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Old 07-17-2017, 04:49 PM   #1
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I decided recently that I am indeed a woman, it's just my butchness kinda messes with my self perception.

Idk I'm trying to get familiarized with the lesbian community
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Until recently... last couple of years... I didn't know that was an issue ... or in question. Meaning, that one could be a Butch and prefer/accept feminine pronouns and/or also ID as woman/female. I'm assuming... that's what you mean(?)


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Until recently... last couple of years... I didn't know that was an issue ... or in question. Meaning, that one could be a Butch and prefer/accept feminine pronouns and/or also ID as woman/female. I'm assuming... that's what you mean(?)
Well, we like to separate, then come back together. There are male identified butches (cool) and female identified butches (cool) and transmit (cool) and I'm sure there are others, but we are all masculine of center and support each other....right?

My comment wasn't intended to exclude, it was intended to include. I, as a WIB, didn't feel that I fit in the other groups so it is nice to see other people say hey, I'm butch and I'm a woman. I didn't feel I was butch "enough." Now, I'm more comfy in my identity and I am pleased to welcome anyone who is walking a similar path. I'm also pleased to welcome someone walking a different path. I just like to welcome....what can I say?
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Welcoming is a good thing!

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Well, we like to separate, then come back together. There are male identified butches (cool) and female identified butches (cool) and transmit (cool) and I'm sure there are others, but we are all masculine of center and support each other....right?

My comment wasn't intended to exclude, it was intended to include. I, as a WIB, didn't feel that I fit in the other groups so it is nice to see other people say hey, I'm butch and I'm a woman. I didn't feel I was butch "enough." Now, I'm more comfy in my identity and I am pleased to welcome anyone who is walking a similar path. I'm also pleased to welcome someone walking a different path. I just like to welcome....what can I say?
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Welcome to the "woman-identified butch" club. We have a secret handshake and everything.

Self awareness is a good thing. Good luck on your journey and feel free to reach out to other butches.
So Mel, is this an inclusionary club or an exclusionary one? I bribe
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Mel... hold up... let's see what's on the offering table!

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But of course! I was looking for some details... we talking.. milk chocolate... dark chocolate... are there nuts?! These are things a Chocolate Loving Butch wants ta know!

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But of course! I was looking for some details... we talking.. milk chocolate... dark chocolate... are there nuts?! These are things a Chocolate Loving Butch wants ta know!
(looking into knapsack, I find) Oh, lookee a Sampler Box, some Lindt bars, and a Mr. Goodbar. (extending hand holding bag of chocolate googies) Passing knapsack to bouncer as I saunter through the secret club door.
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Oh! I do like a variety!!

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