How do you know someone is..

Bad_boi · 06-02-2010, 04:18 PM

The way people look and act can be a hint. This is not certain but sometimes it helps. What does it matter whether they are butch or femme or (insert identity) people are people.

The only true way is to ask them.

GoofyLuvr · 06-02-2010, 04:28 PM

Let's just say I've learned the hard way not to assume anything! LOL

Curley · 06-02-2010, 05:19 PM

It's been said in here it often depends where on lives and their community I live and worked in a very gay environment my gaydar is usually spot on but on the flip side when I'm in a different city My gaydar is often way off ie assuming everyone is gay.....lol.[

chefhottie25 · 06-02-2010, 08:25 PM

I am real bad at this. I have no gaydar. However, I can always seem to identify a bisexual woman.

View Poll Results: Do you determine ID (Butch or Femme) based on looks?
Yes, all the time for femmes	0	0%
Yes, all the time for butches	9	8.57%
Yes, for both	14	13.33%
Yes but only sometimes	23	21.90%
Yes, but only when I see a person on the street. Not online	18	17.14%
Yes but try not to	31	29.52%
Never!	7	6.67%
Other (please elaborate below)	3	2.86%
Voters: 105. You may not vote on this poll

06-02-2010, 04:18 PM	#1
Bad_boi Member How Do You Identify?: Transman (male) Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His ect. Relationship Status: Handsome bastard. Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: May 2010 Location: Seattle Posts: 727 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 122 Thanked 1,824 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 0	The way people look and act can be a hint. This is not certain but sometimes it helps. What does it matter whether they are butch or femme or (insert identity) people are people. The only true way is to ask them.

06-02-2010, 04:28 PM	#2
GoofyLuvr Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme :) Preferred Pronoun?: Well golly gee whiz, I bet she would do it! Relationship Status: completely, totally, head over heels in love :) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Maine!!! Posts: 122 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 139 Thanked 162 Times in 53 Posts Rep Power: 163	Let's just say I've learned the hard way not to assume anything! LOL

06-02-2010, 05:19 PM	#3
Curley Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, hey you lol Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Vancouver B.C Posts: 85 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 517 Thanked 133 Times in 48 Posts Rep Power: 659478	It's been said in here it often depends where on lives and their community I live and worked in a very gay environment my gaydar is usually spot on but on the flip side when I'm in a different city My gaydar is often way off ie assuming everyone is gay.....lol.[

06-02-2010, 08:25 PM	#4
chefhottie25 Member How Do You Identify?: boi Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: happily taken Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: ohio Posts: 1,406 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26 Thanked 889 Times in 478 Posts Rep Power: 1175217	I am real bad at this. I have no gaydar. However, I can always seem to identify a bisexual woman.