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05-06-2017, 04:51 PM
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Senior Member
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Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?:
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She is my sunrise and sunset. 
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I may be in the minority, but I don't mind my personal "label" as it were.
I am a Butch, lesbian. I love and adore femme lesbians.
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05-06-2017, 05:45 PM
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Infamous Member
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Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?:
She Join Date: Nov 2009
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I definitely identify as Butch. That is why I am here in the first place. Other people have different meanings for butch than I do and that's just fine. Also, for those who have ridiculous pre-conceived notions about butch - like we have to all be good at car mechanics or something - then I just laugh it off. I don't find the "label" or "gender identity" or Butch to be confining at all. Quite the opposite. It is a fine tuning of who I am and is very meaningful to me. I'm also not gender fluid or someone who is constantly changing when it comes to my gender identity and sexuality and I am happy that way.
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05-06-2017, 06:03 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
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Hitched up 
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i dont feel that because we joined a BF site, we have to be labeled as anything to please anyone.
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05-06-2017, 06:46 PM
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Timed Out - TOS Drama
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Although there are many people here who identify in many different ways, I am a lover of the butch/femme dance, and I am my own brand of femme. I am married to a butch, who does butch as she sees butch to be.
Whether or not you care for labels or the boxes people want to squeeze you into, when you feel that "energy" that compliments your own, then you know why there will always be " the dance". |
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05-06-2017, 09:14 PM
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Infamous Member
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Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?:
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Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011
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I don't dislike labels at all.
At this site, we identify that we prefer butch/femme. Those are labels aren't they? Within that circle, many of us define ourselves even further. I don't begrudge anyone their own specific orientation, gender or attraction. We are attracted to who we are. I am a lesbian femme and am attracted to butch lesbians. It just is.
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