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10-28-2023, 06:12 PM
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I cry every day since I learned the news almost 2 weeks ago...
My best, dearest friend up North has been diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic and liver cancer after a really bad stroke. My new Love gave me the greatest gift ever by taking me to see her and say goodbye. His selflessness, compassion and tenderness made me cry. Seeing the most amazing, strong woman in the world so vulnerable and weak absolutely tore my heart out.
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10-28-2023, 10:07 PM
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I’ve been crying all day. Losing my job has been traumatic for me, my dog has been suffering with arthritis and I’m scared to death. I’m not gonna be able to afford her treatment. She’s going to be nine in February so she’s actually very young to have developed arthritis so badly. I just took her into the vet and spent a lot a lot of money on allergy medication and arthritis medication. The allergies are under control. But she can’t even put her foot on the ground. She cannot bear weight on it at all! I have loved all my dogs and each one of them has been special. Moondoggy is exceptional. I can’t stand to see her in pain! I have to call the vet on Monday. I can’t stop crying…
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11-01-2023, 09:14 PM
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The thought of losing my brother to his long illness and fight with diabetes. Wish I could go see him but airfare is outrageously expensive. By early spring we might could go. I just tear up and weep at the thought of losing my brother.
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11-02-2023, 01:24 AM
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My sister's distress. Our mother is now in a geriatric psych ward, having her medications evaluated. She could be there for up to two weeks, and my sister feels that she has abandoned our mother. Also, I think she's feeling out of control - that's an unusual situation for her, and it makes her extremely uncomfortable.
She told me how much she hates to cry. She just stuffs her feelings down and ignores them. I suggested that it might be good for her to get them out. (I really think she could use some therapy.) She just said she can't stand the feeling, and it makes her head hurt and she feels "mushy". She also misses our mother. She said when the transport people took her today it felt heartbreaking, as if they were taking one of her children. My sister and mom have lived together for the past two years, and then my sister found her, what we thought was, the perfect nursing home. It's six minutes away from my sister's house, and she has been to see our mom every day since we moved her there, two weeks ago. I'm worried about Mama too, but she's just going through the system, going through all the red tape of living in a nursing facility. The geriatric psych ward in this hospital specializes in what she needs, and I'm sure they will take care of it as soon as possible (I hope - I do have dark thoughts about them keeping her as long as possible to run up the Medicare bill). But then she will get back to her nursing home, and my sister will get back to her daily visits. She can check in with the nurses daily and attend all of Mama's caretaker team meetings and feel like she's in control again. I just hope my sister doesn't break.
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11-05-2023, 11:12 PM
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When one of my coworkers asked me how my spouse was doing? I just burst into tears because come January she will be 81 years old and she is in heart failure. They replaced the battery in her pacemaker last month. She knows she doesn’t have long. We have talked about her wishes. She wants to die at home. And my dear Mother has Alzheimer’s and doesn’t usually know my sister and I most days anymore. I’m heartbroken that I’m going to lose my spouse and my Mother and I’m not able to cope anymore. All I do is eat to kill the pain and I’m almost at 300lbs. I hate how my life is going right now but I know there are other people way worse off then me.
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11-21-2023, 06:08 AM
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11-28-2023, 05:10 PM
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A Korean drama, Extraordinary Attorney Woo. I must have just needed a good cry, because it wasn't even really that sad.
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I love that series. And it touches me that you cried. It demonstrates your ability to be empathetic.
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