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It has been stated that the USA is the greatest country on earth! Is it? Why? What about other countries?
It's something people get passionate about, but let's all try to listen and be respectful of individual views and opinions. What say you? |
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However, I love America. It is where I live. I would not choose to live elsewhere because it is what I know. America has had plenty of human rights abuses in her history and they continue today. Who could state that it isn't true? Not I. I would be a fool to say America is without fault.
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Well if anyone didn't know any better after listening to the speakers at the DNC this week they sure would think so!!
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From the time I was a small child until today, I have probably heard "America is the greatest country on earth" a million times. Maybe even more!
America as a country is only 240 years old, and in those 240 years we have built a country as big and advanced as any other on earth. Yes, we took the land from the original natives, and yes we imported slaves; I'm pretty sure we could take a day or two and make a huge list of what we have done. When England was under siege during WW1, who pulled them out of the fire? When the second world war couldn't be won, who dropped the bomb, Who liberated the concentration camps? Who does the world look to for security and protection? For financial bailouts? For taking in their refugees? For educating their children in good colleges? You know, it's a bit like being brainwashed living here...we don't really learn about other countries in our schools, our local news stations rarely give news from anywhere else, unless we turn on PBS we don't see shows from other countries, and for the most part, we aren't required to learn anything besides English. Because we are a "new" country that has had to fight for independence, we are like rowdy teenagers that have the gang mentality of this is our hood, and we are the best gang. Think that was needed originally, but now there should be a toning down of the nationalism, because it has become embarrassing. Imo |
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It was like 2 weeks of generating interest in becoming involved and saving your country for whichever party you indentify with! I am so full of pride in my country I could just burst! |
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I don't think I'd declare any country the greatest. Each country is a collection of citizens, guests and well those with uncertain or undeclared status. People are imperfect being. We all make mistakes, cause hurt/pain and sometimes even screw up royally. How can any country arrogantly claim the title "greatest?"
Perhaps, in the age of technology which makes us more than ever global citizens it is time to put aside a scrambling for a status and instead seek collaboration, cooperation and communication so we can become a planet of people who thrive rather than scattered pockets of extreme wealth, poverty, those barely scrapping by and those blessed enough to call themselves comfortable. Sadly my sociology background allows me to know such a life is actually quite impossible as the power deferential that comes with varying degrees of education, wealth impacted by nationality and ethnicity actually needed by cultures.....sigh.
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I love this country I live in. I'd die for protecting anyone's rights that live here. I'm proud to be American. I know history is ever changing and for that I'm grateful. Every country has a past they aren't proud of but this country can be proud it's moving forward and has changed a lot through it's years with new laws passed and old ones tossed out. There's always going to be more that needs to be done, but Almost All countries rely on the USA when called to help.
Maybe that's what makes it Great in itself, that we are willing to step up to the plate and help when other countries won't step in. I wonder why other countries ask the USA for help? Why they rely on us to help them?
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Great topic MsTinkerbelly, gotta come back to it afterwhile
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We are asked to defend and protect numerous countries and their peoples, we are a country people want to move to in order to share in the "American Dream", and we are a country that many want to take the lead on global warming and other environmental issues. But...does that make us the best country ever, or does that make us "saps" for doing so much without equal monetary and troop contributions? I despise Donald Trump, but does he have a point that few others pay their fair share? |
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hi everyone,
i live in the UK. like someone else said i don't think you can say any one country is the greatest. looking over the pond at the USA, i think yeah its a great country, but like all countries it as it's faults and good points. would i live in the USA, i don't think i would. and the one reason is all the gun crime that is so rapidly growing. Believe me, i am not complacent in thinking i am safe in the UK. But it does seem to be getting to breaking point over there. The USA is way bigger so the troubles are going to be bigger, its just logical. Its unfair to call one country the greatest, when we cant really make that judgment until we have lived in each country for a very long time. but i do get that people are proud of they places and countries they live in. I am very proud to be British, regardless of my opinions of us going out of the EU. But i could see myself loving other countries just as much. But that wouldn't make them the greatest in my eyes. |
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PS: Trump needs to pay HIS fair share in TAXES!!
