How about butch and butch?

homoe · 04-17-2018, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by FireSignFemme

Once I came home from work and caught my partner, who was butch and my ex, also butch, doing the do in the living room. On the hide-a-bed. So yeah it's out there. You just have to work to find it.

Oh dear.............

JDeere · 04-18-2018, 02:40 PM

I have joined a group on facebook for butch/butch. Lets just say its quite different.

BermieSwim · 07-15-2018, 12:01 AM

Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

Breathless · 07-15-2018, 03:40 AM

I recall about 12 years ago.. a friend of mine was on the butch threads.. part of the mailing out group on a different site, and she was interested in a butch that was also in the group.. and they had to keep it hush as to not get kicked out of the group. Personally I think it's crazy.. we (generally speaking) are so hard on each other and ourselves.. Love is Love in my books, and if you are lucky enough to find it... embrace! enjoy! celebrate! and fuck those who can't get past their own judgements.

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Originally Posted by BermieSwim

Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

Brisa · 07-15-2018, 07:24 AM

I see Butch/Butch couples around all the time...it has been more common than you think....

A. Spectre · 07-15-2018, 07:50 AM

My beautiful and talented femme bride is the yin to my yang, the chocolate in my peanut butter, the aroma in my roses, and ALL things that complement.

We both love it that way, our relationship has that Butch-femme energy that pops! Her feminine smells, the way she moves her body, the way she shakes out her long scrumptious red hair.

So, whatever works for you. But for us, it is most definitely the Butch/femme dynamic.

homoe · 07-15-2018, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Breathless

I recall about 12 years ago.. a friend of mine was on the butch threads.. part of the mailing out group on a different site, and she was interested in a butch that was also in the group.. and they had to keep it hush as to not get kicked out of the group. Personally I think it's crazy.. we (generally speaking) are so hard on each other and ourselves.. Love is Love in my books, and if you are lucky enough to find it... embrace! enjoy! celebrate! and fuck those who can't get past their own judgements.

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JDeere · 07-15-2018, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by BermieSwim

Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

Ive heard of it being frowned upon for many years. It's a shame actually because it shouldnt matter who you love, people can shove their judgements up their arse as far as im concerned.

Greco · 07-15-2018, 05:49 PM

Life is very, very short.

If a person cares about what other people think
of their decision for a lover, or any decision for
that matter, than that person will be on
a roller-coaster ride of emotions for the whole of
their precious life.

I've learned that it's about energy. I "dance" with
femme submissives. My energy and they simply
fit, snugly...smiling.

Would I take a butch submissive? I would if she
had what I "dance" to; that butch
has not appeared in my life.

Do I care what anyone else thinks? No.

So, JDeere, love and be loved, fuck the rest.

Greco

JDeere · 07-17-2018, 11:32 AM

Also the community makes you feel unwelcome, if your b/b as well.

kittygrrl · 07-17-2018, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Also the community makes you feel unwelcome, if your b/b as well.

If you're talking about this community, I don't think that's true. The site promotes butch, femme and everything else. There are times people (may) seem intolerant but it's usually because they don't understand or are fearful. Everyone is capable of growing and changing in time.. Sometimes we just have to be patient and love them anyway.

Lyte · 07-17-2018, 03:51 PM

Seriously? That's wrong as well as ridiculous!

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Also the community makes you feel unwelcome, if your b/b as well.

07-15-2018, 12:01 AM	#3
BermieSwim Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her ... hey you Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2018 Location: Western MA Posts: 20 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19 Thanked 32 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 644253	Butch/butch Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

07-15-2018, 07:24 AM	#5
Brisa Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Female Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Beach Haven NJ Posts: 3,476 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 900 Thanked 933 Times in 442 Posts Rep Power: 5197530	Brisa I see Butch/Butch couples around all the time...it has been more common than you think....

07-15-2018, 07:50 AM	#6
A. Spectre Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She, Baby Boi Relationship Status: She is my sunrise and sunset. Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: North Shore Chicago Posts: 1,569 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,033 Thanked 11,075 Times in 1,495 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	My beautiful and talented femme bride is the yin to my yang, the chocolate in my peanut butter, the aroma in my roses, and ALL things that complement. We both love it that way, our relationship has that Butch-femme energy that pops! Her feminine smells, the way she moves her body, the way she shakes out her long scrumptious red hair. So, whatever works for you. But for us, it is most definitely the Butch/femme dynamic. __________________ * * *Joy and Sorrow are Inseparable

07-15-2018, 05:49 PM	#9
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,616 Times in 2,285 Posts Rep Power: 0	B/b B/f Life is very, very short. If a person cares about what other people think of their decision for a lover, or any decision for that matter, than that person will be on a roller-coaster ride of emotions for the whole of their precious life. I've learned that it's about energy. I "dance" with femme submissives. My energy and they simply fit, snugly...smiling. Would I take a butch submissive? I would if she had what I "dance" to; that butch has not appeared in my life. Do I care what anyone else thinks? No. So, JDeere, love and be loved, fuck the rest. Greco

07-17-2018, 11:32 AM	#10
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04-18-2018, 02:40 PM	#2
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,835 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	I have joined a group on facebook for butch/butch. Lets just say its quite different.