What do you find therapeutic?

FireSignFemme · 04-18-2019, 06:10 PM

Writing, uncensored getting all those feelings out, then burning what I've written.

Buying canning jars too roughed up to use for canning, taking them home/outside, and smashing them all to bits. Then sweeping up the mess. Tranquil.

Ask others what they suggest when it comes to fixing a problem. Then in most cases, do my all out level best to do the exact opposite. Sometimes I don't know what the right choice is until I hear the wrong, stupid one.

Doing something nice for someone I care about who has it so much worse than me. I had a nun suggest that to me once and so long as it's done in moderation, it really is helpful.

kittygrrl · 04-20-2019, 12:57 PM

the morning after

Bèsame* · 04-21-2019, 05:09 PM

Planting pretty geraniums on my balcony..

And they are pink!

C0LLETTE · 04-21-2019, 05:15 PM

Listening to Post Modern Jukebox works for me (too)

Kätzchen · 10-31-2019, 10:43 PM

Soaking in a hot tub, while watching the waves roll in at the beach. There's nothing like the breeze of cool salty ocean air and watching the birds fly above and hearing the waves crash onto the beach nearby, while soaking in the hot tub.

Vincent · 11-01-2019, 12:29 AM

walking Scout through the rainforest to dreamtime beach at dawn,just me n her and the ocean,the joy in that pitty/staffie smile they have.
playing guitar and trying to find the notes for my voice

watching the birds,in my garden,ive turned it into a mini rainforest,planting indiginous plants,that grow local to this area,attracting the local birds.

And yes,a hot bath

RebelDyke · 11-01-2019, 11:02 AM

sitting outside by a bonfire, watching the star or the fire, smoking a cigar

Kansas has the most beautiful stars (as well as Minnesota)

04-20-2019, 12:57 PM	#2
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04-21-2019, 05:09 PM	#3
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10-31-2019, 10:43 PM	#5
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, please. Relationship Status: Attached to my granddaughter & chosen friends and family.. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Enjoying life @ home ツ Posts: 16,101 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,737 Thanked 33,528 Times in 10,652 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Soaking in a hot tub, while watching the waves roll in at the beach. There's nothing like the breeze of cool salty ocean air and watching the birds fly above and hearing the waves crash onto the beach nearby, while soaking in the hot tub. __________________ “In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate,” — Isaac Asimov.

11-01-2019, 12:29 AM	#6
Vincent Member How Do You Identify?: Transman Preferred Pronoun?: Him,he Relationship Status: just me Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Tweed Heads Australia Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,204 Thanked 936 Times in 335 Posts Rep Power: 12178444	walking Scout through the rainforest to dreamtime beach at dawn,just me n her and the ocean,the joy in that pitty/staffie smile they have. playing guitar and trying to find the notes for my voice watching the birds,in my garden,ive turned it into a mini rainforest,planting indiginous plants,that grow local to this area,attracting the local birds. And yes,a hot bath __________________ https://soundcloud.com/conormont https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb1y2xyfYSw If Not Me-Who If Not Now-When If Not Here-Where

04-18-2019, 06:10 PM	#1
FireSignFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: N/A Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: WA Posts: 4,434 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37,962 Thanked 10,293 Times in 3,147 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Writing, uncensored getting all those feelings out, then burning what I've written. Buying canning jars too roughed up to use for canning, taking them home/outside, and smashing them all to bits. Then sweeping up the mess. Tranquil. Ask others what they suggest when it comes to fixing a problem. Then in most cases, do my all out level best to do the exact opposite. Sometimes I don't know what the right choice is until I hear the wrong, stupid one. Doing something nice for someone I care about who has it so much worse than me. I had a nun suggest that to me once and so long as it's done in moderation, it really is helpful.

11-01-2019, 11:02 AM	#7
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