The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

JDeere · 05-14-2017, 06:34 PM

Okay so I am 40 now, am I allowed to play with the big kids in here? LOL

Chad · 05-14-2017, 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Okay so I am 40 now, am I allowed to play with the big kids in here? LOL

Welcome to the Loft buddy.

JDeere · 05-14-2017, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad

Welcome to the Loft buddy.

Thank you my friend!

Gemme · 05-14-2017, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Okay so I am 40 now, am I allowed to play with the big kids in here? LOL

You can sit at the big kids' table too.

JDeere · 05-14-2017, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

You can sit at the big kids' table too.

Now that's a plus!

hopelessromantic69 · 07-25-2017, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

You can sit at the big kids' table too.

Is there a bigger table for when I hit 50 in two years?

It has a black table cloth huh? :P

introverted1 · 08-12-2017, 06:33 PM

Gosh, not a lot going on here.

I'm missing my mom so bad, now that the two month mark is out. Her apartment is emptied, her mail is coming to my condo, and I'm just marking time, waiting for her last bills to trickle in.

Now, I have lots of time to think. And feel. Nothing to do but wait. The tying up loose ends of eighty-eight years of existence is my duty to her.

This has been my favorite quote since I was twenty years old, but it's really hitting home today.

"There are places in the heart that do not yet exist...and, so into them enters suffering, in order that they may have existence."

Leon Bloy

Mel C. · 08-12-2017, 06:57 PM

My condolences introverted.

introverted1 · 08-12-2017, 09:24 PM

Thanks, everybody. I don't have anything to distract me any longer. That's the issue, I'm guessing. But, it's necessary to not have distractions, sometimes.

Mel C. · 08-12-2017, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1

Thanks, everybody. I don't have anything to distract me any longer. That's the issue, I'm guessing. But, it's necessary to not have distractions, sometimes.

Try coming into chat. We can distract you.

CowboyJ · 08-25-2017, 10:25 AM

Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password

. I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute

))).

Ladies, lovely as ever

TempestuousFemme · 08-14-2017, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1

Gosh, not a lot going on here.

I'm missing my mom so bad, now that the two month mark is out. Her apartment is emptied, her mail is coming to my condo, and I'm just marking time, waiting for her last bills to trickle in.

Now, I have lots of time to think. And feel. Nothing to do but wait. The tying up loose ends of eighty-eight years of existence is my duty to her.

This has been my favorite quote since I was twenty years old, but it's really hitting home today.

"There are places in the heart that do not yet exist...and, so into them enters suffering, in order that they may have existence."

Leon Bloy

I totally understand where you're coming from. It's been 5 months since I lost my partner. Every bill, piece of mail, made me cry. I am also trying to make a new life for myself. I wasn't sure what to do with myself after she died. I spent so many years taking care of her. Losing someone you love is never easy. Hang in there, and be patient with yourself. If you ever need a friend I'm on KIK, just drop me a message there.

08-25-2017, 10:25 AM	#11
CowboyJ Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FtM Preferred Pronoun?: He or Him Relationship Status: Ask Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Kansas Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30 Thanked 69 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 2324953	Missed Everyone Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password . I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute ))). Ladies, lovely as ever __________________ "Love is misunderstood to be an emotion; actually, it is a state of awareness, how we see ourselves and how we see our relationships with others." -David R. Hawkins

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08-12-2017, 06:33 PM	#7
introverted1 Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: introville Posts: 250 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 422 Thanked 740 Times in 212 Posts Rep Power: 7058202	Gosh, not a lot going on here. I'm missing my mom so bad, now that the two month mark is out. Her apartment is emptied, her mail is coming to my condo, and I'm just marking time, waiting for her last bills to trickle in. Now, I have lots of time to think. And feel. Nothing to do but wait. The tying up loose ends of eighty-eight years of existence is my duty to her. This has been my favorite quote since I was twenty years old, but it's really hitting home today. "There are places in the heart that do not yet exist...and, so into them enters suffering, in order that they may have existence." Leon Bloy

08-12-2017, 06:57 PM	#8
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,828 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	My condolences introverted.

08-12-2017, 09:24 PM	#9
introverted1 Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: introville Posts: 250 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 422 Thanked 740 Times in 212 Posts Rep Power: 7058202	Thanks, everybody. I don't have anything to distract me any longer. That's the issue, I'm guessing. But, it's necessary to not have distractions, sometimes.