Butch label disappearing?

TL1 · 11-02-2018, 05:59 PM

Yes yes and yes

So my GP doctor has me under gender neutral in my record. When I saw that I did a double take. That has never come up in my conversations with her! Me being gender neutral so I have no clue how that got there. But I do see that used a lot in the younger generation.

~ocean · 11-02-2018, 06:33 PM

I do think it's disappearing ~ maybe the youth find the ID confining. >Till their btwn. the sheets ~ no peeking lolol they hide .Sometimes the masculine & femme can be scarey . not moi ~I was born a femme .

girl_dee · 11-02-2018, 06:38 PM

i do think it is disappearing.

Greco · 11-02-2018, 06:51 PM

When all is said and done, there does and will continue to exist
Butch/femme...the masculine woman and the femme woman.
No matter what labels are concocted the Yang & the yin
will continue, it is all about energy...so, no matter how many
attempt to erase us, the Butches, non gender conforming woman
will continue, period.

And, by the way, have you heard of the concept of supply and demand?
So, go ahead and believe that femmes will seek other than Butch women,
you just go ahead and think that...smiling.

Yes, Butches are still and will always be here. We all stand on the
shoulders of our ancestors an African saying goes, and so do we,
and so do I, and so do you.

Butch Greco

ps addressing only this so called erasing/disappearing
of butch women strange belief.

girl_dee · 11-02-2018, 06:58 PM

i do think butches will always be here, thank goodness. It’s the label as well as femme that is fading.

Young couples that are clearly what we call Butch-femme do not ID as such.

Greco · 11-02-2018, 07:05 PM

Let's give it say 10, 15 years...in the mean time I and my
friends, and our femmes/femme subs will continue to proudly
call ourselves what the energy already describes...Butch and femme.

Greco...no need to pound that into the ground.

Quote:

Originally Posted by girl_dee

i do think butches will always be here, thank goodness. It’s the label as well as femme that is fading.

Young couples that are clearly what we call Butch-femme do not ID as such.

ksrainbow · 11-03-2018, 12:31 AM

I have not been one to assign myself to a label nor to my partner. In return, my partner was not one to assign a label either.

The ingredients between the two of us were personal. Our *soup* was unique in that we shared our ingredients together with no labels.

Be it a butch label or any other label that is fading and/or lost: our own personal ingredients can be a *label* that we are unique and appealing.

A label is not relative nor required.

Ks-

11-02-2018, 05:59 PM	#1
TL1 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch of stone Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: East coast Posts: 2,892 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,111 Thanked 3,455 Times in 1,007 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Yes yes and yes So my GP doctor has me under gender neutral in my record. When I saw that I did a double take. That has never come up in my conversations with her! Me being gender neutral so I have no clue how that got there. But I do see that used a lot in the younger generation. __________________ "Our bodies were printed as blank pages to be filled with the ink of our hearts”

11-02-2018, 06:33 PM	#2
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,014 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I do think it's disappearing ~ maybe the youth find the ID confining. >Till their btwn. the sheets ~ no peeking lolol they hide .Sometimes the masculine & femme can be scarey . not moi ~I was born a femme . __________________ ~ Always, ocean

11-02-2018, 06:51 PM	#4
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,616 Times in 2,285 Posts Rep Power: 0	B & f When all is said and done, there does and will continue to exist Butch/femme...the masculine woman and the femme woman. No matter what labels are concocted the Yang & the yin will continue, it is all about energy...so, no matter how many attempt to erase us, the Butches, non gender conforming woman will continue, period. And, by the way, have you heard of the concept of supply and demand? So, go ahead and believe that femmes will seek other than Butch women, you just go ahead and think that...smiling. Yes, Butches are still and will always be here. We all stand on the shoulders of our ancestors an African saying goes, and so do we, and so do I, and so do you. Butch Greco ps addressing only this so called erasing/disappearing of butch women strange belief.

11-02-2018, 06:38 PM	#3
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	i do think it is disappearing.

11-02-2018, 06:58 PM	#5
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	i do think butches will always be here, thank goodness. It’s the label as well as femme that is fading. Young couples that are clearly what we call Butch-femme do not ID as such.

11-03-2018, 12:31 AM	#7
ksrainbow Member How Do You Identify?: Valued Relationship Status: UNO Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,759 Thanked 2,193 Times in 574 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I have not been one to assign myself to a label nor to my partner. In return, my partner was not one to assign a label either. The ingredients between the two of us were personal. Our soup was unique in that we shared our ingredients together with no labels. Be it a butch label or any other label that is fading and/or lost: our own personal ingredients can be a label that we are unique and appealing. A label is not relative nor required. Ks-