Would you date yourself?

introverted1 · 05-15-2018, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by firecat242

I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.

Brilliant, LOL!!!

WheatToast · 10-28-2018, 04:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by introverted1

Brilliant, LOL!!!

While I do like/love me and consider myself my closest ally, trouble is, I like femmes and I'm just not femme enough for me. Being single, me and I have a friends-with-benefits thing that'll do for now, but if the right femme comes along, I am breaking up with me.

"It's not you, it's me, Wheat."

Chad · 10-28-2018, 05:06 PM

Heck no!

I am butch and I like femmes. I am stubborn and a workaholic. I am never at ease.

Gráinne · 08-27-2024, 10:59 AM

I don't know how I missed this thread when it came out a decade (!) ago. I'm just now "coming back" and re-bumping things myself.

I read the whole thing, and among the laughs and deep thoughts (and pain from some), maybe a better question is: Do you like/love yourself?

For you can't hope to have a great relationship with anyone else until you have such a relationship with yourself.

As for myself, I think if I were to meet myself right now, I'd like my humor, strength, intelligence, and sure, nice looks

, but I'd recognize a troubled person going through a lot. Not that it makes me unavailable, but I'd be cautious about getting involved until a later time.

But I'd also see someone who wants to work hard and get to a great place and is hella smart enough to know how to do it. So yes, I'd date myself and go along for a bumpy but fun ride!

A. Spectre · 08-29-2024, 10:13 AM

Honeybee:

Girl, I been thinkin' 'bout us
And you know I ain't good at this stuff
But these feelings pilin' up won't give me no rest
This might come out a little crazy
A little sideways, yeah maybe
I don't know how long it'll take me
But I'll do my best

You'll be my soft and sweet
I'll be your strong and steady
You'll be my glass of wine
I'll be your shot of whiskey
You'll be my sunny day
I'll be your shade tree
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee

If you'll be my Louisiana
I'll be your Mississippi
You'll be my Little Loretta
I'll be your Conway Twitty
You'll be my sugar, baby
I'll be your sweet iced tea
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee

Complement, not compliment. Well okay, a little of both.

Kätzchen · 08-29-2024, 11:04 AM

Yes. Absolutely.

I date myself every day. I spoil myself everyday. I take wonderful care of me. I hold high regard for myself and do all I can to nurture my independence and to bolster my resilience.

Because I’m worthy of every good intentional act of love and care I give to myself. I honor my body and my existence in life.

<<<<<<<~~~ I save my kisses and use my lips for beautiful acts of love and kindness.

Stone-Butch · 08-29-2024, 02:11 PM

Being Stone I would have to say no. However if I were able to make a change I defintely would date myself as a Stone Femme. I have been told I am easy going, thoughtful, respectful and fun to be around. I had a 22 yr. relationship and a 12 yr. relationship so I must have been a good first date. lol.

08-27-2024, 10:59 AM	#4
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,863 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,111 Thanked 7,382 Times in 1,456 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I don't know how I missed this thread when it came out a decade (!) ago. I'm just now "coming back" and re-bumping things myself. I read the whole thing, and among the laughs and deep thoughts (and pain from some), maybe a better question is: Do you like/love yourself? For you can't hope to have a great relationship with anyone else until you have such a relationship with yourself. As for myself, I think if I were to meet myself right now, I'd like my humor, strength, intelligence, and sure, nice looks , but I'd recognize a troubled person going through a lot. Not that it makes me unavailable, but I'd be cautious about getting involved until a later time. But I'd also see someone who wants to work hard and get to a great place and is hella smart enough to know how to do it. So yes, I'd date myself and go along for a bumpy but fun ride! __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

08-29-2024, 10:13 AM	#5
A. Spectre Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She, Baby Boi Relationship Status: She is my sunrise and sunset. Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: North Shore Chicago Posts: 1,569 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,033 Thanked 11,052 Times in 1,494 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	I will answer this with a Blake Shelton song. Honeybee: Girl, I been thinkin' 'bout us And you know I ain't good at this stuff But these feelings pilin' up won't give me no rest This might come out a little crazy A little sideways, yeah maybe I don't know how long it'll take me But I'll do my best You'll be my soft and sweet I'll be your strong and steady You'll be my glass of wine I'll be your shot of whiskey You'll be my sunny day I'll be your shade tree You'll be my honeysuckle I'll be your honey bee If you'll be my Louisiana I'll be your Mississippi You'll be my Little Loretta I'll be your Conway Twitty You'll be my sugar, baby I'll be your sweet iced tea You'll be my honeysuckle I'll be your honey bee Complement, not compliment. Well okay, a little of both. __________________ * * *Joy and Sorrow are Inseparable

08-29-2024, 02:11 PM	#7
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,615 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,218 Thanked 9,278 Times in 2,996 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Would You Date Yourself Being Stone I would have to say no. However if I were able to make a change I defintely would date myself as a Stone Femme. I have been told I am easy going, thoughtful, respectful and fun to be around. I had a 22 yr. relationship and a 12 yr. relationship so I must have been a good first date. lol.

10-28-2018, 05:06 PM	#3
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,316 Times in 5,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Heck no! I am butch and I like femmes. I am stubborn and a workaholic. I am never at ease.

08-29-2024, 11:04 AM	#6
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, please. Relationship Status: Cherishing my friends & chosen family Join Date: May 2010 Location: Pacific Wonderland ツ Posts: 15,944 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,722 Thanked 33,463 Times in 10,600 Posts Rep Power: 21474867	Yes. Absolutely. I date myself every day. I spoil myself everyday. I take wonderful care of me. I hold high regard for myself and do all I can to nurture my independence and to bolster my resilience. Because I’m worthy of every good intentional act of love and care I give to myself. I honor my body and my existence in life. <<<<<<<~~~ I save my kisses and use my lips for beautiful acts of love and kindness.