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			Good Morning Singles!!!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I hope you have fun weekend plans!! This is my weekend home with the kids... as I have plans the next three weekends in a row. *drops off gluten free muffins and juice for everyone* 
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			How's everyone doing?  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I have another 3 day weekend to do nothing lol My brother and his wife asked me if I wanted To go see "When the bough breaks" with them. I want to see it, but not with them. Might go alone tomorrow Hope everyone is doing great  | 
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			Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			That's too bad.  Her loss, absolutely!  Don't forget that I love and adore you, boo.  You have a fan in me. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Evening all you beautiful folks!!! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Hope your evening is a pleasant one & you have sweet dreams tonight. Good night all... 
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			Today has been a crazy day for me! I worked nearly nine hours and it is September 11th. This is one time in my life that I still get upset. Fifteen years later, my heart goes out to the families of everyone who lost a loved one and to the New York Police Dept, Fire Department and the city itself.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Night Everyone! #gonebutnotforgotten Zimmeh 
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			Mel,  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			You are an awesome person and do not settle for second best. Remember my jokingly advice about a requested second date. The second Tuesday of next week   Zimmeh 
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			Today is a light breakfast since I am off. I am enjoying a cup of Yoplait yogurt and Sumatra coffee. I am going to see my mom today and I need to do laundry.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Might find a movie on Turner Classic Movie channel. Zimmeh 
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 Funny thing; my store's number has been posted online and given out by TMC as a customer service number so I get at least a couple calls per month when someone's not happy with the movies chosen for the channel. So, if you have issues and they give you a number that's not local and not an 800/888/866 number, that's probably me.  
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			Had a "not so good" day  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	After running into my ex And her girlfriend.... They were all smiles And looked very happy as we once did. It's been over a year and I was Doing fine. Why am I bothered by this??? Ughhhh heartbreak sucks  | 
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			Question singles...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit? 
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  .  It would be nice to be wanted, but I won't settle.
		
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 I try to stay positive and hope that love finds me..... Other times my energy is so bad, it's like there is A sign that says "don't even try it". I don't know. But these days I won't allow myself To let anyone get close enough, especially if I can Smell BS a mile away "shrug"  | 
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			I'm always wondering what's wrong wIth me or if I'm....defective somehow. Makes me not want to put myself out there to only get rejected. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Glad its not just me...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Putting myself out there with the possibilities of facing rejection hasn't ever really bothered me! Having been in a long term committed relationship, I know how much work a relationship takes and I guess unless I'm not fully committed to putting in the work, I shouldn't even consider a relationship.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm at a point where I'm good either way.  I'm good by myself, although I would like to have more friends and family nearby to do stuff and socialize and to stop me from buying excessive quantities of craft stuff, and I would be fine in a relationship too. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	But it's not a need. I'm content with myself. That's come with age. The older I get, the less tolerable I am of crap and that's the handoff....you get less to work with if you hold yourself and others to a higher standard....BUT the ones you get (if you're doing it right) will be of higher caliber and much better for you.  | 
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			Some people cannot handle me. I have found that Imgive up a part of myself in a relationship and I get taken for a ride. When I make this known, most but he's just stop talking to me. I am fed up with but he's and so called friends being fake. I am to old to play mind games. What really pisses me off is how a butch will look at me as if I am not good enough, because I am heavy.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
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