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Kätzchen · 03-26-2017, 12:00 PM

My type of work involves dealing with a lot of people, which can be overwhelming at times because I am quiet by nature, live rather quietly, and actually like a quiet, peaceful, conflict-free atmosphere. Work has its own brand or type of conflicts, which is oft times typical when engaging with lots of people. I am very much an introvert. Capable of extroversion when necessary, but I prefer the quiet introversion of my life.

Chad · 03-26-2017, 12:35 PM

I too am a very quiet person but can be an extrovert in business and in social situations.

I prefer the peace and quiet of my little ranch to almost everything else.

The best way to describe me is that I am like a cat. I lay quietly in my lair and come out to play when I feel like it.

I enjoy having friends and visiting them but I feel no need to be with people all of the time.

Kätzchen · 03-26-2017, 01:08 PM

Consumption of alcohol or alcoholism has no place in my life anymore. I attend Al-anon, I have a sponsor in the program too. Alcohol does nothing for me. I used to partake of alcohol on rare occasion, maybe once a year, an casual sip at a social function, but alcoholism is prevalent in my family. My dad was an dry alcoholic, his behaviors were atrocious, my youngest son is an alcoholic, but I don't suffer from alcoholism except to say I suffered far too long with members of my own family who are alcoholics, and alcoholism. I won't date or even partner with anyone who is an alcoholic. I won't even date or partner with anyone in recovery.

homoe · 03-26-2017, 04:49 PM

Most people from the "old" chat room know that I'm not a fan of company!

I don't mind if they come to visit and stay at a hotel, that works for me

C0LLETTE · 03-26-2017, 05:38 PM

I truly dislike use of the words: bitch, slut, lady, and classy.

The first two because they are used to degrade women ( no matter how playfully used) even, and maybe particularly, by women.

The second two because they are essentially meaningless beyond the 19th Century and always used by the wrong people.

girl_dee · 03-26-2017, 07:05 PM

I am extremely private about my life off of the site.

Violette · 03-26-2017, 09:29 PM

Too much noise overwhelms me. It hurts my nerves, if you know what I mean. I love music and I even play it loudly every once in a while. Then I need silence. Sweet silence. At least for a short while.

03-26-2017, 12:35 PM	#2
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Getting to know you I too am a very quiet person but can be an extrovert in business and in social situations. I prefer the peace and quiet of my little ranch to almost everything else. The best way to describe me is that I am like a cat. I lay quietly in my lair and come out to play when I feel like it. I enjoy having friends and visiting them but I feel no need to be with people all of the time.

03-26-2017, 05:38 PM	#5
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,170 Times in 4,339 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I truly dislike use of the words: bitch, slut, lady, and classy. The first two because they are used to degrade women ( no matter how playfully used) even, and maybe particularly, by women. The second two because they are essentially meaningless beyond the 19th Century and always used by the wrong people. __________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

03-26-2017, 12:00 PM	#1
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Sailing in a wooden shoe with Wynken, Blinkyn, and Nod. Posts: 16,250 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,404 Thanked 33,625 Times in 10,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	My type of work involves dealing with a lot of people, which can be overwhelming at times because I am quiet by nature, live rather quietly, and actually like a quiet, peaceful, conflict-free atmosphere. Work has its own brand or type of conflicts, which is oft times typical when engaging with lots of people. I am very much an introvert. Capable of extroversion when necessary, but I prefer the quiet introversion of my life.

03-26-2017, 01:08 PM	#3
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Sailing in a wooden shoe with Wynken, Blinkyn, and Nod. Posts: 16,250 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,404 Thanked 33,625 Times in 10,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Consumption of alcohol or alcoholism has no place in my life anymore. I attend Al-anon, I have a sponsor in the program too. Alcohol does nothing for me. I used to partake of alcohol on rare occasion, maybe once a year, an casual sip at a social function, but alcoholism is prevalent in my family. My dad was an dry alcoholic, his behaviors were atrocious, my youngest son is an alcoholic, but I don't suffer from alcoholism except to say I suffered far too long with members of my own family who are alcoholics, and alcoholism. I won't date or even partner with anyone who is an alcoholic. I won't even date or partner with anyone in recovery.

03-26-2017, 04:49 PM	#4
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts Rep Power: 21474890	Most people from the "old" chat room know that I'm not a fan of company! I don't mind if they come to visit and stay at a hotel, that works for me

03-26-2017, 07:05 PM	#6
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	I am extremely private about my life off of the site.

03-26-2017, 09:29 PM	#7
Violette Member How Do You Identify?: woman Join Date: May 2011 Location: Downtown Posts: 327 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,657 Thanked 587 Times in 127 Posts Rep Power: 5354546	Too much noise overwhelms me. It hurts my nerves, if you know what I mean. I love music and I even play it loudly every once in a while. Then I need silence. Sweet silence. At least for a short while.