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GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?:
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When all is said and done, there does and will continue to exist Butch/femme...the masculine woman and the femme woman. No matter what labels are concocted the Yang & the yin will continue, it is all about energy...so, no matter how many attempt to erase us, the Butches, non gender conforming woman will continue, period. And, by the way, have you heard of the concept of supply and demand? So, go ahead and believe that femmes will seek other than Butch women, you just go ahead and think that...smiling. Yes, Butches are still and will always be here. We all stand on the shoulders of our ancestors an African saying goes, and so do we, and so do I, and so do you. Butch Greco ps addressing only this so called erasing/disappearing of butch women strange belief. |
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Practically Lives Here
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i do think butches will always be here, thank goodness. It’s the label as well as femme that is fading.
Young couples that are clearly what we call Butch-femme do not ID as such. |
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Let's give it say 10, 15 years...in the mean time I and my friends, and our femmes/femme subs will continue to proudly call ourselves what the energy already describes...Butch and femme. Greco...no need to pound that into the ground. |
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I have not been one to assign myself to a label nor to my partner. In return, my partner was not one to assign a label either.
The ingredients between the two of us were personal. Our *soup* was unique in that we shared our ingredients together with no labels. Be it a butch label or any other label that is fading and/or lost: our own personal ingredients can be a *label* that we are unique and appealing. A label is not relative nor required. Ks- |
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Timed Out - Permanent
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While many of the Gen X, Millennials, Xennials (Gen Y), and the upcoming Gen Z (iGen), etc. may claim gender neutrality, I think that as long as identification continues, there will be a butch/femme dynamic happening in one way or another - whether overt or hidden and undeclared.
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