what it is worth, I am in silent support for you.....go get 'em girl!!!!!




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A year ago today I was four weeks out from some major surgery and was starting my first day of four months of some serious chemotherapy. I had shaved my head to donate my hair, rather than having it just fall out, and was in a dark scary place.

Today, I'm working in the morning, then taking my daughter on a college tour, and then I want to make a really good dinner. My hair is growing and I'm feeling healthy and strong. What a year...

The anniversaries are good for me to celebrate when I "reclaim" days because otherwise when I have these "one year later" moments it can just rear up anxiety and worry. The anxiety and worry still pop up, but I'm trying hard to crowd that out with positives.

Cheers, everyone!
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Congrats, Clay!

I have my annual CAT scan in a month (moved to annual this year). I am several months late on my colonoscopy. I get sick of doing them so often (every 6 months). The prep doesn't even bother me, it is just having to deal with medical stuff that gets annoying. And yeah, I guess I don't like being reminded of my history with cancer, either!
Thank you Dapper!

I will be thinking of you & waiting to see your posts after your exam!

Know you are always in my heart & thoughts DB!!!!
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Thank you Dapper!

I will be thinking of you & waiting to see your posts after your exam!

Know you are always in my heart & thoughts DB!!!!
Right back at cha, Clay!

My CAT scan is on 7/15/16. I am scheduled to see my oncologist on 7/19, but I need to change that because I have a conflict.
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Right back at cha, Clay!

My CAT scan is on 7/15/16. I am scheduled to see my oncologist on 7/19, but I need to change that because I have a conflict.
Hey, guys. Please keep me in your thoughts tomorrow!

I also decided that it was more important that I leave one meeting early and be late for the second one in order to go to my appointment on 7/19. I don't want to delay hearing the results of my scan.
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