The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

ruthie14 · 05-29-2010, 09:04 PM

Sigh... ok .. my self esteem is suffering. Got a slap in the face (figuratively) tonight. Unintended by the deliverer, but still. Jeeze. Some things I CANNOT change. Just when you think you're getting back on your feet and bringing balance to your life..... someone inadverdently points out some flaw you cannot help. Is she the devil? No .. Just not thinking I guess. Insensative for sure. Makes me mad that I let this stuff bother me. I'm only human and only so much one person can take before it starts to take its toll.

05-29-2010, 09:04 PM	#11
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Sigh... ok .. my self esteem is suffering. Got a slap in the face (figuratively) tonight. Unintended by the deliverer, but still. Jeeze. Some things I CANNOT change. Just when you think you're getting back on your feet and bringing balance to your life..... someone inadverdently points out some flaw you cannot help. Is she the devil? No .. Just not thinking I guess. Insensative for sure. Makes me mad that I let this stuff bother me. I'm only human and only so much one person can take before it starts to take its toll.