What have you learned?

2qt · 07-31-2017, 09:09 AM

I have learned no matter how much you put in it won't always make a difference.... That it's okay to say no once in a while.... Text can be easily misread.... That giving a part of me to someone doesn't give them the right to own every part of me... That I am okay being me & if that isn't enough then they're not enough for me... That strength doesn't come from muscles it comes from the mind... If your mind is weak all of you is....

BullDog · 07-31-2017, 10:59 AM

To stay true to Myself. To give my energy, attention and love to those who genuinely care about me and value me as a person and ignore the noise.

JDeere · 07-31-2017, 08:11 PM

That my list for what I want and don't want in my next relationship or dating, has changed.

hopelessromantic69 · 07-31-2017, 08:19 PM

That I can't change a tire in 15 minutes anymore. It took 20 minutes yesterday! I'm getting old lol!

Esme nha Maire · 08-06-2017, 05:28 PM

This last few months, I have been learning that there are more ways to be than I ever dreamt of, and that education is helping me understand myself better, and feel more comfortable in my own skin and amongst other humans. This is wonderful.

Shystonefem · 08-06-2017, 07:22 PM

I learned the most important lesson you could learn. You do you first. Everyone needs something but you cannot be everything to everyone when you are not running on a full tank.

I am sick yet people still look to me for help. I have nothing to give them because all my energies are focused on me. I kind of like it that way.

JDeere · 08-06-2017, 08:21 PM

I procrastinate way too much!

07-31-2017, 10:59 AM	#2
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,640 Times in 4,463 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	To stay true to Myself. To give my energy, attention and love to those who genuinely care about me and value me as a person and ignore the noise. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

07-31-2017, 08:11 PM	#3
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	That my list for what I want and don't want in my next relationship or dating, has changed. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

07-31-2017, 08:19 PM	#4
hopelessromantic69 Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: all male Relationship Status: Single but unavailable Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Eugene OR Posts: 394 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 108 Thanked 478 Times in 195 Posts Rep Power: 3686584	That I can't change a tire in 15 minutes anymore. It took 20 minutes yesterday! I'm getting old lol! __________________ Stefan

08-06-2017, 07:22 PM	#6
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,671 Times in 897 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I learned the most important lesson you could learn. You do you first. Everyone needs something but you cannot be everything to everyone when you are not running on a full tank. I am sick yet people still look to me for help. I have nothing to give them because all my energies are focused on me. I kind of like it that way. __________________ Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu

08-06-2017, 08:21 PM	#7
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	I procrastinate way too much! __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

07-31-2017, 09:09 AM	#1
2qt Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mothership Posts: 873 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 861 Thanked 1,966 Times in 582 Posts Rep Power: 15312204	I have learned no matter how much you put in it won't always make a difference.... That it's okay to say no once in a while.... Text can be easily misread.... That giving a part of me to someone doesn't give them the right to own every part of me... That I am okay being me & if that isn't enough then they're not enough for me... That strength doesn't come from muscles it comes from the mind... If your mind is weak all of you is....

08-06-2017, 05:28 PM	#5
Esme nha Maire Member How Do You Identify?: Tomboyish eccentric antique femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: UK Posts: 642 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,196 Thanked 2,078 Times in 541 Posts Rep Power: 19310770	This last few months, I have been learning that there are more ways to be than I ever dreamt of, and that education is helping me understand myself better, and feel more comfortable in my own skin and amongst other humans. This is wonderful.