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I was able to spend several weeks traveling in Wales and England, and my kasey has been 21x for lengths up to 3 months at a time since 1977. We have good friends there, and we talk to them often. England is a fabulous country, full of rich history, a mighty army, universal health care, gay rights, popular (even here) monarcy and a diverse and beautiful landscape. Yet...we NEVER hear one word about how great the country is from it's people. Of course, our friends rarely ever complain (stiff upper lip and all), and there is no posturing and little boasting. But when faced with the constant stream of "go USA", why is there no return call of Britin is the best? I don't think I'm asking this question clearly, but I really am fascinated by our constant bragging and boasting. It's almost like we have to keep talking up the country so we can let people know how great we really are? |
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I’m English and for various reasons I’ve had cause to ponder this question myself with a particular emphasis on comparison between Britain, Canada and the States. I believe all three countries have many things to be proud of but also many which could be improved.
From my perspective, comparing Britain to Canada or the States is like comparing someone in their fifties to someone in their twenties. As a general trend, the twenty year old is much more energetic and is just starting to settle into their own skin. There’s a massive sense of potential and a youthful sense of entitlement that the world is out there for them to discover, that it’s the backdrop for them to turn their dreams into a reality, whether that be personal wealth, meaningful social change or anything else. The twenty year old wants to shout to the world to look out because they’re coming. The stereotypical character in their fifties is much more reserved. They’ve had more life experience and know that everything can be taken away from you in a second. They know that you have to be prepared to let go of some dreams in order to pursue others and that life is never as black and white as they once imagined. They have had years of having to live with things they wish they’d never done. They are less likely to make proclamations to the world, knowing that deeds, rather than words, are what counts. Just like a balanced society needs people of all age groups, I think the world needs different cultural approaches like these. The blend makes for a stronger global community and the contrasts can act as a catalyst for growth for nations. To the British, the American inclination to laud themselves can appear arrogant and unappealing. It can undermine their position in the perceptions of others too as usually the better someone is at something, the less they feel the need to tell everyone just how good they are. At the same time, the British reserve can appear cold and potentially weakens our society where the Americans are united in their open pride. I think both the Americans and Canadians are likely to have a more cohesive society, especially in these times of increasing immigration, because no matter what other differences exist between their citizens, they are united in that strong sense of national pride. Anything that serves to bring people together, to give them a sense of belonging and responsibility to a community is one which is likely to strengthen that group to the benefit of all. To me, there are no "best" countries but I would particularly celebrate those where the citizens have a strong sense of national pride yet enough humility to look within to seek improvement, conscious that they are a part of a larger whole. Irrelevant of flags, that is the sort of culture I hope will shape our global evolution.
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Not easy to discuss this topic without offending someone, so I'll stick to a few things I know ( generally ) about our behaviour here in Canada :
We don't tend to stick little flag decals on our cars, in our windows, or fly flags off our porches ( except for one day at the beginning of July and then back in the attic they go ). We don't do a lot of pledging allegiance to our flag...not in schools, not anywhere. I'm not even sure we have such a pledge ( I should probably look that up ). Generally, the only time we sing "Oh Canada " is at hockey and baseball games and largely cause the American opponents are singing their anthem, so we try to sing louder. Most of us only know only one or two verses anyway and very few can sing it in "both official languages." Strictly speaking, our loudest displays of national pride come during sporting events: World Junior Hockey Championships, almost getting into the baseball world series, and a bronze medal at the Olympics...plus the fact that "no Canada = no "SNL", no John Candy, no "Ghostbusters" and that guy that made "Titanic". Our older citizens still beam with pride at the mention of Marie Dressler ( Her childhood home is a heritage site.) Our smuggest displays of pride come when Americans mention our marriage laws, our health care system and their desire to come to Canada if things go wonky in the USA...tho we are a bit dismayed that they seldom if ever mention a tourist desire to just visit and spend a few bucks. And then there's our passports...we don't wave them but just complacently pat our breast pockets as we travel around and think "Who'd want to kill a Canadian?" That's when we plaster our luggage and backpacks with little Canadian flags.
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I can't think of a country I'd rather live in than America, and specifically I can't think of a city I'd rather live in than where I live now which is NYC. I also work with immigrants who go through hell to immigrate to the USA to get out of situations of political unrest and violence. I'm curious if others consider their own country the one where they would most like to live or if they'd prefer another country, and if so, why aren't they pursuing it. I feel like I have a lot of freedom to express myself here and enjoy the diversity around me. That means a lot to me, maybe especially as a queer person and a general eccentric.
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I really enjoy living here, and the freedoms I take for granted most days...and I have to say that when I examine my knee jerk reaction of "heck yeah!" to "America is the best", I know I have been well and truly brainwashed and it disturbs me! I really don't want to be an obnoxious American, pitying the people who don't get to live here...but it is so ingrained into everything here! Sigh |
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