03-26-2017, 01:08 PM | #321 |
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Consumption of alcohol or alcoholism has no place in my life anymore. I attend Al-anon, I have a sponsor in the program too. Alcohol does nothing for me. I used to partake of alcohol on rare occasion, maybe once a year, an casual sip at a social function, but alcoholism is prevalent in my family. My dad was an dry alcoholic, his behaviors were atrocious, my youngest son is an alcoholic, but I don't suffer from alcoholism except to say I suffered far too long with members of my own family who are alcoholics, and alcoholism. I won't date or even partner with anyone who is an alcoholic. I won't even date or partner with anyone in recovery.
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03-26-2017, 04:49 PM | #322 |
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Most people from the "old" chat room know that I'm not a fan of company!
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03-26-2017, 05:38 PM | #323 |
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I truly dislike use of the words: bitch, slut, lady, and classy.
The first two because they are used to degrade women ( no matter how playfully used) even, and maybe particularly, by women. The second two because they are essentially meaningless beyond the 19th Century and always used by the wrong people.
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03-26-2017, 07:05 PM | #324 |
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I am extremely private about my life off of the site.
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03-26-2017, 09:29 PM | #325 |
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Too much noise overwhelms me. It hurts my nerves, if you know what I mean. I love music and I even play it loudly every once in a while. Then I need silence. Sweet silence. At least for a short while.
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03-27-2017, 12:20 AM | #326 |
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Offline, I am a recluse. Well, my partner claims that in order to be a recluse, it means that you're hiding from something. I rarely exit my apartment except for errands. She calls me a "hermit."
Also, rarely talk on the phone. In fact, don't even have one. Communicate almost exclusively by computer.
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03-27-2017, 04:18 AM | #327 | |
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Most introverts are rarely lonely. I am OH SO happy right here in my happy little home playing online and entertaining myself. When i go out, i just can't wait to get home. Its my happy place. I do not like to speak on the phone either!!! |
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03-27-2017, 08:12 AM | #328 |
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I am a free spirit!!!!
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03-31-2017, 04:16 PM | #329 |
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I don't like soup!
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03-31-2017, 06:18 PM | #330 |
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Since graduation from college: I have had 4 employers.
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03-31-2017, 07:41 PM | #331 |
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I Pho
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03-31-2017, 09:06 PM | #332 |
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I am a task master in my real life. Yep that is true not fun but true.
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03-31-2017, 09:06 PM | #333 |
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I miss my work ~ having to live such a quiet life is challenging my inner spirit .
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03-31-2017, 09:36 PM | #334 | |
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03-31-2017, 11:20 PM | #335 |
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I too am getting to be a recluse. I rarely go out except for my grand daughter, some errands and work. Tomorrow I am going out with my best friend for the first time in over a year. She lives only10 minutes from me!
When i was younger I had many social occasions I enjoyed. A night with the symphony. Rodeos. Shopping sprees. Parties. You name it, I loved going to it. And I was quite the extrovert. As I age, I am finding a quiet center, and a need to nest within my own small space of a life. I have a HUGE life, but compared to the great world out there, it is just small. I wouldnt say I am an introvert but I no longer want that exposure and attention.
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04-01-2017, 12:59 AM | #336 |
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I don't eat hot food (see previous post regarding not liking soup) or drink hot drinks. No for me thankyouverymuch
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04-01-2017, 04:42 AM | #337 |
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So, gazpacho is okay?
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04-01-2017, 10:54 AM | #338 |
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04-01-2017, 04:40 PM | #339 |
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I was in accident when i was in my early 20's and i saw my life flash before my eyes. It was a short film but wow it happened!
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04-01-2017, 04:50 PM | #340 |
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I have always been the same person that I am now. From my earliest memory I have known who I am. When I was in second grade I had three girlfriends. Haha!
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