What TO DO in a relationship.....

[charley]

Originally Posted by charley

the very word relationship comes from the word relate,
to feel related to another
to feel it deeply in your heart, in your mind, in your blood
that is the very essence of relationship
to lie to another human being would mean that you don't really care for that person, and that there never was any kind of real relationship to begin with;
we are all connected, and a liar is someone who doesn't care about the consequences to humanity for their lies;
I don't bother about such people, whether they lie to me or to someone else, they have their own life, such as it is

it occurred to me, that there is a second part to the above, as follows:
when one feels related to another (as above), there is no way one could or would harm/hurt the other, as it would be like harming/hurting oneself