getting to know you..... Give me ONE ........

tinydancer · 04-08-2017, 07:54 PM

I can only eat bananas if they're like 40% green. No more and no less.

Chad · 04-08-2017, 09:08 PM

I clean my house or hotel room before the maid comes.
Yep, I am that guy. Haha!

girl_dee · 04-09-2017, 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Chad

I clean my house or hotel room before the maid comes.
Yep, I am that guy. Haha!

i TOTALLY do this! i also clean the table at the restaurant before the server does.

Chad · 04-09-2017, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

i TOTALLY do this! i also clean the table at the restaurant before the server does.

I do that too!!! Haha

girl_dee · 04-09-2017, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Chad

I do that too!!! Haha

Someone told me it annoys the wait staff

Gemme · 04-09-2017, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by GeorgiaMa'am

I prefer living alone. I've had relationships as long as 8 years where we lived together, but I'm never really quite relaxed when someone else is in the house, or might come home. What if I want to walk around naked? What if I want to tap dance in the kitchen at 3 a.m.? What if I want to use my Magic Wand when everyone's asleep? (Those things are great, but they're loud.) I realize this is a really privileged position, but I'm really lucky to be able to live alone most of the time.

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this made me chuckle.

Every day when i come home, i think to myself LOVE being here alone. i have tried co-habitation too many times to try it again. i want my own space.

however, it would be nice to have some company, but then they have to go home.

My dad had it right all these years. I used to think he was bonkers but as I've aged and grown to appreciate my own space, I think he's totally onto something.

He and my stepmom lived in separate homes. Granted, they usually lived next door or around the corner from one another for over 30 years but it was ideal. He came over and helped her with the house and she sent him home with a plate of food. They were able to love one another and then go HOME. It was like they dated for over 3 decades so they kept the spark alive.

easygoingfemme · 04-09-2017, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

My dad had it right all these years. I used to think he was bonkers but as I've aged and grown to appreciate my own space, I think he's totally onto something.

He and my stepmom lived in separate homes. Granted, they usually lived next door or around the corner from one another for over 30 years but it was ideal. He came over and helped her with the house and she sent him home with a plate of food. They were able to love one another and then go HOME. It was like they dated for over 3 decades so they kept the spark alive.

I could SOOO get behind a setup like that...

WolfyOne · 04-10-2017, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

i TOTALLY do this! i also clean the table at the restaurant before the server does.

I grew up with a mom who was a waitress and not only do I wipe down the table with my napkin, I stack the plates, put all the silverware on the top plate and put the glasses next to them.

homoe · 04-09-2017, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad

I clean my house or hotel room before the maid comes.
Yep, I am that guy. Haha!

I will never get this nor do this.....LMAO

JDeere · 04-09-2017, 02:37 PM

I don't like it when people get moody with me, it pisses me off and makes me in a foul mood.

homoe · 04-09-2017, 03:52 PM

I dislike people that run hot and cold!

You know the type that falls all over you one day, and then the next wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire

Kätzchen · 04-09-2017, 04:27 PM

I'm a pillow queen, in so many ways .... there's no such thing as too many pillows. I add to my pillow collection as often as I can. And, just like collecting pillows, I collect scarfs. Some I wear (a black silk gold embroidery thread scarf from Japan), or I have lots of big scarfs that are batik, or silk, or cotton silk screened prints that I drape over windows or room furnishings. I also like unusual umbrellas, too. Some I use as decorations, others I use when it rains.

homoe · 04-09-2017, 04:46 PM

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I'm a pillow queen, in so many ways .... there's no such thing as too many pillows. I add to my pillow collection as often as I can. And, just like collecting pillows, I collect scarfs. Some I wear (a black silk gold embroidery thread scarf from Japan), or I have lots of big scarfs that are batik, or silk, or cotton silk screened prints that I drape over windows or room furnishings. I also like unusual umbrellas, too. Some I use as decorations, others I use when it rains.

I hate to show my ignorance BUT are pillows mainly just a femme thing? I assume they are mainly for show/decoration/decor cause you all seem to take em off at night I've noticed

easygoingfemme · 04-09-2017, 06:41 PM

I have to side step my advocacy for the living apart thing to remember that I did have a really good living together relationship for one long chunk of time. We were together 10 years and lived together, really well, for 9 1/2 years. Even when we were separating we did better than most as far as stopping living together went.

Now I think I've gotten just too set in my ways- but I suppose I should keep in mind that I've seen and experienced it working with the right person. Plus we had a pretty big house to spread out in.

JDeere · 04-09-2017, 08:09 PM

I prefer 90's Country music.

girl_dee · 04-09-2017, 09:12 PM

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I prefer 90's Country music.

me too....

Shystonefem · 04-14-2017, 06:14 PM

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I will never get this nor do this.....LMAO

I do that. I don't like leaving things messy.

JDeere · 04-14-2017, 06:19 PM

I only drink Jager out of the bottle!

Shystonefem · 04-14-2017, 06:20 PM

I don't eat meat and I have lost TOO MUCH weight because of that.

C0LLETTE · 04-14-2017, 06:50 PM

I never knew I had excess facial hair till i bought a magnifying mirror.

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