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			Today I would LIKE to paint my sitting room. I'm still in my jammies on the couch though..... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Later, I'm taking my mom for the results of her Thursday CT scan...really hoping it's good news. Preparing myself in case it isn't. Tonight...I'd LIKE to make dinner. But truly, I need to work on my research paper. 
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			Having my yearly mammo....I can hardly wait.....NOT! The new 3D ones are so much easier. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Since I "skipped" last year (due to so much damn upheavals) it is important I get this now! 
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			A lot of phone calls, Physical Therapy, and then a trip to a consignment store with Mary.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm at work now, and I'm just not feeling it today.  Where is my mind? Where is my energy? I need to shake this!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			It's another gorgeous day here, with blue skies and  sheer nascent cloud haze.  Perfect "wear your sunglasses" type of weather.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I will have brunch soon (garden salad and sliced up chunks of cantaloupe), then take a shower and primp a bit, then go pick up the book that was delivered to the closest library. By the time I practice using my new walking poles, to and from my home and the library, which takes a lot of time, lol (or not), I'll be ready to sit in my living room lounge chair, out on the patio, and bask in the sunshine, while I read my new book (An Man Called Ove). ![]() ![]() LINK to NYT's book review: https://mobile.nytimes.com/2016/10/2...n-success.html Eta: Tom Hanks is working on producing an American adaptation of this book, and will star in it too (as of last fall, which might be due in theaters later this year?). The original Swedish International Best Selling Book and Film debuted in the summer of 2016.  | 
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			Unload and reload the dishwasher 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Sorting through art supplies so I can move into my new studio space tomorrow. Wash dishes. Go out and pick up scripts and cough drops.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			She is the gamer girl to my gamer boy Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			I have a busy day! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Transition over all my team documents to the new Supervisor for my old team. Start reviewing my new teams documents Laundry Prepare dinner Finish making the cake pops And possibly take my dog to the vet, we will see 
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			"drum roll, please"....eye/hearing exam... Yesterday was smash the tatas day! I had to have the whole exam TWICE....and do a 90 degree angle on each PLUS the Radiologist/MD did a free breast exam...to make sure there were NO lumps/bumps/funky things in them tatas! So, THAT is good for a year or so now! Get my "oil changed" and that is good for couple or 3 years now! Tomorrow is the special IV infusion therapy to be done every week for 10 weeks at my oncologist's office. 
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			Finish items on today's cleaning list  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Make final decision on bathroom standalone cabinetry then, taking the great big leap of faith into the unknown, just do it – push the button and order it off Amazon. Make and freeze biscuits before milk in the fridge gets too sour to do anything with. Clip Monte's toenails. I gave him a manicure yesterday but he's been feeling himself a bit too much these days and for some reason, rage against the machine, is now behaving like some sort of freedom fighter for, who even knows what rebel cause. Anyhow in the struggle I missed a couple. It's hard to count toes when a cat is writhing around as if some sort of thing demonically possessed in a horror movie.  | 
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			It's been work all day but it's soooo nice out!  I took a few residents out on walks today.  Win win.  Tonight I am presenting at what was supposed to be a panel presentation for community health workers on the intersections of women's mental and physical health in relation to domestic violence and homelessness.  However, I was informed this morning that it will be just me presenting  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	   Then I will go home and eat the dinner that my handsome one will have made and hopefully get the dog out for a good walk.
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			Get haircut 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Not one damn thing!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Pack the truck, finish dishes, leave for the weekend.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Doing chores, cooking my butch a requested pot of Lima beans, running in town to get some car gas and her carton of cigarettes, laundry, cutting dogs nails and cleaning their faces with the special wipes, brushing their teeth, maybe walking down to the mailbox and back.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Attending a wake for a dear old friend from childhood this evening. It's breaking my heart.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I remember when a Friday night was spent doing something totally different... 
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			 ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ 
			
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	Appt with new PCP for annual exam Bonus: Got a tetanus and flu shot Hoping some chicken teriyaki is what's for lunch with my guy (we took Friday off) Movie later in the evening Ark: Survival Evolved all night  
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			Start dog sitting my brothers dog for the whole weekend. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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