What have you learned? - Page 19

Teddybear · 01-28-2017, 09:41 PM

I have learned that no matter how much you want something with another if they aren't there they ARE NOT there. Walk away.

Sometimes you just have to remember what you had and live with that and know that they is someone out there for you.

Loving someone is never wrong maybe just the wrong time in your life.

easygoingfemme · 01-28-2017, 09:47 PM

I'm learning to be better and more quick at trusting my gut and taking action in the way it directs me.

Stone-Butch · 01-28-2017, 09:47 PM

Intelligent people have something to say. Others just have to say something.

Gayandgray · 02-12-2017, 01:37 PM

I have learned that sometimes life ain't always greener on the other side.

Gayandgray · 02-12-2017, 01:38 PM

I've also learned that sometimes you just have to take a chance, no matter how scared you are of failing.

JDeere · 02-12-2017, 01:41 PM

That being obsessive can be a negative and positive thing.

Gayandgray · 03-14-2017, 04:29 PM

I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom.

Chad · 03-14-2017, 06:19 PM

I am researching storm surge structures and I ran across a report about an aqua duct that was above grade and crossed over a river. Imagine a road bridge that crosses over a river only it was full of water and used as a shipping channel. It is located in Germany. It was awesome I have never seen anything like that before. If I knew how to upload photos in a thread I would.

girl_dee · 03-14-2017, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray

I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom.

Yes, and with more information than you started off with.

WolfyOne · 03-14-2017, 07:15 PM

Oh, I am still learning
You trust the people you think are right, only to find out they are wrong.
Wake up happy and don"t let anyone steal it from you' I've finally learned this one

BullDog · 03-23-2017, 07:31 PM

That your heart can be a safe harbor, a sanctuary of sorts, of all your loves, failures, disappointments, broken dreams, hopes for the future that you have and have had, if you just are still and let things be and cherish every special person and moment you have experienced in your life. To just hold it all in your mind and heart at the same time.

I really hope this hard headed butch has learned this and it isn't just a temporary epiphany.

JDeere · 03-23-2017, 07:42 PM

Life isn't fair, at all, but you live and continue to learn.

DapperButch · 03-23-2017, 09:01 PM

I think I am at my best when I am alone.

easygoingfemme · 03-24-2017, 04:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I think I am at my best when I am alone.

I often feel the same...

Gemme · 03-24-2017, 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

I think I am at my best when I am alone.

For me, there's a fine line that I must walk so I don't lose myself in the relationship and become resentful. Being alone has its perks but so does snuggling on the sofa. Apparently, for me, the fine line is somewhere on the sofa.

kittygrrl · 03-24-2017, 07:19 AM

control your thoughts-this is always where the trouble starts

Chad · 03-24-2017, 07:26 PM

All work and no play makes me grumpy.
I need some fun.

My wish list

Gayandgray · 03-24-2017, 08:00 PM

That sometimes life just ain't fair. It is what it is. Move on.

JDeere · 03-24-2017, 08:58 PM

I have hardly any patience left.

GeorgiaMa'am · 03-25-2017, 12:37 AM

It is way easier for me to be compassionate than to carry resentment around about the small everyday irritations.

01-28-2017, 09:41 PM	#361
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,233 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I have learned that no matter how much you want something with another if they aren't there they ARE NOT there. Walk away. Sometimes you just have to remember what you had and live with that and know that they is someone out there for you. Loving someone is never wrong maybe just the wrong time in your life. __________________ I am ME take me as I am or leave me be..

01-28-2017, 09:47 PM	#363
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,620 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,228 Thanked 9,293 Times in 3,001 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I have learned Intelligent people have something to say. Others just have to say something.

02-12-2017, 01:37 PM	#364
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,875 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I have learned that sometimes life ain't always greener on the other side. __________________

02-12-2017, 01:38 PM	#365
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,875 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I've also learned that sometimes you just have to take a chance, no matter how scared you are of failing. __________________

03-14-2017, 04:29 PM	#367
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,875 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom. __________________

01-28-2017, 09:47 PM	#362
easygoingfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Lil' Miss Sassy Pants Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: My place by the river Posts: 3,686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,016 Thanked 14,964 Times in 3,313 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I'm learning to be better and more quick at trusting my gut and taking action in the way it directs me.

02-12-2017, 01:41 PM	#366
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	That being obsessive can be a negative and positive thing.

03-14-2017, 06:19 PM	#368
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,316 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Learned I am researching storm surge structures and I ran across a report about an aqua duct that was above grade and crossed over a river. Imagine a road bridge that crosses over a river only it was full of water and used as a shipping channel. It is located in Germany. It was awesome I have never seen anything like that before. If I knew how to upload photos in a thread I would.

03-14-2017, 07:15 PM	#370
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,397 Times in 4,140 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Oh, I am still learning You trust the people you think are right, only to find out they are wrong. Wake up happy and don"t let anyone steal it from you' I've finally learned this one __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

03-23-2017, 07:31 PM	#371
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,666 Times in 4,464 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	That your heart can be a safe harbor, a sanctuary of sorts, of all your loves, failures, disappointments, broken dreams, hopes for the future that you have and have had, if you just are still and let things be and cherish every special person and moment you have experienced in your life. To just hold it all in your mind and heart at the same time. I really hope this hard headed butch has learned this and it isn't just a temporary epiphany. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

03-23-2017, 07:42 PM	#372
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Life isn't fair, at all, but you live and continue to learn.

03-23-2017, 09:01 PM	#373
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,814 Times in 5,772 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I think I am at my best when I am alone. __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?

03-24-2017, 07:19 AM	#376
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,370 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,595 Thanked 21,952 Times in 7,076 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	control your thoughts-this is always where the trouble starts __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

03-24-2017, 07:26 PM	#377
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,316 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Learned All work and no play makes me grumpy. I need some fun. My wish list

03-24-2017, 08:00 PM	#378
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,875 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	That sometimes life just ain't fair. It is what it is. Move on. __________________

03-24-2017, 08:58 PM	#379
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	I have hardly any patience left.

03-25-2017, 12:37 AM	#380
GeorgiaMa'am Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: widowed - involved, poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 6,419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,477 Thanked 28,475 Times in 5,790 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	It is way easier for me to be compassionate than to carry resentment around about the small everyday irritations. __________________ -GeorgiaMa'am It's true that you are blessed and lucky It's true that you are touched by something that will grow and bloom in you. -10,000 Maniacs