![]() |
|
![]() |
#1 | |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
I Am Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
solo Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: the Beach, Pacific side
Posts: 4,160
Thanks: 5,354
Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Sweet Bliss For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#2 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
Go Dutch/Dutch Treat
The expression "Go Dutch" has its origin around 1652-1784, during the English-Dutch wars. Around that period, the English commonly used the word Dutch in a number of expressions to convey a negative feeling. The British considered the Dutch to be stingy and miserly and used the phrases involving the Dutch to imply derogatory remarks. Go Dutch is generally used when two people out on a date share the expenses incurred. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#3 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
origin:The origin of barking up the wrong tree dates back to early 1800s America, when hunting with packs of dogs was very popular. The term was used literally at first, when wily prey animals such as raccoons would trick dogs into believing they were up a certain tree when in fact they had escaped.
to be pursuing a mistaken or misguided line of thought or course of action. |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to homoe For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#4 |
Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?:
wild woman Relationship Status:
No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time…
Posts: 7,665
Thanks: 15,246
Thanked 27,602 Times in 6,959 Posts
Rep Power: 21474859 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
Omg I'm so happy for this thread!
Word origins have long fascinated me. There was a time when I considered becoming a linguistic anthropologist. There was a show on cable about the origins of slang. Its interesting to see where our every day lexicon derives from. I was VERY surprised at the origination of y'all. I will be back to read and post!!
__________________
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#5 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
Blessing In Disguise
origin of 'a blessing in disguise' is believed to be mid-1700s, however scholars have yet to pin down the first usage of the term. The earliest instance of the term found in print was a 1746 work by English writer James Hervey titled Reflections on a Flower-Garden. A misfortune that unexpectedly turns into good fortune. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#6 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
Beat Around the Bush
Origin: This phrase is believed to have come from hunting. Back in medieval times, hunters would hire men who would assist them in the hunt by flushing out animals from within the brush. This could be done by whacking the bushes with a stick, perhaps even accompanying the whacking with some loud shouting; the point was to make a bunch of noise in order to scare birds and other animals out from the cover of the bushes, making them easier targets for the hunter. Typically used to describe any person who is avoiding the main point in a conversation! |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#7 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover
origin: 'don’t judge a book by its cover' is fairly recent. The phrase is attributed to a 1944 edition of the African journal American Speech: “You can’t judge a book by its binding.” It was popularized even more when it appeared in the 1946 murder mystery Murder in the Glass Room by Lester Fuller and Edwin Rolfe: “You can never tell a book by its cover.” Means you should not decide upon something based just on outward appearances. |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following User Says Thank You to homoe For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#8 |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
~ Preferred Pronoun?:
~ Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: ~
Posts: 1,954
Thanks: 10,392
Thanked 8,318 Times in 1,626 Posts
Rep Power: 21474853 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
Bless Her/His/Your Heart
As a youth I would hear this phased used in a good intention sort of way. Ex: "She has cancer,and still gets up every morning and takes the paper to her friend down the street, bless her heart" As I grew older I learned it was also used in a derogatory way: Ex: "Bless his heart, he's dumb as a stick, but he sure is nice" I couldn't find the definition in the link provided so I looked else where. Cambridge Dictionary states it means "may good things happen to someone" I couldn't find the actual origin..though, I do know it is used down south and the midwest more often than other areas *shrugs* does anyone know the true origin? |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to stargazingboi For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#9 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
The Ball is in Your Court
origin: While it is obvious the idiom comes from the world of sports, Scholars differ on whether it comes from the Tennis field or from Basketball. Whichever sports field it comes from, it is a relatively new idiom and was probably used for the first time in the 20th century. If the ball is in someone's court, they have to do something before any progress can be made in a situation. |
![]() |
![]() |
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to homoe For This Useful Post: |
![]() |
#10 | |
Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
I Am Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
solo Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: the Beach, Pacific side
Posts: 4,160
Thanks: 5,354
Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() Quote:
Brene' Brown uses that expression in one of her talks about vulnerability. She shares that in Texas, where she grew up, it was used to shame people, she jokes about having a tee shirt that says "if you bless my heart, I will kick your ass." or something to that effect. I have only heard it used by people who feel superior to others, as a way of saying "isn't he/she pathetic". I will have to research the original meaning. Great topic, thanks!! |
|
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#11 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#12 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
"Shoot Yourself In The Foot".........
To damage or impede one's own plans, progress, or actions through foolish actions or words. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#13 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
"Cut Your Nose To Spite Your Face".............
To use self-destructive means to try to solve a problem or fix a situation. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#14 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
curmudgeon..........
A person (especially an old man) who is easily annoyed or angered and who often complains. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#15 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
"Give Someone The Cold Shoulder"
A rude way of telling someone he isn’t welcome. Sidebar: Although giving someone the cold shoulder today is considered rude, it was actually regarded as a polite gesture in medieval England. After a feast, the host would let his guests know it was time to leave by giving them a cold piece of meat from the shoulder of beef, mutton, or pork. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
#16 |
Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch Relationship Status:
..... Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 38,565
Thanks: 20,811
Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts
Rep Power: 21474889 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]()
"Let Your Hair Down"
To relax or be at ease. Sidebar: Parisian nobles risked condemnation from their peers if they appeared in public without an elaborate hairdo. Some of the more intricate styles required hours of work, so of course it was a relaxing ritual for these aristocrats to come home at the end of a long day and let their hair down. |
![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
Tags |
meaning, origin, words |
|
|