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Old 06-21-2018, 10:07 AM   #1
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Lighting a candle for my partner. She's the caretaker for her dad and uncle and they both passed away within days of each other.
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My BFF (sil) received news that she is cleared of cancer. They got everything out and her subsequent tests came back negative, so that's good news for our family.

I'm here again today to light candles for Orema and her partner....

And maintaining candles for myself and others, as well.
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I'm just here again today to light a few candles and maintain vigil for my BFF (sister-in-law) who's having a terrible struggle with her health (Lupus, etc), and for others in our community.

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Been a looooong time since I’ve been here. So much has happened. Please light a candle for my family, my Mom has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease. I’m absolutely devastated. My wife’s oldest daughter died of liver cancer last year and she’s still working through that, lost a grandchild to a drug overdose, my wife had another stroke, the list just goes on and on. Please pray for me
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Lighting a candle and saying a prayer for Tamara Ackerman aka Social Justice's daughter, friends and family. Tamara died on June 15th.
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I’m just here to light candles for those of us who are struggling with health issues and for those of us in our country who are not white and face scary times, worrying if we’ll be picked up and sent to horrid private prisons where no one will ever find us and for people across the world who have no food or health safety or are being killed because people hate them and want their land as if it’s theirs to have and also lighting candles for those whose lives have been upended by losing their jobs because of a hateful person who (…).

It’s just so scary right now.

Nobody seems to care.

I’m lighting candles for all that is wrong in the world with faith and hope that we will all unite against the atrocities that are committed every second of every day and night.



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Today, my BFF (Sister-in-law) received news from our family doctor that she also has the diagnosis of Sweets Syndrome, which was deeply upsetting to her and all of us. We don't know yet what course of action will be taken, but I'm lighting candles again and holding good thoughts for her. And lighting candles for myself and others, as well.

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My BFF (Sister-in-law) went to her first Cancer doctor appt today and she's got an diagnosis of MGUS (it's an blood cell disorder, which can turn fatal), which seems to share an connection to her ongoing auto-immune disease issues and Lupus.

The cancer specialist said it could turn into cancer, but the test put her in the clear for the time being. She'll get retested next spring, six months from now.


So I'm here to light candles of gratitude for my Sister-in-law (BFF) and to also keep with my own vigil for her, myself and others in our community who are experiencing stressful health issues and conditions.


Sending positive light and all the good JuJu I can, for all of us.




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I'm here again today to light candles of support for members in our online community.....and for family and friends, alike.


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Lighting a candle for my buddy Elisa. She and her partner lost their little dog, Hartley, to coyotes over the holidays. I haven't spoken with her so I don't know the details, but I know she's not doing well.

Coyotes are no joke in Southern Cali.
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Lighting a candle for my parents and my sweet sister so they will always have a guiding light on the other side. I miss you all so very very much. Only my brother and myself left. His wife died this year.
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Lighting a candle for my buddy Elisa. She and her partner lost their little dog, Hartley, to coyotes over the holidays. I haven't spoken with her so I don't know the details, but I know she's not doing well.

Coyotes are no joke in Southern Cali.
I am so sorry for your friends. We have coyotes here too and it is horrific. The pain and suffering is heart breaking. I will think of your friends.
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