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Eating black-eye peas for good luck and greens (collards for me) for money.
Also, opening the year with a house that’s spic and span. I did everything but fold the laundry—will get to that later today. Eating chit’lin’s is also a tradition in my family, but I didn’t order any this year. I’ll miss having some with hot sauce. Talking to family on the phone. It’s not a tradition but it’s something I do on most holidays since I don’t live close to family. |
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Collards Greens Ingredients: – Ham bone (with meat on the bone), ham shank, ham hock – Collard Greens – Onion – Celery – Garlic – Red or Chipotle Pepper Flakes Directions: Wash the ham bone, shank, or hock really good. I like to get these fresh from the butcher or meat department. You can use frozen but they tend to be dirtier and are more difficult to wash than the fresh. Add the meat to a pot and cover with water or chicken stock. Bring the meat to a boil then simmer the meat for an hour or so. You don’t want the meat to fall off the bone, but you do want to cook it awhile before adding the greens. Just before adding the greens, sauté everything but the greens till the onions are translucent. Then add the veggies to the ham in the simmering water. Next add your washed collards to the pot and let boil for 30 to 45 minutes depending on how tender you like the greens. I also freeze my greens before cooking. My mother used to grow greens in her garden and would only pick them after the first frost. She said they were sweeter after the first frost. I don’t know if freezing helps, but it’s what I usually do. Add some sliced tomatoes with a little vinegar, some cornbread that does not include sugar or honey, and please invite me over for a taste—I’ll bring wine or dessert! |
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Like Homoe I also don't really have a tradition.But after the holidays it
is nice to chill and have a quiet day at home and watch football. So on that note I,m taking care of some computer work and football on in the background. |
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No chitlns ever again for me. I recently saw a clip of how waste is extracted from chitlins and I’ll never let another one cross these lips. Talk to family and friends. Happy new year! ![]() |
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Originating in Southern California, it has always been a tradition to watch the Rose Parade. This year will be strange without it.
I read somewhere that opening your doors to let the old year out and the new one in..well, I'm going to open the windows too! Start fresh with what I breathe. Food has not really been a tradition, except I can remember having shrimp cocktails while watching football with my Dad. I think I'll do that tomorrow.
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I don't expect to redesign my life in 1.5 days (the amount of time I get off for the holiday) but I expect to see a difference and that's my main goal for this year: to see a difference in all that I do. Go to the gym, see a result. Purge more, see more floor and feel lighter inside. Clean more, see less cat hair and breathe better. Get out and do something different once or twice a month, see what happens. I forgot about this! It's so nice when instant gratification of one form or another kicks in. Quote:
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I. Do. Nothing.
I work on New Year's Eve (by choice, the money's too good to pass on) and while I'm not digging ditches or driving a bus, it's never easy watching everyone else have a good time while I'm on my best behavior. So come New Year's Day I sleep in, wear my yoga pants, eat something fun and drink champagne while I watch TV and nap. Happy 2023!! |
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Like Orema, I have to have the greens and black eyed peas but in the South we eat ham with it too. I was always told the greens represented dollars and the peas coins. If I had cornbread, that would represent gold, but it's hard to find good cornbread up here and I'm not really into making it so no gold for me this year. Not sure what the ham represents but it just goes so well with the others, it doesn't matter to me. All I know is that eating chicken or lobster on New Years Day is a no no. As an Italian, I also eat lentils. I had them all for brunch and it was delicious!
There's a superstition (more than a tradition) of not taking anything out of the house on New Years Day, including trash, but mine is looking pretty full. *eyeballing the can* |
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It was always a day of shrimp cocktail. I don't think there is a specific meaning behind it. I think it just became a tradition at our house. Maybe it was a hangover treat?
My parents always had a New Year's eve party. We were small, holed up in our rooms. I dont remember much about the party except that we would sneak out to get food (it was catered). Also, remember the furniture was moved for dancing. In fact, the cement under the patio was finished with a dance floor finish. ( was fun to slip and slide on in the summer. But, once the pool was put in, it was a dangerous zone) And then there was the aftermath of the party the next morning. So perhaps shrimp cocktail was the "everybody" bloody mary??? Never knew of the black eyes pea thing until I moved to Texas. Oh, and The Rose Parade! Another California tradition.
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I go wherever I'm invited, bring something sweet and eat whatever is served.
Happy New Year, Y'all * * 16th C. Southern Polish expression
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