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Old 05-28-2010, 06:14 PM   #1
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oh yeah i forgot i will run and hide and go into spasms when spiders or wasps or hornets are in my vicinity

mah woman has had to protect me many times from the evil creatures and yes i can scream loudly when they come near me although i always try to run away first lol
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Old 05-28-2010, 06:39 PM   #2
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Let's see:
I sew.
I make jewelry.
I don't follow sports, they bore Me to death, like I'll fall asleep, deliberately if you try to make Me watch it.
I don't do anything mechanical.
I cry watching shows about animal cruelty and I always cry when the Ewoks friend dies in Return of the Jedi, every single time ...
I love the colour pink, I even had hot pink hair up until recently.
I write poetry for My babygirl.
I admit to always feeling happy whenever the good guy gets the girl in a movie.
I use hand lotion, frequently, and if my fingernails are in a sorry state, I use clear nail polish on them.
That's all I can think of for now, I'm sure I'll have more to add at a later date though.
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Old 05-28-2010, 06:44 PM   #3
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~ I bake.

~ I talk. A lot.

~ I like fruity drinks served in coconut shells with little paper umbrellas.
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Old 05-28-2010, 07:00 PM   #4
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I can operate a vacuum and an iron but I still have a lil trouble turning on the stove.

I suck at math

I use deodorant
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Old 05-28-2010, 07:13 PM   #5
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I am GQ guy and

I have changed my own oil but I prefer not too
I like to cook and am pretty good at it
I care about aesthetics and art
Snakes freak me out
I *hate* plumbing (but will do it if I must)
I am not much of a handyman
I like flowers and flower arranging
I write pretty emotional poetry
I have been known change my shirt 10 times if I am getting ready to go out
I am competent at math but it bores me to freaking tears
I finally embraced that my ideal vocal range is coloratura soprano
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Old 05-28-2010, 07:43 PM   #6
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mice, bugs and snakes freak me out...yes, i squeal and go the other way

i'm a good cook

i've learned to enjoy baking...i make a fine, fine sweet potato pie and can rock some baklava

i can sew (i have plans to make obnoxiously bright hawaiian shirts for myself)

i dislike working on cars

i enjoy decorating, arranging furniture and artsy stuff

i prefer romantic comedies and weep copiously at the sad parts (and the happy parts)

i enjoy having dinner parties and set a lovely table (although i cannot be in charge of the guest list)

i'm not always very good at opening jars

i am nurturing by nature

i'm really good at laundry and i enjoy ironing
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Old 05-28-2010, 07:48 PM   #7
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Question I don't get it..

I really don't understand how copping to stereotypical behaviors of male (if you're femme) or female (if you're butch) is breaking down any stereotypes at all. If anything, I believe it perpetuates the mindset that behaviors have some gender association.

I'm not trying to be a thread-kill or an asshole. I just. don't. get. it.

my existence is meant to break stereotypes,
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:07 PM   #8
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I'm a man and...

I own a see through blouse

I also own the most fabulous, flaired-at-the-bottom, most colorfully striped pair of women's pants that go with the see through blouse, and I call them my Solstice Pants (but I can't fit into them anymore).

The fact that I can't wear my Solstice Pants makes me sad

I will stand quietly panicky in the background while Mahhh Woman kills any critters or removes any carcasses.

I hate to be the person or assumed person "manning" the BBQ at a cookout

I have the biggest crushes on: George Clooney, Paul Newman, Eddie Vedder, Robert Redford in any cowboy movie (but especially 'Butch Cassidy And The Sundance Kid"), Jude Law, and The Transporter Guy (among others)

I talk to plants and flowers in baby voice while I rub their little leaves

It's always been a dream of mine to be a backup dancer/singer for Aretha Franklin, and I've designed the outfit and choreographed the whole concert.

My backup dancer outfit is a fitted mini dress, preferably neon blue, lime green, or bright orange with wide white lapels and worn with white, knee high, patent leather go go boots with a thick, chunky 3ish inch heel

And I really have choreographed the entire show

If snakes get too close to me or surprise me outta nowhere, I scream and jump on whomever's closest

I gag if I have to empty the sink drain of food particles

I've slept with more men than I have women

I helped a femme fix MY tire today


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Old 05-28-2010, 10:01 PM   #9
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I like sledgehammers.
Violent video games make me randy.

And I recently found Goof's DVD collection of "Sabrina, the Teenage Witch"
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Old 05-28-2010, 10:18 PM   #10
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I love sappy 70's music

I love to sing; in the shower, the car, poolside...whenever the mood strikes me

I love kids/young adult books...Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, Artemis Fowl, etc

I don't have the 'Sabrina the Teenage Witch' collection on DVD (yet), but I will watch it when I'm home sick since it comes on in the middle of the day

I've been known to cook dinner and do the dishes

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Old 06-01-2010, 06:02 PM   #11
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I'm Danny and I'm a butch

I can sew
I have planter full of flowers (I like columbines)
I like beading
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Old 06-01-2010, 06:07 PM   #12
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i'm sooooooo femme that...

ANYTIME anyone says "nuts"...

i turn to them and say: DEEZNUTZ?
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Old 06-01-2010, 09:31 PM   #13
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I'm a femme who does not sew, is not a great cook (decent, but not great and I don't love it), and will kill creepy crawlies.
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