What do YOU need to feel loved?

femmedyke · 05-23-2010, 07:30 PM

understanding, most certainly.

waxnrope · 05-23-2010, 07:40 PM

chocolate

Andrew, Jr. · 05-23-2010, 07:46 PM

The touch of Dino's paw, or a lick from him. Or it can be love from one of the cats laying on my lap or stomach while I am on the soffa watching sports or sleeping.

JAGG · 10-27-2010, 07:10 PM

waking up gentlly as she crawls on top to lay her head on my shoulder and fall back asleep.
Soft unexpected kisses for no reason.
Surprise visits out of the blue.
The feeling of her touch when she reaches for me in the middle of the night.
Bringing me a cold drink on a hot day , just cos she figured I needed it.
Being a partner in home projects.
Being honest and trustworthy, so I would never doubt or have to look over my shoulder.
Be as invested in US as I am.
Make sacrifices , IE. sit through a boring football game happily.
Know how to get through to me when I'm being hard headed, if I'm in love with you , you have the power to win any disagreement we could ever have, if you know how to get through to me.
Little notes left in unexpected places, telling me why she loves me.
Grabbing my hand and pulling me away from a project , and walking me directly into the bedroom , I see candles burning and ........
Communication about everything.
Taking care of me when I'm hurt or sick.
Knowing what loyality, and devotion, and love mean.
Being able to sense when I'm not ok, even if I say I am.
Buying small inexpensive gifts like my fav gum, placing it in my breifcase to find when I get to work.
Get up early on a work day and secretly make me breakfast while I'm in the shower.
Put a sweet love note in my lunch box.
Send me hand written love letters or cards in the snail mail,
Make me something with your own 2 hands, even if it's a poem that you put in a frame for me.
Playing little jokes on me so we both laugh out loud.

Tucker · 10-27-2010, 07:20 PM

I need a Bad Boy.
I need Mischevious, Raw, and Nasty guys.
To feel loved, I need to not hear things like "Baby. Princess. Darling.
I need to hear things like "Girl. Mine. HellCat"

LipstickLola · 10-27-2010, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

waking up gentlly as she crawls on top to lay her head on my shoulder and fall back asleep.
Soft unexpected kisses for no reason.
Surprise visits out of the blue.
The feeling of her touch when she reaches for me in the middle of the night.
Bringing me a cold drink on a hot day , just cos she figured I needed it.
Being a partner in home projects.
Being honest and trustworthy, so I would never doubt or have to look over my shoulder.
Be as invested in US as I am.
Make sacrifices , IE. sit through a boring football game happily.
Know how to get through to me when I'm being hard headed, if I'm in love with you , you have the power to win any disagreement we could ever have, if you know how to get through to me.
Little notes left in unexpected places, telling me why she loves me.
Grabbing my hand and pulling me away from a project , and walking me directly into the bedroom , I see candles burning and ........
Communication about everything.
Taking care of me when I'm hurt or sick.
Knowing what loyality, and devotion, and love mean.
Being able to sense when I'm not ok, even if I say I am.
Buying small inexpensive gifts like my fav gum, placing it in my breifcase to find when I get to work.
Get up early on a work day and secretly make me breakfast while I'm in the shower.
Put a sweet love note in my lunch box.
Send me hand written love letters or cards in the snail mail,
Make me something with your own 2 hands, even if it's a poem that you put in a frame for me.

Perfect! one teensy lil thing to add.....laughter and lots of it!

JAGG · 10-27-2010, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by LipstickLola

Perfect! one teensy lil thing to add.....laughter and lots of it!

You are 100% correct I fixed my error thank you .

How could I skip that one?

Jess · 10-27-2010, 07:59 PM

to wake everyday knowing she is here.
yesterday is gone, tomorrow may never come.
so for today, I am here.

Mister Bent · 10-27-2010, 08:01 PM

Toast.

