5 Things No One Would Know About You From BFP Alone

Kätzchen · 12-03-2019, 11:56 PM

My 80 year old mom has a life long problem of helicoptering me, which I have never liked, and which we argue about rather frequently. I love my mom, but I won't tolerate her helicoptering me.

I trim and color my own hair because my hair grows slowly. I like my hair to look as nice as it can be, so that's why I do it on my own.

I don't like sharing my own space at home with anyone other than myself. I like the quiet of my own home and I hope to keep it that way for the rest of my life.

I miss all the food I like to eat, but can't eat anymore. It's a challenge making meals without all the things that will kill me (dairy, sugar, meat, and certain other vegetables: OMG, I miss vine ripe tomatoes the most).

I like Agatha Christie novels and movies. I went to go see Murder On The Orient Express last year and it was simply awesome cinema at it's best.

kittygrrl · 12-04-2019, 01:59 PM

i clinically died on an operating table when i was 27
i would be happiest in a world full of women, no men
i'm a pessimist, by nature
i've faced death more then once
i love working with wood

JustLovelyJenn · 01-05-2020, 07:38 PM

I have severe social anxiety
I have spent most of my life making sure everyone around me is happy and fulfilled
I am passionate... about pretty much everything I do
I want to support LGTBQ youth in every way I can
I dream of living in a cabin in the woods with no electricity or running water

Orema · 01-06-2020, 05:33 AM

Sometimes I give phony names at take out restaurants and coffee shops. I usually use a relative’s name.

I don’’t believe in God but I believe in the power of prayer.

I talk to deceased relatives. Usually when I have heavy things on my mind.

I love train rides.

I’m thinking of getting a kitty after not having one for decades.

nycfem · 01-06-2020, 10:53 PM

Thinking of five things for this thread often feels so hard. It can take me forever, and sometimes I abandon posting on this thread because I get stuck. I have no idea why it's so hard

My butch falls asleep easily every night, while for me going to sleep is like lighting a fire with sticks: very hard.

Please pass the sweet potato fries, always.

For many years I've had a secret name for myself (actually perhaps even since childhood) that would become my name if I was ever "perfect." Sometimes I say that one day I will have that name but then I fail at being perfect, and the name migrates to the background. I kind of like having a secret name for myself that only I know even if I can't ever claim it, and even if the concept of being perfect is quite sad and troublesome. It's always exciting to have a secret and maybe especially a secret name.

I feel on this site I can be myself more than anywhere else on the "web."

12-03-2019, 11:56 PM	#1
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Involved with someone special in my hometown Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a small community Posts: 16,292 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,209 Thanked 33,652 Times in 10,739 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	My 80 year old mom has a life long problem of helicoptering me, which I have never liked, and which we argue about rather frequently. I love my mom, but I won't tolerate her helicoptering me. I trim and color my own hair because my hair grows slowly. I like my hair to look as nice as it can be, so that's why I do it on my own. I don't like sharing my own space at home with anyone other than myself. I like the quiet of my own home and I hope to keep it that way for the rest of my life. I miss all the food I like to eat, but can't eat anymore. It's a challenge making meals without all the things that will kill me (dairy, sugar, meat, and certain other vegetables: OMG, I miss vine ripe tomatoes the most). I like Agatha Christie novels and movies. I went to go see Murder On The Orient Express last year and it was simply awesome cinema at it's best. __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. ”Without justice, democracy dies,” — Jess Michaels (Epstein survivor). ”The planet can provide for human need, but not human greed,” — Dr Jane Goodall. ”The needs of the many, outweigh the needs of the few.” — Spock in Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan (1982).

12-04-2019, 01:59 PM	#2
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: baker Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: dreaming of gingerbread Posts: 9,789 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,752 Thanked 22,168 Times in 7,235 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	i clinically died on an operating table when i was 27 i would be happiest in a world full of women, no men i'm a pessimist, by nature i've faced death more then once i love working with wood __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

01-05-2020, 07:38 PM	#3
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,991 Times in 3,684 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I have severe social anxiety I have spent most of my life making sure everyone around me is happy and fulfilled I am passionate... about pretty much everything I do I want to support LGTBQ youth in every way I can I dream of living in a cabin in the woods with no electricity or running water __________________ --Jenn

01-06-2020, 10:53 PM	#5
nycfem Moderator How Do You Identify?: femme sub Preferred Pronoun?: Baby Grrl Relationship Status: Attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NYC Posts: 6,795 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 52,990 Thanked 21,401 Times in 5,101 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Thinking of five things for this thread often feels so hard. It can take me forever, and sometimes I abandon posting on this thread because I get stuck. I have no idea why it's so hard My butch falls asleep easily every night, while for me going to sleep is like lighting a fire with sticks: very hard. Please pass the sweet potato fries, always. For many years I've had a secret name for myself (actually perhaps even since childhood) that would become my name if I was ever "perfect." Sometimes I say that one day I will have that name but then I fail at being perfect, and the name migrates to the background. I kind of like having a secret name for myself that only I know even if I can't ever claim it, and even if the concept of being perfect is quite sad and troublesome. It's always exciting to have a secret and maybe especially a secret name. I feel on this site I can be myself more than anywhere else on the "web." __________________ *** How do I... ?** Check out the Members Helping Members thread: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...embers+Helping

01-06-2020, 05:33 AM	#4
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file and sometimes a sinner. Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,750 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,514 Thanked 34,781 Times in 8,985 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Sometimes I give phony names at take out restaurants and coffee shops. I usually use a relative’s name. I don’’t believe in God but I believe in the power of prayer. I talk to deceased relatives. Usually when I have heavy things on my mind. I love train rides. I’m thinking of getting a kitty after not having one for decades.