Instant Turn-Offs - Page 15

Bèsame* · 11-01-2023, 05:37 PM

Those who tell tales of how they live their life and then it changes as the situation changes.

Don't ya think we will remember????

Kätzchen · 01-14-2024, 01:29 PM

1) Not sure how to articulate this particular type of a huge turn-off, but it turns me off when I hear veiled threats, the type of talking to others that seems like one-up-manship, or the type of verbiage that is insulting to me or others.

I quit my Facebook acct years ago because of noticing this type of verbal behavior by others in their f.b. Posts.

2) Another thing that turns me off is manipulation tactics. Just don’t do it.

3) Another thing that turns me off is perceived superiority. Superiority complex issues is a huge turn off.

Gráinne · 01-16-2024, 11:19 PM

Maybe it's just me, and these weren't even in a dating situation. If I spot these upon meeting, there wouldn't be a date! I have too much football to watch.

1. "Then she was like…And then I was like…So He was like….and then I was like…". I'm sure there are 15 year old's who speak without using "like". I'm talking people my age!

2. "Oh, I'm too old to learn ______". I know people younger than I am who are old, and people many years older than I am who are up for anything. Guess who I'd rather hang out with?

3. A cousin to #2 is: "I'm just not good with math/not a computer nerd/athletic/ artistic/smart enough for *whatever*/insert denigrating statement here. We're all not good at everything, obviously, but I respect people who try something new. How do you know you're "not good"?

4. Any excuses, though I have to work on this myself. That's why I want someone dedicated to owning themselves, not excusing themselves.

kittygrrl · 01-19-2024, 10:30 AM

snow, snow jokes, snow ice cream, people who make snow ice cream and think it's the coolest

nhplowboi · 01-20-2024, 12:06 PM

A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.

kittygrrl · 01-20-2024, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by nhplowboi

A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.

well-spoken

Stone-Butch · 01-22-2024, 02:00 PM

Those who send vague messages cryptically.

Those who speak in innuendoes.

kittygrrl · 01-22-2024, 03:27 PM

know what you want enough so that you aren't tempted to change it...displaying such weakness with a femme is a catastrophe ...

Soft*Silver · 01-22-2024, 10:18 PM

Big things …., Possessiveness makes me cringe. Its twin is jealousy. If I sense someone carries these swords into a relationship, past or present, I am uninterested.

I know my worth. I am a good woman. If I wasn’t being treated as such, that would be very distasteful.

Little things…. Not brushing teeth or any poor hygiene, rolling their eyes, and poor manners

kittygrrl · 01-28-2024, 01:39 PM

Mediocre .....

Stone-Butch · 01-28-2024, 09:19 PM

Being judged by a few words on paper after having never met that person.

kittygrrl · 01-29-2024, 02:05 PM

co dependent....inotherwords she may be into you but it's not because you're f**king amazing but available to fill her void...clue ..

it won't

Kätzchen · 06-10-2024, 10:59 AM

Don’t get me wrong, I like coffee. But it’s knowing that there might be super creepy people who drink coffee and stare at pictures of women who are half dressed in revealing clothing — which to me, screams “Y U C K O.”

I find this type of behavior a huge turn off because in American media we already are inundated with this type of very abnormal behavior (ie, the orange cheato, etc).

kittygrrl · 06-10-2024, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Kätzchen

Don’t get me wrong, I like coffee. But it’s knowing that there might be super creepy people who drink coffee and stare at pictures of women who are half dressed in revealing clothing — which to me, screams “Y U C K O.”

I find this type of behavior a huge turn off because in American media we already are inundated with this type of very abnormal behavior (ie, the orange cheato, etc).

If you're referring to My coffeebreak thread why not come out in say it Kat instead of passive aggressive smack? If i'm yucko to you so be it..but i DON't judge people for their tastes, only their cruel uncalled remarks. That's what Trump does, and it's surprising coming from you. Disappointing actually

Kätzchen · 06-10-2024, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

If you're referring to My coffeebreak thread why not come out in say it Kat instead of passive aggressive smack? If i'm yucko to you so be it..but i DON't judge people for their tastes, only their cruel uncalled remarks. That's what Trump does, and it's surprising coming from you. Disappointing actually

This happened this morning while waiting in line at a local coffee shop.

I’d appreciate it greatly if you did not make assumptions like this.

Thanks.

kittygrrl · 06-10-2024, 02:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kätzchen

This happened this morning while waiting in line at a local coffee shop.

I’d appreciate it greatly if you did not make assumptions like this.

Thanks.