Make me some fucking toast and call it a meal, then tell me you love me.

PearlsNLace · 10-27-2010, 08:10 PM

I am finding that I need a sense of team work with my partner, on many levels, including the things that Im working one outside of our relationship.
If I am deeply involved and passionate about a project, if my partner does not show ANY interest or any willingness to listen and at least be somewhat involved in, I feel less valued.

princessbelle · 10-28-2010, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Toast.

Make me some fucking toast and call it a meal, then tell me you love me.

I just can't get over this post. It totally cracks me up. OMG

05-23-2010, 07:30 PM	#1
femmedyke Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: mostly in my head Posts: 396 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 638 Thanked 957 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 8571021	understanding, most certainly. __________________ “purple does something strange to me” -charles bukowski

10-27-2010, 07:10 PM	#4
JAGG Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: JAGG Relationship Status: =) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tulsa (cat free zone) Posts: 6,093 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,651 Thanked 17,531 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	what makes me feel loved waking up gentlly as she crawls on top to lay her head on my shoulder and fall back asleep. Soft unexpected kisses for no reason. Surprise visits out of the blue. The feeling of her touch when she reaches for me in the middle of the night. Bringing me a cold drink on a hot day , just cos she figured I needed it. Being a partner in home projects. Being honest and trustworthy, so I would never doubt or have to look over my shoulder. Be as invested in US as I am. Make sacrifices , IE. sit through a boring football game happily. Know how to get through to me when I'm being hard headed, if I'm in love with you , you have the power to win any disagreement we could ever have, if you know how to get through to me. Little notes left in unexpected places, telling me why she loves me. Grabbing my hand and pulling me away from a project , and walking me directly into the bedroom , I see candles burning and ........ Communication about everything. Taking care of me when I'm hurt or sick. Knowing what loyality, and devotion, and love mean. Being able to sense when I'm not ok, even if I say I am. Buying small inexpensive gifts like my fav gum, placing it in my breifcase to find when I get to work. Get up early on a work day and secretly make me breakfast while I'm in the shower. Put a sweet love note in my lunch box. Send me hand written love letters or cards in the snail mail, Make me something with your own 2 hands, even if it's a poem that you put in a frame for me. Playing little jokes on me so we both laugh out loud. __________________ I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without. Last edited by JAGG; 10-27-2010 at 07:36 PM.

10-27-2010, 07:20 PM	#5
Tucker Member How Do You Identify?: A pretty little thing Preferred Pronoun?: Fatale Relationship Status: Independently owned and operated Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Afternoons in Utopia. Posts: 832 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,090 Thanked 1,293 Times in 486 Posts Rep Power: 3051091	I need a Bad Boy. I need Mischevious, Raw, and Nasty guys. To feel loved, I need to not hear things like "Baby. Princess. Darling. I need to hear things like "Girl. Mine. HellCat" Last edited by Tucker; 10-27-2010 at 07:21 PM. Reason: I felt like it

10-27-2010, 08:01 PM	#9
Mister Bent Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 2,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,151 Thanked 5,825 Times in 1,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	it doesnt take a lot Toast. Make me some fucking toast and call it a meal, then tell me you love me. __________________ Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken

10-27-2010, 08:10 PM	#10
PearlsNLace Member How Do You Identify?: queer Preferred Pronoun?: They/Them & her/she Relationship Status: Lucky, very lucky Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portlandia, Oregon Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 875 Thanked 1,286 Times in 315 Posts Rep Power: 6505517	I am finding that I need a sense of team work with my partner, on many levels, including the things that Im working one outside of our relationship. If I am deeply involved and passionate about a project, if my partner does not show ANY interest or any willingness to listen and at least be somewhat involved in, I feel less valued. __________________ YOU are Unique and Unrepeatable AND your not alone. thetrevorproject.org

05-23-2010, 07:40 PM	#2
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10-27-2010, 07:59 PM	#8
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