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Old 10-24-2018, 02:13 PM   #1
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My potential/future relationships are negotiable.

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When someone shows you who they are the first time BELIEVE THEM!
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I've NEVER heard of this saying or idiom or whatever it is, but I love it......
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that if they aren’t kinky, it won’t work.
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That it's ok to be kinky, that I need to stop believing that what other people think about me defines me, and that I really am capable of handling things. Who better?
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My potential/future relationships are negotiable.

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Above remains current and valid... although new insight to my own self preservation is becoming quite insightful.

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way easier to be the a'hole in a relationship...no one tries to guilt you, forever and forever, into trying again.
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It's often better to just lay down and take it,
rather than fight about what it all means, and
who's going to come out on top.
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true but unfortunately sometimes you just have to lie there till they think you're dead, which means you can't moan and wince when they take a last few kicks.
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Things arent always what they seem.
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