NEW YEAR,What are your wishes and goals

Kelt · 12-28-2017, 09:27 PM

I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right.

I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something...

'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right?

Mopsie · 12-29-2017, 07:32 AM

I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year.

Balance and consistency.

These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

Bèsame* · 12-30-2017, 11:19 AM

Gayandgray · 12-30-2017, 11:23 AM

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I like this!

Mopsie · 01-03-2018, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Mopsie

I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year.

Balance and consistency.

These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

PlatinumPearl · 01-03-2018, 10:14 PM

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I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

Awesome!! I too have started to mediate daily....I do the guided meditations on YouTube which I find helpful in silencing my busy mind.

A few of my intentions for 2018 include:

Meditation
More balance work/play
Be more creative

Gayandgray · 01-03-2018, 11:24 PM

Well since my health is now suffering I have no choice but to lose weight. I’m re-commiting back to low carb and starting to slowly add exercise to my daily routine. Like others, I too, want to try to meditate at least for a short amount of time to start, each day. I’m thinking even 5-10 minutes a day would help.

Bèsame* · 01-04-2018, 12:06 AM

Dont give up on your dreams...just keep sleeping 💤💤💤😇

akiza · 01-04-2018, 07:17 AM

i think that i've told that in my fb account and in groups i keep wishing the best for others and for me ^^ to be less shy,always open minded,to keep an eye on my weight*really i don't want to add more*,to finish that year

Mopsie · 01-20-2018, 12:26 PM

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I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

I have been meditating most nights. I have worked my way up to about 20 minutes a day although I have to admit that some days I stopped before the 20 minutes was up.

I have really noticed that it helps me stay calmer during the day and more focused.

How is everybody else doing so far?

Kätzchen · 11-26-2019, 11:37 PM

Goal (s): I plan to have three big bills paid off in full, so when I take a vacation next fall, I can take the dream vacation I have always wanted.

My biggest wish is to see justice served to the current person occupying the WH, and to see all their followers get the comeuppance they deserve. So that the social message they receive loud and clear is that cheaters, liars and manipulators deserve no reward for their behavioral choices that hurt others.

Gemme · 11-27-2019, 09:49 AM

My main goal is to stay on my financial plan. It's a 3 year plan but if I get lucky with hours and get some good bonuses in, I could reduce that down to 2.5 years.

My wish is that my paperwork for the medical program I applied to goes through and I can start the treatments before the end of the year and January at the latest.

Chad · 11-27-2019, 10:02 PM

I don't really do New Years goals but for 2020 all I want is for my shoulder to be 100% again.

I am blessed with a great life and good health so I think that is all that I could ask for.

12-29-2017, 07:32 AM	#2
Mopsie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Female ones Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Shenandoah Valley Virginia Posts: 4,769 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,246 Thanked 8,551 Times in 1,856 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Balance and consistency I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year. Balance and consistency. These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

12-30-2017, 11:19 AM	#3
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01-03-2018, 11:24 PM	#7
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,862 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,885 Times in 3,081 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Well since my health is now suffering I have no choice but to lose weight. I’m re-commiting back to low carb and starting to slowly add exercise to my daily routine. Like others, I too, want to try to meditate at least for a short amount of time to start, each day. I’m thinking even 5-10 minutes a day would help. __________________

01-04-2018, 12:06 AM	#8
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,168 Thanked 41,011 Times in 10,766 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Dont give up on your dreams...just keep sleeping 💤💤💤😇 __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

11-26-2019, 11:37 PM	#11
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Relationship Status: Unavailable (on hiatus). Join Date: May 2010 Location: Near smoke signals in the sky. Posts: 16,191 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,503 Thanked 33,605 Times in 10,705 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Goal (s): I plan to have three big bills paid off in full, so when I take a vacation next fall, I can take the dream vacation I have always wanted. My biggest wish is to see justice served to the current person occupying the WH, and to see all their followers get the comeuppance they deserve. So that the social message they receive loud and clear is that cheaters, liars and manipulators deserve no reward for their behavioral choices that hurt others. __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. “The smartest people are clearly the best listeners,” — Audible. I’m doing my part, as an American citizen, who is concerned about losing our Democracy: I boycott agencies and businesses and service providers who do not support the US Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Support Democracy: Vote Blue

12-28-2017, 09:27 PM	#1
Kelt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Beach Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: SoCal Posts: 2,751 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,765 Thanked 15,279 Times in 2,538 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right. I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something... 'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right?

01-04-2018, 07:17 AM	#9
akiza Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: khaleessi lol ^-^ just go with aki,ana,kit or princess Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Congo-brazzaville Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 318 Thanked 623 Times in 285 Posts Rep Power: 0	i think that i've told that in my fb account and in groups i keep wishing the best for others and for me ^^ to be less shy,always open minded,to keep an eye on my weightreally i don't want to add more,to finish that year

11-27-2019, 09:49 AM	#12
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,926 Times in 25,666 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	My main goal is to stay on my financial plan. It's a 3 year plan but if I get lucky with hours and get some good bonuses in, I could reduce that down to 2.5 years. My wish is that my paperwork for the medical program I applied to goes through and I can start the treatments before the end of the year and January at the latest. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

11-27-2019, 10:02 PM	#13
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	New year I don't really do New Years goals but for 2020 all I want is for my shoulder to be 100% again. I am blessed with a great life and good health so I think that is all that I could ask for.