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I guess I still don't understand this because I don't believe you should feel like this....
"you're only beautiful and desirable if you're skinny, blonde and fit some standard media notion of beauty." People can crush celebrities all they want, its not like going their going to end up with them. And the deal breaker is....just because they're gorgeous or famous, does in no way set a standard as to what is beautiful...at least not for me. I thought it was all in play, anyway, until it finally it came down to agreeing as to who was hot on the A-lists. Pretty people can't help being pretty physically. But..... Who gives a shit? I don't. Every body is attracted/attractive to somebody in this world...and for reasons beyond beauty. And there are dozens of them. I'm sorry your sensibilities got knocked about. If I were you, I'd go back in the thread anytime you want and let on that there's a tall, cool glass of water out there for you...because of you. cya around Quote:
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I don't tell myself what I should feel. I ask myself why I feel it, and act accordingly. Like Jo, avoiding situations that make me feel bad about myself is my healthy response. My crush is Queen Latifah in Set It Off. It was a female bank robber movie. She played an unapologetic butch, and she was AWESOME! I have yet to see Chicago. I hear she rocked that, too.
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Reminder: Please honor the purpose of this thread by posting your over 40 crushes. Keep in mind that we cannot "Police" desire, and that not everyone's desires are the same. Also, please try to be sensitive in your use of language, which can come across as sexist if we're not careful! We are all individuals here with varied tastes and interests, if something/someone doesn't float your boat, skip it and post someone that does. |
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![]() I also adore Queen Latifah....and she did rock Chicago....you gotta' be good to mama....
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I haven;t done anything wrong...nothing. I was referring to my earlier post trying to be positive for Just Jo. Maybe you missed that.
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So many over-40 crushes!
Ivan E. Coyote Amy Ray Kay Ryan Alison Bechdel Toshi Reagon Eileen Myles Tracy Chapman Ferron Cheryl Dunye Gayle Rubin For more, see http://www.tophotbutches.com/the-2009-list/ And when I feel really bold, maybe I'll reveal my over 40 (and over 50!) regular-people crushes, some of which might just be right here ![]() Last edited by Heart; 06-08-2010 at 01:00 PM. |
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so lets see....big time crush on my sweetie Jo
![]() i crush on.. Lady Pamela Violaine(dont think she is old enough to be in this category but oh well) Diva NYCFembbw(she isnt old enough either i dont think but again oh well) The Daywalkers Kat/AllyJ and since i put so many REGULAR ppl i feel i can throw in Kristy McNichol(omg loved that woman) and Olympia Dukakis--i know she is up there but dammit she is hot and sassy(at least in Steel Magnolias) but they dont hold a candle to you sweetheart ![]() |
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Yanno.... this here Butch thinks Johnny Depp is way hot! Must be the eye make-up.... There are 2 celebrity men that I would want to look like if I were male, one is Depp, the other is Philippe Cousteau (actually a scientist/celebrity). Frankly, if I were still het/bi, and a whole lot younger, and had the chance.....
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