Give me a break Kat, cop out if you want to but it's obvious that's what you meant and you made your point. Nobody is forcing you to look in Coffee break. It's a free country to be as narrow minded as Trump, just admit that's who you are, i'd at least respect owning your truth. If you don't want to follow the TOS that's up to you, but don't try to gaslight me..It's not cool

11-01-2023, 05:37 PM	#281
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01-14-2024, 01:29 PM	#282
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, please. Relationship Status: Cherishing my friends & chosen family Join Date: May 2010 Location: Pacific Wonderland ツ Posts: 15,944 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,722 Thanked 33,463 Times in 10,600 Posts Rep Power: 21474867	3 types of turn offs… 1) Not sure how to articulate this particular type of a huge turn-off, but it turns me off when I hear veiled threats, the type of talking to others that seems like one-up-manship, or the type of verbiage that is insulting to me or others. I quit my Facebook acct years ago because of noticing this type of verbal behavior by others in their f.b. Posts. 2) Another thing that turns me off is manipulation tactics. Just don’t do it. 3) Another thing that turns me off is perceived superiority. Superiority complex issues is a huge turn off. __________________ “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, then you have chosen the side of the oppressor,” — Archbishop Desmond Tutu. “A winner is a dreamer who never gives up,” —Nelson Mandela “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time,” — Maya Angelou Last edited by Kätzchen; 01-14-2024 at 01:32 PM.

01-16-2024, 11:19 PM	#283
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,863 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,111 Thanked 7,382 Times in 1,456 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Maybe it's just me, and these weren't even in a dating situation. If I spot these upon meeting, there wouldn't be a date! I have too much football to watch. 1. "Then she was like…And then I was like…So He was like….and then I was like…". I'm sure there are 15 year old's who speak without using "like". I'm talking people my age! 2. "Oh, I'm too old to learn ______". I know people younger than I am who are old, and people many years older than I am who are up for anything. Guess who I'd rather hang out with? 3. A cousin to #2 is: "I'm just not good with math/not a computer nerd/athletic/ artistic/smart enough for whatever/insert denigrating statement here. We're all not good at everything, obviously, but I respect people who try something new. How do you know you're "not good"? 4. Any excuses, though I have to work on this myself. That's why I want someone dedicated to owning themselves, not excusing themselves. __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

01-19-2024, 10:30 AM	#284
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: 'dark matter' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near wild mushrooms Posts: 9,316 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,925 Times in 7,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	snow, snow jokes, snow ice cream, people who make snow ice cream and think it's the coolest __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

01-22-2024, 02:00 PM	#287
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,615 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,218 Thanked 9,278 Times in 2,996 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Instant Turn Offs Those who send vague messages cryptically. Those who speak in innuendoes.

01-20-2024, 12:06 PM	#285
nhplowboi Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: male pronouns Relationship Status: Divorcee Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,320 Thanked 3,886 Times in 825 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	*A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.*

01-22-2024, 03:27 PM	#288
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: 'dark matter' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near wild mushrooms Posts: 9,316 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,925 Times in 7,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	know what you want enough so that you aren't tempted to change it...displaying such weakness with a femme is a catastrophe ... __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

01-22-2024, 10:18 PM	#289
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,911 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	Big things …., Possessiveness makes me cringe. Its twin is jealousy. If I sense someone carries these swords into a relationship, past or present, I am uninterested. I know my worth. I am a good woman. If I wasn’t being treated as such, that would be very distasteful. Little things…. Not brushing teeth or any poor hygiene, rolling their eyes, and poor manners __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

01-28-2024, 01:39 PM	#290
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: 'dark matter' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near wild mushrooms Posts: 9,316 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,925 Times in 7,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Mediocre ..... __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

01-28-2024, 09:19 PM	#291
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,615 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,218 Thanked 9,278 Times in 2,996 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Turn offs Being judged by a few words on paper after having never met that person.

01-29-2024, 02:05 PM	#292
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: 'dark matter' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near wild mushrooms Posts: 9,316 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,925 Times in 7,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	co dependent....inotherwords she may be into you but it's not because you're fking amazing but available to fill her** void...clue .. it won't __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

06-10-2024, 10:59 AM	#293
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, please. Relationship Status: Cherishing my friends & chosen family Join Date: May 2010 Location: Pacific Wonderland ツ Posts: 15,944 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,722 Thanked 33,463 Times in 10,600 Posts Rep Power: 21474867	Don’t get me wrong, I like coffee. But it’s knowing that there might be super creepy people who drink coffee and stare at pictures of women who are half dressed in revealing clothing — which to me, screams “Y U C K O.” I find this type of behavior a huge turn off because in American media we already are inundated with this type of very abnormal behavior (ie, the orange cheato, etc). __________________ “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, then you have chosen the side of the oppressor,” — Archbishop Desmond Tutu. “A winner is a dreamer who never gives up,” —Nelson Mandela “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time,” — Maya Angelou