NEW YEAR,What are your wishes and goals

Gemme · 01-01-2020, 11:32 AM

Not only are we going into a new year but a brand spanking new decade as well, so this New Year feels filled with a bit more positivity and hope than recent New Years. I have some loosely imagined goals but I want them to occur as naturally and organically as possible so that they will be more likely to stick. I have recently started to make some changes that are already delivering results in some aspects of my life, which makes me happy.

firegal · 01-01-2020, 05:28 PM

Wishing that we see a more respectfull kind and polite USA.

Goals …. get more active physically. My house remodel ruled my life in 2019.

Travel a bit more.

Go to see a movie more than 2 a year.

That's all I can come up with as of now;

T

Orema · 12-31-2020, 06:45 AM

Goals:

– Move to the Midwest and set up new condo
– Get to see in person, if not touch, the new babies in the family
– Exercise more than I did this year
– Have a trust created

Bèsame* · 12-31-2020, 09:00 AM

Goals..

Back on track with healthy, smart choice eating. This Covid diet has to cease!

Consciously drink more water. My blood work gave me away!

Stop bringing home plastic bags. At least eliminating 90% of them!

Move my Mom closer to me in the Spring💝💝

CherylNYC · 12-31-2020, 11:40 AM

Build my Garage Mahal.

Cin · 12-31-2020, 01:58 PM

I guess I don't have any goals. The story of my life. Lots of wishes but no goals. Sometimes I think maybe I should wish for goals. But I hesitate because I'm not sure I understand the dangers and complexities that come with being goal oriented. Anyway there is little chance of that ever happening for me. I'd be better served worrying about something that could happen. I'll stick with wishes, I'm more familiar with those.

I wish for peace and loving compassion for myself and for all others. The world appears to be entering a difficult period for human beings. Without caring and watching out for each other the future will be grim. Humans tend to close up tight in an attempt to protect themselves and they build walls instead of bridges. They find enemies to focus blame and hate on when things get difficult. They reach out with greed and selfishness instead of a helping hand and grab with both hands whatever they can for themselves. I doubt the human race will survive with that kind of strategy.

Stone-Butch · 12-31-2020, 10:18 PM

My wishes and goals for 2021 will be to meet some new friends and perhaps a new relationship. To not spend another year alone at my birthday, Xmas and New Years. I look forward to getting rid of this depression and start a new year with more hope and happiness of which I am sorely lacking right now.

I wish that they could stop this virus that has taken so many lives and gave much sorrow to so many families and friends. The vaccination will help but not soon enough for so many around the world. I wish a better new year for all folks, those that have been touched and those who haven't. Keep safe and well and remember each moment is precious in your life. Hold tight to all that you love and let them know how much each day.

Orema · 12-27-2022, 04:27 AM

New knees and maybe a new cat.

Bèsame* · 12-27-2022, 09:19 AM

Find time for me. Organize my clothes situation, lol. Learn how to relax.

First, off with the holiday sweets!!

Bèsame* · 01-18-2023, 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bèsame*

Find time for me. Organize my clothes situation, lol. Learn how to relax.

First, off with the holiday sweets!!

✅ gone sweets!

I have goals..HS reunion!

01-01-2020, 11:32 AM	#1
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,926 Times in 25,666 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	Not only are we going into a new year but a brand spanking new decade as well, so this New Year feels filled with a bit more positivity and hope than recent New Years. I have some loosely imagined goals but I want them to occur as naturally and organically as possible so that they will be more likely to stick. I have recently started to make some changes that are already delivering results in some aspects of my life, which makes me happy. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

12-31-2020, 09:00 AM	#4
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,168 Thanked 41,011 Times in 10,766 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Goals.. Back on track with healthy, smart choice eating. This Covid diet has to cease! Consciously drink more water. My blood work gave me away! Stop bringing home plastic bags. At least eliminating 90% of them! Move my Mom closer to me in the Spring💝💝 __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

12-31-2020, 11:40 AM	#5
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12-31-2020, 01:58 PM	#6
Cin Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: In My Head Posts: 2,815 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,333 Thanked 10,402 Times in 2,477 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I guess I don't have any goals. The story of my life. Lots of wishes but no goals. Sometimes I think maybe I should wish for goals. But I hesitate because I'm not sure I understand the dangers and complexities that come with being goal oriented. Anyway there is little chance of that ever happening for me. I'd be better served worrying about something that could happen. I'll stick with wishes, I'm more familiar with those. I wish for peace and loving compassion for myself and for all others. The world appears to be entering a difficult period for human beings. Without caring and watching out for each other the future will be grim. Humans tend to close up tight in an attempt to protect themselves and they build walls instead of bridges. They find enemies to focus blame and hate on when things get difficult. They reach out with greed and selfishness instead of a helping hand and grab with both hands whatever they can for themselves. I doubt the human race will survive with that kind of strategy. __________________ The reason facts don’t change most people’s opinions is because most people don’t use facts to form their opinions. They use their opinions to form their “facts.” Neil Strauss

12-31-2020, 10:18 PM	#7
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,694 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,335 Thanked 9,388 Times in 3,054 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	New Year wishes and goals My wishes and goals for 2021 will be to meet some new friends and perhaps a new relationship. To not spend another year alone at my birthday, Xmas and New Years. I look forward to getting rid of this depression and start a new year with more hope and happiness of which I am sorely lacking right now. I wish that they could stop this virus that has taken so many lives and gave much sorrow to so many families and friends. The vaccination will help but not soon enough for so many around the world. I wish a better new year for all folks, those that have been touched and those who haven't. Keep safe and well and remember each moment is precious in your life. Hold tight to all that you love and let them know how much each day.

01-01-2020, 05:28 PM	#2
firegal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Don't let the gal part of my screen name fool ya I,m ALL butch! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Tacoma,Washington Posts: 2,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,853 Thanked 11,703 Times in 2,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Wishing that we see a more respectfull kind and polite USA. Goals …. get more active physically. My house remodel ruled my life in 2019. Travel a bit more. Go to see a movie more than 2 a year. That's all I can come up with as of now; T

12-31-2020, 06:45 AM	#3
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12-27-2022, 04:27 AM	#8
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file, but sometimes a sinner. Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,670 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,470 Thanked 34,731 Times in 8,961 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	New knees and maybe a new cat.

12-27-2022, 09:19 AM	#9
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,168 Thanked 41,011 Times in 10,766 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Find time for me. Organize my clothes situation, lol. Learn how to relax. First, off with the holiday sweets!! __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.